婆媳关系：老公照顾婆婆比照顾老婆多怎么办

 laogongzhaogupopobizhaogulaopoduozenmeban？jieweifuqihougengduodejiatingguanxixuyaolianggerengongtongchuli，zaipoxiguanxifashengmaodunshi，laogongyinggairuheqiaomiaoyingdui，huazhenqingganzaibenwengaosunidaan。

一、情感咨询

mianduilaogongguanzhaopopobiguanzhaolaopoduodeqingkuang，wogairuheanzhizijidexin。

laogonghewoganqinghaisuanbucuo，zheiliangnianxuexileyidianxintaixue，xiangchugengqinmileyixie。

zuijinwoshengleerbaozuoyuezi，popocongzhoulijiaguolaiwozheilibangmang。popoyichajinlai，wojiunanshoule。

 wolaogongshijializhangzi，popobatadangxiaolaogongleerbuzizhi。fangzhegonggongzaijiabuzhaogonggongliaotian，zhiyaotaerzixiabanhuijialejiudaizhetaerziliao。

 wolaogongyoutebiexiaoshun，zaijiadeshijianneimeyouxian，quezongshiyonglaipeitamaliaotian，yiliaoliaoyilianggexiaoshishenzhiyiwanshang，ergenwochuleshuojijubuxianbudandehuahuozheliaojijudabao，jiumeiyougengduobiedehuale，henshaoxiangpeitamaneiyangpeiwoliaoneimejiuneimeduo。

popomeilaiwozheilideshihou，laogonggenpopodadianhuayejingchangshiyiliaoliaohenjiu，genwodadianhuaquehenshaoliaoneimejiude。

 gonggongzaijialixiangyinxingrenyiyang，meishengmeixi，wolaogonggenpopogengxiangyiduifuqi。gonggongyaoqingpopoqulouxiagongyuanzhuanzhuan，popojujue；laogongyaoqingta，talimajiugenzhelaogongyiqichuqule。

 wogenlaogongbiaodalewodebukaixin，laogongshaoweizhuyileyidian，huiteyihuangdaowofangjianlaihewoshuojijuhua，gengduodeshihouhaishipeitamaqule。laogongzongshizheiyanganweiwo，shuotamayiqianzenmejianxin，tamennianqingshigonggongruhejiabaopopodengdeng，yisirangwotiliang。

 wentishitamadeburongyishitabazaochengde，takeyijiaotabaxianzaiqumibu，weishenmeyaoyoutazheigedangerzidetitabaqutengtama？

laogonggenwoshuohuayoushihaihuicushengcuqi，keshigentamashuohuaconglaidoushiwenyanruanyude。

 qishizhiyaomeiyoupopocanyujinlai，wohelaogonghaishihenxingfude。xianzaipopozaizheili，queshibanglewobushaomang，henganjitadefuchu。keshikandaolaogongguanzhaopopobiguanzhaowoduo，wojiuganjuexinliluanzaozaodehentongku。lengai，shiwotaiduoxinlema？

二、情感解答

nirenshengdejingyu、ganshou，gennikantadeyanguang、jiaodu，yijinizijirenzhideweizhiyouguanxi。

nizhishikandaonidelaogonggenpopodeguanxifeichangmiqie。

danshi，ruguowomenhuanyigejiaodulaikan：

henduonvrenzaigenpopotongzhuzhihou，poximaodunshihenchangjiande。

 ernizheilini？popolaibangmanghou，queshibanglebushaomangle。nidelaogongyezhishipeipopojianghua，manzuletaqingxushangdejiazhi，zhishaozheigejiatingzhongmeiyoupoximaodunya！

 xianzainimendepoxiwenti，shinizijimeiyouhuangejiaodukanwenti，neizhongzhenzhengyiyishangshuo，popojixifuchunantidewenti，xianzaimeiyou。

 suoyi，nengbunenggouzheiyangshuo：nilaogongjinenggoufahuipopolaizheilibangnihenduomangdezuoyong，tongshiyemeijinidailai“popoweinanxifu”neiyangdewentini？

ruguonenggoucongzheigejiaodukan，shibushizheiyiqiedouyoulingwaiyizhongchulugenkenengxing？

bingqie，ruguonenggoujinyibufanshengziji，shuo：

“hao，wobujinyoujingyinggenlaogongguanxidenengli，haiyaoyongyougenzhangbeijingyingguanxidenengli。

bujinyaogenpopogoutong，haiyaogengonggonggoutonggoutong，gensuoyourengoutong。

yongyouzheiyangdegoutonggenjingyingguanxidenengli，shibushiyiqieyougenxianzaibuyiyangleni？”

zuihou，wotebiexiangzhenduinisuoshuode“zheiliangnianxuexileyidianxintaixue”deqingkuang，tigetixing。

zheige“xuexileyidianxintaixue”，wobuzhidaonizenmexuede。

yibanlaijiang，xueleyidian，yinggaijiushikanyixiagonghaowenzhang，kankanshu，zheijiaozuoxueyidian。

keshi，womendoushifanren，bushiyidianjiutongdeneizhongren。

 ruguonizhendeduixintaixueganxingqu，niwanquankeyidengjianglaibahaizidaihao，nicanjiayigexitongxingdekecheng，xuanzeyigehaodeliupaicongtoudaoweixueyibian。

 nizhendexuejinqule，neinihuiyongyouyigexindeshijiaokanshijie，neishihaoshiqing，neijiaoxuedongle，neijiaozhenzhengtongle，erbujiao“yidian”。

 ruguojinkaowangshangdongkankanxikankan，neiquanbudoushisuipian。zheixiewenzhanghuonapashiyiliangbenshu，jiuhenrongyijinizaochengxiangxianzaizheiyangdeqingkuang：kandaogegainian，jiubatadaochutao。

 xiang“popobatadangxiaolaogongerbuzizhi”，zheijiushinizaishiyongyigegainian，zheigegainiankenenglaiyuanyuxintaixuezhongyigedian，birushuo“guanxidecuowei”huozheshi“jiaosedecuowu”dengdeng。

danwentibushizheiyang，bushiwomenzhuadaoyigegainianjiunengwangkandaodexianxiangshangtao。

rensheng，zuipajiushixueshenmedongxi，zhixueyidiandian。

我们要么不学，要么认真系统真正的学，真正懂了，才能把这件事情拿到生活当中去运用。只懂一点点，是最可怕的事情。