如何维持恋爱的新鲜感？

　　dangnvshengjuedingyunanshengfenshoushi，tajiangmianlinhenduochiyihedanyou。danshi，tanengtongguozhenchengerzhongshidefangshiqubiaodazheigexuanze。nvshengzenmejinanshengshuofenshou？takeyikaolvzhenchengerwenroudibiaodazijidexiangfaheliyou，daishangguanhuaiheganenzhiqing，zhufuduifangweilaidexingfu。zheizhongfenshoufangfahenyoukenenggengrongyibaocunbicizhijiandezunyantanxunxinshenghuodejiyu。fenshouhuoxushitongkude，danshiyiyizhongwanshanlixingdefangfawanbiaiqing，henyoukenengnengweibicichanshenggenghaodemingtian。

　　真诚和尊重：表达真实体验

　　nvshengzenmejinanshengshuofenshou，dangnvshengyishidaoleyunanshengdeaiqingzaoyiwufazaijixufazhanshi，takenengmianlinyigejianxinerbeishangdequeding：jinanshengshuofenshou。danshi，zaizheiyangyigezhongyaoguantou，nvshengkeyixuanzeyongzhenchengerzhongshidefangshiqubiaodazijidezhenshitihui。takeyizhijieshendusikaoheshulizijidexinqing，bingquebaozijidejuedingshilizhimingzhidexuanze。zheileizhenzhidebiaodanengxiaochucaijihewujie，weishuangfangdailaigengduodejielun。

　　温和而确立：表达分手决心

　　zainvshengtiqianzhunbeihaoxiangnanshengbiaodafenshoujuexinshi，takendingxuanzeyigeheshideshijiandidian，chuangzaoyigebijiaokuansongdeqifen。takeyiyongpinghedeyuqiheyongyu，rangnanshengyishidaoletahenrenzhen。jinliangshiyonggongjixingyuyanbiaodahuohuxiangzhizedejudong，ershizhuanzhuyuzijidexiangfayijixuyao。quelibiaodafenshoujuexin，nengrangduifanglejiezheishiyigebukenizhuandequeding，buhuiweitabuzhenshideqidai。

　　感谢和祝福：祝福对方幸福

　　fenshoubingbudengyulianggerenzhijiandeyiqiedoushibuchenggongde。nvshengnengtongguobiaodaganxieyuzhufuxiezhunanshenglejietaquedingbingjieshouta。tanenghuiwangliangrenzaiyiqiqinshenjinglidemeihaohuiyi，bingduilingyibansuozuodegongxianbiaomingganenzhiqing。yucitongshi，tanengzhuyuannanshengweilaidexingfuhechenggong。zheileijijidexintaibudannengjianqingtamenzhijiandefenlichulaizhitong，haikeyirangbiciyigengjialianghaodexintaimianduixindezhujian。

　　维持自尊与间距：给与时间与空间

　　fenshouhou，nvshengyaolinghuidaojiyubicizhijianyidingdekongjianyushijianshifeichangzhongyaode。tayinggaizunzhongnanshengdetiyanhequeding，quebaozaifenshouhouguodudelianluohuojiuchanbuqing。zheimezuonenggoubangzhubicinenggougenghaodidulisikaohejiejuezijidexinqing，yucitongshiyenengcujintamenzhijiandediaojiehehemuxiangchu。weichizunyanjianju，bingtongshiweizijichengzhangyuweilaijieshuixingzhou。

　　和平道别：维持友善联络

　　jinguanfenshoushiyizhongwanbi，danzheibingbuyiweizhelianggerenzhijiandeyiqiedouhuiwanquanduanjue。nvshengyekeyizaishidudeqingxingxiaweichiyoushandelianluo，babicizuoweihaopengyoulaikandai。zheizhongyouyidaobienenggouweirihouxiangfengyujiaoliuzhizaojihui，yerangliangrennenggouchengweilingyifangrenshengdangzhongfazhanxiaohuoban。weichiyoushanlianluo，rangfenshoubianchengrenshenglvchengzhongdeyigeqinshenjingli，erfeifumiandeenyuan。

　　重新启动美好生活：憧憬未来的概率

　　fenshoudaibiaozheyigejieduanchedijieshu，dandaibiaozhexinshenghuodezhujian。nvshengyinggainuliwangjiguoqudekuchuhebugan，weilaizhanwangweilaiderenshenggailv。tanengzhongxinshenshizijidemubiaohejiazhiguannian，bingjizijishezhiyigexindelixianghebaofu。fenshoushiyigejiyu，rangqizaicifaxianzijidanduheyongqi，maixianggengweimeihaoderenshenglvtu。

　　nvshengzenmejinanshengshuofenshou，bulunshizenyangdefangshi，nvshengjinanshengshuofenshoudouyingjianchiyizhongshi、zhenchengherouheweiqianti。zheizhongfenshoufangshikeyipingwenwanbiaiqing，weishuangfangliuyoukuanguangdeweilaifazhankongjian。