男朋友拥有这些特质 说明他是的

　　nvpengyouyaofenshoulezenmewanliu，zuonvpengyoumingquetichufenshoushi，dajiamianlinzheyigejiannandejueze。danshi，wanhuiganqingkenengshiyigezhidechangshidetiaoxuan。tongguogoutongyulijie，lingtingtayaoqiubingbiaodanideganshou，goujianqibicizhijiandexinrenyuzhichixitongruanjian。zhanxianniduitaaihechengnuo，bingxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。zhanxianchudiaozhenghechengzhangdelianghaoyixiang，jiqidanfuzijidewenti。zhuixunwanliuyiduanganqingxuyaoyiduanshijian、reqingheqinfen，danshiruguonizhenxinshiyixiangwanhui，qinfenkenengyouyidingdeshouyi。

　　第一步：接受现实

　　nvpengyouyaofenshoulezenmewanliu，fenshoushiyizhongshiji，erwowubirenqingta。buguanwomenyouduoshebude，nvpengyoulikaiyichengshishi。danshi，bingbuyiweizhedajiasheqi，ershiyinggaixunzhaowanhuiganqingdebanfa。

　　第二步：反省与反思

　　zaitansuowanliuganqingyiqian，womenyinggaishencengcisikao，bingfanshengzijizaizheiduanganqingzhongderenwu。zheigeguochengxuyaoyilihechengxin，chengrenzijidecuowuyubuzu，bingweicichongfenzhunbei。

　　第三步：回应和沟通

　　hezuoshiganqingzhongdegenji。yunvyouzuochulaihaohaoditanyitan，lingtingtaxiangfaheganshou，lejietaweishenmeyaofenshou。bubizhengzhihuomaiyuan，fanershibaochilixinghelixing，yikaifangdetaiduqulejieduifang。

　　第四步：更改与承诺

　　zhanxianjinvpengyounizhenzhengdegaibianhechengzhang。chulinimendeguanxinanti，bingbiaodanidexinxinhechengnuoqujiuzhengcongqiandebuzhengque。rangqikanjiannikeyiweilezheiyiduanganqingzuochunuliziwogaibian。

　　第五步：重构诱惑力

　　chukaineizaigenggai，waizaipinpaixingxiangyefeichangzhongyao。zhaoguhaozijipinpaixingxiang，baochilianghaoyibiaohelianghaodeshenghuoxiguan。zhongsuzijideyingxiangli，rangnvpengyoukandaoyigegengyouzixinheyouqizhideni。

　　第六步：给与空间和时间

　　jiusuannipoqiexiwangwanliuganqing，yeyingjiyunvpengyouzugoudeshijianyushijianqusikaohelizhi。bubichixujiuchanbuqinghuobitahuiguotou，fanershizhongshitaqueding。

　　第七步：迅速行动与展示情意

　　caiqujijixingdonglaishuomingnideqingyi。youkenengshijitazuoyixieteshudeshier、jitasongyifendongrendelipin，huozhecanyuyixieyouyisidehuodong，zhanxianniduitaguanhuaihegaoduzhongshi。

　　第八步：重新建立关联驱动力

　　shizhekaichuangxinzuimeihaodehuiyihegongtongtiyan，zheiyouliyuzhongxinqidongbicizhijiandeguanxiqudongli。yiqiqulvxing、canyuyouyiyidehuodong，jinkenengyingzaoyizhongjijizhudong、kuaileyuchongmanjiqingdeqifen。

　　第九步：保持开心与信心

　　wanliuyiduanganqingshiyiduanmanzhangdelvcheng，zaiqizhongkenengmianlinbuchenggongyucuozhe。baochikaixinyuduiganqingdezixin，jianxinnimendeganqingyoumeihaodemingtian。

　　第十步：面对现实与成长

　　buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang，douyaojieshoushijibingchengzhang。youshihou，jibianfuchulenulixuduo，dajiayewufamibuganqing。danbingbudaibiaodajiazainijingzhongbingmeiyouchengzhang，jiangzheixiejinglizuoweirenshengdangzhongyitangke，bianchenggenghaodeziji。

　　nvpengyouyaofenshoulezenmewanliu，wanhuiyiduanganqingxuyaonaixin、nuliyuzhenzhidexinyi。womenyinggaiyileguandetaidulaimiandui，bingxiangxinzhenzhengdeaiqinghuijingdeqikaoyan。