情感咨询：在感动和感觉面前如何选择爱情

 aiqingshiyizhongganjue，shenghuozhongyouxierenkaishiyiduanganqingdechuzhongdouyoubutong，jintianhuazhenqingganjiuhenifenxiangyigeqinggananli——zaigandongheganjuemianqianruhexuanzeaiqing。

一、情感咨询

woshiyimingdasidenvsheng，jijiangbiye，danshizainianchudeshihouwodejiatingquezaoyulejudadebiangu。

 eryuefendeshihou，wodefumuzaijiazijijianfang，yinweicaozuobudangfashengyiwaicongsanlouzhuiluo，womuqindangchangququshile，fuqinxianzaibianchenglezhiwuren，wohaiyoulianggedidi，yige17sui，yige11sui。

 muqiandeqingkuangjiushiwodadidichuoxuezaijiahenainaiyiqizhaogubaba，nainaidouqishiduosuile，nianlaotiruo，woxianzaimianlindeshijiatingheaiqingliangfangmiandekunhuo。xiwangninnengbangbangwo！

家庭：

 muqinqushi，fuqinzhiliaohualejishiwanhaishichenglezhiwuren，womenhaiqianzhewaizhai，nianyoudedidimeiyourenzhaoguhejiaoyu，meicitadebanzhurendouzaiweixinshanghewotucaotabuxiezuoye，mingwanbuling。

 womeitiandoudadianhuahuiqujiandutaxiezuoye，danshiyinweiwodaxuelijialihenyuan，bukenengshishikekepeizaixiaodishenbian，tahaishimeiyougaizhengzheigehuaixiguan，wogandaohenkunao，wozaixiaodimianqianxianzaidaodiyinggaibanyanshenmeyangdejiaose，zenmezuodaoni？

爱情：

 wodenanpengyou，shizaiwomenjiachushizhihouhewozaiyiqide，tahenyouxiuyehenshanliang，shimou985deyanjiusheng，tazhidaowoyizhiguodehenburongyi，yexiwangwokaoyan，bingchengnuoyuanyichengdansuoyoudefeiyong。

 danshiwojuedetadezhangxiangbushiwoxihuandeleixing，wozhishiyinweigandongerzanshihetazaiyiqi，erqiewojuedewodejiatingxianzaixuyaowochuqugongzuo，wobunenghuodezheimezisi。

benlaidadidichuoxuezaijiazhaogubaba，womeinengbangdaota，yijinghenkuijiule，woxianzaiyinggaizenmeban？

二、情感解答

wojingchangjiang：jienagenyunxu，shiwomenyishengdegongke。

wofeichangtongqingnidezaoyu，kexianzaiwentidebenzhishi，nihaimeiyoujieshouxianzaifashengdezheiyiqie。

zheiyidian，youhenduoxijiekeyizhengming。

liru，nishuozijiduididihenkuijiu，kezailiaotianjiluzhong，niyouduitaeyuxiangxiang。

nidadidigennishuo，“didizuoyeyoumeiyouxie”；

jieguonishuo，“neiguanwoshenmeshia”。

 nikeyixiangxiangyixia，ruguonilaizhaowotiwen，wotingwannidewentizhihouduinishuo“neiguanwoshenmeshia”，nishishenmeyangyizhongganshouni？

suoyiqishibenzhishang，jiushinibujieshouxianzai，caihuichuxianzheiyiqie。

wojieshounidetougao，wojintiancaihuimianduinidewenti。

nizhiyoujieshoudidimendexianzai，cainengquzhenzhengdihuiyingtamen。

zheibushiyigejiandandegoutongwenti，zheishiyigejieshouwenti。

nixianzaigenbenbujieshoujintiandezheigechangjing。

lingwai，niyebujieshounidenanpengyou。

 niyaomejiuchedibuyaoxuanta，nixuanlezhihouyoushuo，“woyouxianqitazhangdebuhaokan。” qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

yifangmiantanturenjiachengnuojinideshangxuefeiyong，lingyifangmianyouxianqirenjiabuhaokan。neinigenzheiyangyigerenzaiyiqiganma？

xiangzheiyangdelizi，wohainengjuchuhenduohenduo。

danshiwoyaogaosuni，mingyunhengongping，jintiannibujieshoudedifang，gaitiannidoudelaihai。

biru，nijintianzheiyangduidainidedidimen，ruguozheilianggedididoubuxingwuruqitu，yihousheimaidan？neibuhaishinima？

daoshihou，jiusuannibazijideshenghuojingyingdezaihao，wuzhizaifengsheng，zheilianggediditaoshangmenlai，ninengzenmeyangni？

suoyi，nixianzaitourushijianjingli，gentamengoutong，zheidoushinijieshouxianzai，bubizaiweilaimaidandeguocheng。

youbiru，nixianzaizheiyangmaodundiduidaizheigenanpengyou。

 ruguorenjiazhichinishangwanxue，faxiannigenbenbuaita，nikanzhongdezhishitadezhichi，neihuiguotoulairenjiaxiangbaofuni，nizenmebanni？zheibuhaishidemaidanma？

suoyi，yigezhenzhengjieshoudetaidushishenme？

 shiduizheiyangyigejiating，nicongxianzaiyaokaishixuehuimiandui。buguanshijijialitigongjingjishangdebangzhu，haishiguanjiaohaonidedidi，zheijiushinidemingyun，nizhinengjieshouta。

 youbirushuo，nixianzaixiangyaoshangxue，yaomebananpengyoudezhichisuanshijiejinideqian，yaomegengyingqidian，qushenqingzhuxuedaikuan。yaomejiufangqizheiyiqie，jieshoumingyun，chuqushangbanzhengqian。

danbuguanzenmeyang，zhiyoumianduigenjieshouzheiyiqiecaishinizouchuzheixiejuqingdeguanjian。

jieshouzheiyangdemingyun，duinilaishuodangranhennan。

woyefeichangtongqingnimenzheiyijiadezaoyu，keshinizhiyoucongzheilikaishijieshou，nicainenggougaibian。

zuihou，woxiangewaijisuoyourentilianggexing：

diyi，jianyisuoyourenyinggaiduiyudabingyiliaoyijiyiwai，shezhiyigezuijibendebaoxian。

 kenengyinianjibaikuai。wanyibuxingjianglindeshihou，buguanshizibaohaishishidejiatingbubeituolei，doushimeigerenduizijishengming、jiarendefuze。

第二，尊重专业。

xiangjianfangzizheiyangdeshiqing，qishishiyijianzhuanyedeshiqing。

我们当代很多人对专业是欠缺敬畏的，自己不懂的事，需要请专业人士来做，要不然失去的可能会是所有。