谈恋爱需要注意4个问题

　　nvpengyouchaojianaofenshouduojiulianxibijiaohao，zailianrenguanxizhong，chaojiahefenshoushihennanbimiande。danshi，dangmianlinzheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，henduorendouhuijiujiefenshouhouduozhangshijianzaicilianxi。zheizhongqingkuangmeiyouyigegudingbudongdehuida，yinweimeiduiqinglvdeqingkuangdoubuyiyang。danshi，zongeryanzhi，lengjingfenxihehuanjiejiaolvshizhuyaodediyibu。genjujiduifangyixieshijianhekongjianlaidiaozhengqingxu，nenggougenghaodiquedingshifouzaicilianxi。zaizheiguochengzhong，shuangfangyingdangzonghekaolvzishenhebierendeganshou，yizhaodaoshihedejihuizaicilianluo。

　　调节情绪，探寻均衡

　　nvpengyouchaojianaofenshouduojiulianxibijiaohao，danglianrenchaojiabingdachaodanaofenshoudechengdushi，tongchangdeqingxuchuyugaoduguodujinzhang。zheishihou，zuizhongyaodeshishuangfangyaopingjingxialai，jiduifangyixieshijianhekongjianlaihuanjiejiaolv。fenshouzhihoudelianxibingfeijinpodeshier，zaizheigeshihou，shouxiandiaojiezijideqingxu。

　　chaojiasuodailaidexiaojiqingxuhejinpoganxuyaoyidingshijianlaixiaohua。pingjingxialai，nengbangzhuwomengenghaodidulisikaoyuchulijiuge。zheiyiduanshijianbujinkeyirangbiciqingchuyuanqi，haikeyirangwomenshensishulvheduifangdeguanxidaodizhibuzhidewanliu。

　　给对方室内空间，重新思考关系

　　fenshoubingbudengyuwanquanduanjuelaiwang，fanershilinshirangshuangfangyouyiduanshijianbikai，weizijigenduifangyigelizhi、fansidejiyu。zheishibiciyaobaochiyiduanshijiandeshidujianju，buyaopinfanlianluo，linghuoyunyongzheigeshihoulaizhenglizijideguandianyuqinggan。

　　dangwomenlikaimourendeshejiaoquanziyiduanshijianhou，womenjiunenggengkeguankeguankandaizishenheduifangzaiguanxizhongcunzaidewenti。zhongxinsikaoguanxidezhuduo，bujinkeyigenghaodifajuecunzaidewenti，yekeyigenghaodilejiezijideyaoqiuheqiwang。zheigeguochengxuyaoshizhang，jiduifangshidudeshijianyukongjian，nengbangzhuwomengenghaodiliqingsilu，weijinhoudeguanlijuecezuochugengzhengquedexuanze。

　　探寻合适的时间，再次取得联系

　　jingguoyiduanshijiandelengjingfenxihefansheng，zaishidangdeshihou，shuangfangkeyikaolvdaozaiciqudelianxi。danshi，bingmeiyouyigegudingbudongdeshijianzhouqilaiquedingshenmeshihoushihuangjinshijian。meiduiqinglvdeqingkuangdoubuyiyang，xuyaogenjuxiangxiqingkuanglaipanding。

　　zaiwomenquedingzaicilianxishi，keyixuanzeyigeshidangdeshiji，liruyigeteshuderizihuozheyigeshidangdechangsuo，yibiaodazijichengxinyuxiwangzhongguiyuhao。zaizhongxinlianxishi，biciyaobaochibaorongdexintai，tanchengdigoutongjiaoliu，xianghuzhijianlingtingyulijiebierendeganshou，congerweijinhoudeguanxijiyuyigexindejieding。

　　jianxinbuyiyangdexiaoqinglvdouyouzhebutongdehuida，erzhaodao“huangjinshijian”xuyaodajiachongfenkaolvzijiyubierendeganshou，jiqiguanxizhongdegezhongyinsu。

　　结束语：

　　nvpengyouchaojianaofenshouduojiulianxibijiaohao，nvyouchaojianaofenshouhouduozhangshijianlianluobijiaohao，meiyoudaan。zhongdianzaiyushuangfangyaopingjingxialai，jiduifangshijianhekongjianlaidiaojieqingxu、zhongxinsikaoguanxi。tanxunheshideshijian，zaiciqudelianxi，bingqietongguozhenchenggoutongjiaoliulaizhongjianxinrenhegaizhengwenti。ciwai，meiyiduanaiqingdoushiduyiwuerde，yiner，zuihoujueceyingdanggenjubicizhijiandezhenshitiyanhexianghuzhijiandelijieyuzunzhong。