已婚中年女偏爱未婚男是出于什么心态？

　　nvyoutifenshouhou，woxinruozhishui。cengjingmeihaodelianaihaosichushibujingdehushui，beitadeyijuhuachedidapo。huiyipuping，erqingxuruci，fangfozhishenyuzaiyigeanjingdehepan。cengjingdetianmihekuailebeifanqidebolansuozhegai，xianrujinjinshengwoyigerenduziyingduijidingdeshishi。beitadiuxiadejuedehaosixijuanerlaiyonglai，danwoyaoxuehuijieshoubingxuehuifangxia。neiyikeqi，wojuexinjiangxinqingningjingruzhishui，jingjingditaguozheiduanjiyizhongdejingse。

　　一次狼狈的道别

　　nvyoutifenshouhou，woshenganxinruozhishui，buzhidaogaizenmeban。neiyitian，dajiazaikafeidianlizuozhe，tayancidazhongwoneixinzuirouruandedifang，zengtianleyicilangbeidedaobie。

　　无法接受的客观事实

　　dangtajiangchufenshoudeyuanyinshi，woshenganjidadezhenhan，xiangshibeijiandaozhenhan。womeifajieshouxianshi，youyuzaiwodexinli，lianggerendeganqingshiduomemeihao，zheibanjianbukecui。danshi，taquedingwufawanjiu。

　　堆积如山的回忆

　　meimeiwobishangyanjing，huiyibianzhuisuiercheng，duijichengshan。dajiacengjingyiqijinglidelequ、zhengzhi、bicifuchihegongtongshixiandemengxiang，doubiandezheimexinxianerxiuyuqichi。xianrujin，zheizhonghuiyizaiwodexinliquanshi，quemeirenkegongxiang。

　　孤独的黑夜

　　zainvyoulikaihou，yewanbiandeyuelaiyuegudu。cengjingwomenwennuanhuandukongjian，xianrujinchenglekongdangdangdegudu。chuangbiandekongxi，yelideningjing，haosiwoxinzhongdekumenhewufamomiedeshiwang。woyigerenduziyingduigududeheiye，momodixiangniantacengjingjiyudewenxin。

　　挣扎与接纳

　　fenshouhou，woxianrufeichangdadezhengzhazhong。woyizhizaixunwenzijishibushiyeyouwanliudejiyu，nengfouzaicixiangzhexingfuqianjin。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，wozhujiangaoqingchu，buguanzenyangzhengzhayeyushiwubu。mianduixianshi，zhaodaozijidechurukou，chengweiwomenzaimimangzhongchiyishidebuerzhixuan。

　　重新开始的勇气

　　jinguannvyouxuanzelikai，danwodasuanweizijicongtoukaishidehaojihui。wonengjiandingbuyideyingduisangshi，zhishangbingfazhan。zheiyiduanjinglijiushiwoxingmingzhongdeyibufen，tagaozhiworenshengburongyiyizhichengxin，danwomenxuyaojianxinziji，jiandingdimaichuxiayibu。

　　回忆的沉封

　　nvyoutifenshouhou，huiyizhujianchenfeng。woxuehuibuzaijiujieyuyiwang，fanershiquzhaoxunxindekeneng。huiyinenggouchengweishengmingzhongxingfupeiban，danshitamenbukejushudajiaqianjindejiaobu。woxiangzaisuiyuedejianghezhongliuxiashuyuzijizongji，caibuhuibeicongqiandehuiyilazhu。

　　新的征程

　　nvyoudefenshouyaowoxinrudaoge，queyejilewoyigexindezhengcheng。woyaoxuehuishifangyali，xiangyongyigexindejiyuyutiaozhan。richangshenghuozongshihuiyouqiqifufu，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoyonggandequmianduiyiqie，bingjianxinzijinenggouzhongxinwanchengneixinshenchudemengxiangyuzhuiqiuxingfudejiyu。

　　成长和自我探索

　　nvyoudefenshouyaowoshenkedirenshidaozishendebuzuhexuyaogaijindedifang。wozhujianchengzhang、renshiziwo，bingtongguocicisangshizhaodaoheshidezishen。jinguantongkuhebeishangrengrancunzai，danwomenjiangjiandingbuyidexiangqiantuijin，buhuizairangfenshoujiedingwo，fanershishiqichengweiwochengzhangdedongli。

　　岁月不容易逆流

　　nvyoufenshouhou，wozhidaohuiyishimeifaniliude，wufabadajiadaidaoyiwangdemeimiao。danzheiyiduanjinglirangwoxuehuilezhenxiheaixiganqing，yijichulishiwanghebeishangdeshuiping。woshibuhuizhitingliuzaifenshoudekuchuzhong，ershiyicicijinglilaisuzaogengweijianqiangdeziji。

　　nvyoutifenshouhou，wohaosizaibaofengyuzhongquanlizhengzha，danwozhidao，jinyoujinglitongkuhezhengzha，cainengzuodaozhenzhengfazhanbingzhongxinfaxianzishenjiazhi。woyuanyonggandemianduisangshi，yongbaoweilai，maixiangshuyuzijixindepianzhang。