情感咨询：婆婆在我面前总提起老公前任怎么办

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一、情感咨询

 wohelaogonggangjiehun2geyue，womenyidi，gaotiesanxiaoshi，houmiankaolvjiejueyidiwenti。youciwoqutadechengshidangshilaogongbuzaijia，popotiqiwolaogongde2geqianren，youtiqidangchujitajieshaodeduixiang，neirongdouxizhidaotamendeyixieshenghuosuoshi。

 jiehunqian，tayezongtiqihaojici，jiciwodoumeizuosheng，beidiliwohenanpengyou(xianzaidelaogong)shuoguorangtahetamamashuobuyaozaishuoleguanyutadeqianren，tayinggaishihetamamashuoguode，suoyiyouhenzhangyiduanshijiantamamadoumeiyoushuoqi。

 zheiyicihunhoupopodiyicitiqilaogongqianren，wohenbugaoxing。sidixiahelaogongshuo，rangtahetamamashuoshuo，zheiyangzhendehuiyingxiangwomendeshenghuo，jieguohoulailaogongshuopopohetashuoshiwoxiantiqide。

 guanjianshilaogongdeyuqiganjueshiwozaisahuang，wohenweiqu，hetachao，tashengqi，tazaidianhualimianshuorangwobieguadianhuataquzhiwenpopodaodishisheixianshuode，houlaidejieguoshipopozaidianhuaneibianshuo，zheigeshishixiaoshiwomenfanbuzheweizheigechaojia(yemeiyouzhengmianhuida)。qingwenzheigeshishiwofangfabuduima？woshibushichongdongle？yihoucileiwentiwohaigaizenmechuli？

二、情感解答

 muqianzaizheijianshilizhanbianyideshinipopo，tayongyiju“shixiaoshinimenfanbuzheweizheigechaojia”jiumohuletazaizheijianshizhongdezeren，tongshihaizainilaogongyanli，banisuzaochengleyigexihuanweixiaoshijinjinjijiaodenvren。zaiduanweirucixuanshudeqingkuangxia，jixuzhouxuanzhihuizitaokuchi，yuqijihenpopo，burugaibianziji。

 zaipopodiyicitiqizheijianshideshihou，nijiukeyiwanmeihuajie，kexinicuoguoleshiji。ruguonishixinggezhijieyidiandenvhaizi，keyishuo：mamanishishenmeyisini？nishibushijuedewopeibushangnimenjiaxx？

 ruguonixinggeruoshiyidian，keyishangxindishuo：mamanizheimeshuowotingnanguode，nishibushixinlihaiyougenghaodeerxifuduixiang......ranhoubatadehuidayongshoujiluxialai，dujuetaxiangaozhuanghuosahuangdeqingkuang。

 lingwai，nvhaizideqingshangbenjiubinanshenggaochuxuduo，nideqingshangdoujiejuebuledeshiqing，diujinilaogongtagengshiwufajiejue。huanyanzhi，ruguonizhiwangyigekeyijiejuecileishiqingdelaogong，neitayidingfeichangjian，jiandaoxuyaonilaiqiuhun、maizuanjie、maifangzilaigentajiehun。

所以，遇到这种事情，求助老公是最不明智的行为。今天你搞定不了婆婆，明天有可能就会有讨厌的小姑子来烦你，后天还可能会有老公的女同事来搞事情，这是一场你和自己之间的战争。只有把情商提高起来，不再怕遇到这些事情，你的婆婆才会忌惮你，你的老公也会更爱你。