恋爱技巧：女人最爱听男人这3句情话

　　nvshengzhaonanshengfenshounanshengxiangyaohegaizenmeban，dangnvshengquedingfenshoushi，nanshengxinlikenengshitongkude，danshiyeyoukenengshikunhuode。yudaozheiyangdeqingkuang，nanshengyinggairuheyingduini？diyi，nanshengyaopingjingxialai，sisuofenshoudeyuanyinjizishenwenti；cizhi，nanshengbixuzhongshinvshengdejuece，baoyuanhuozhuixunzhonggui；ranhou，nanshengyingdanghaohaofanshengzishen，jiuzhengzishencunzaidewenti，tishengziwojiazhi；zuizhong，nanshengnengtongguoyuhaoyougoutongjiaoliuqingtu，xunzhaojingshenshangdeshiyongyujianyi，huozhezhuanyedexinlizixunlaifuzhubaituoxinlijiongjing。jilao，fenshoubuguoshirenshengdeyicijingli，kunjingzhongcaikeyifazhan，weilaihuiyougenghaodejihuiyuxingfuwozaidengdai。

　　男生痛苦里的茫然

　　nvshengzhaonanshengfenshounanshengxiangyaohegaizenmeban，nvshengzhaonanshengfenshou，nanshengxinlikenengjuedetongkuyumangran。tamenbingbuqingchuzenmekandai，jiqidaiwanhuiaiqing，youmianduinvshengdeguoduanqueding。zaizheiyangyigenijingzhong，nanshengruhemianduihejiejueni？

　　1. 保持理性和尊重

　　dangnvshengbiaoshufenshouyixiangshi，nanshengshouxianyinggaijiejinquanlibaochilixinghelixing。buyaoxianruqingxudebodongzhong，suiranxinlihenyoukenengchongchizhebuanhetongku，danzhongshinvshengdejueceshiweixilianghaoguanxideqianti。

　　2. 反省与反思

　　fenshouyihou，nanshengbixushencengcifanshengziji，bingtanrandizhimianzijicunzaidebuzu。zheishiyigefanshengziwo、fazhanziwogaibiandeshijianduan。nanshengnenggousisuoyiwangdexingweiheyancishifoucunzaishangdaonvsheng，cunbucunzaijiejueqingxudebuzhengquefangfa，yicizhuixunziwotigaodefangwei。

　　3. 丰富个人或提升自我价值

　　fenshoubingbudengyushenghuodejieshu，fanguolai，zheishizhongxinmianduizijidejihui。nanshengyingdangzhiliyugerenchengzhang，zhuiqiuzijidexingquyulixiang。zaixuexizhongxindejineng、canyuxiuxianhuodong、jiaqiangduanliandengxingshi，tigaozijidezonghenenglihejiazhi，tigaozixinxin。

　　4. 靠朋友和家人的鼓励

　　zaijinglilefenshoudekunjingshi，nanshengxuyaoyouyigekexinlaidezhongduanruanjian。heyaohaodepengyouyujiarengongxiangzijidexiangfa、tongkujiqiqingganshangdejiejue，qingtuzishendexinxu。tadelijiehezhichikeyibangzhunanshengduguonanguan，zhongshishenghuodequdonglihexinxin。

　　5. 寻找专业心理咨询

　　youshi，fenshounengjinanshengchanshengwufakefudexinlikunhuo。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanshengkeyixuanzexunzhaozhuanyexinlizixundezhichi。xinlixuezixunshikeyigenjugerenqingkuangyijixuyao，jiyuzhuanyedejianyi、zhidaohezhichi，xiezhunanshengnenggougenghaodiyingduiqingxucuobai、tongkuhemimang。

　　6. 创造新的逐渐

　　fenshoukenengshiyiduankunnandeqinshenjingli，tongshiyeweinanshengdailailexindejiyu。wangjiguoqudetongku，weizijiyigexindekaishi，xiangxinweilailangsonghuiyougenghaoderenyujiyujingjingdedengdai。nanshengyaoleguanmianduishenghuo，baochileguandexintai，jianxinweilaiderenshengjianghuigengjiameihao。

　　nvshengzhaonanshengfenshounanshengxiangyaohegaizenmeban，bulunshixiyinaiqinghaishiyonggandemianduifenshou，nanshengdouyinggaizunzhongnvshengdejuece，bingzaiciguochengzhongxuehuichengzhanghetigaoziji。fenshoubuguoshirenshengzhongdeyiduanjingli，genjuqingxingdesikaoyuxunsuxingdong，nanshenghaikeyijixuzhuiqiuzijideaiqingyuchenggong。