相亲攻略：廉价的感动是爱吗？

xiangqinshinannvshuangfangkuaisujianliganqingdeyizhongfangshi，jintianwomenlaikanyigeqingganwenda，xiangqinduixiangruhecaiyoujieguo？

一、情感问答

 wohexianzaixiangqindeguniangzhiqianxiangqinjianmianshizaiqiannian，jieguozhongtufashenglexiaochaqu，tayouyubumantamuqinxunwentahexiangqinduixiangdeqingkuang，jiuquxiaolewohetadeyuehui，lianggerenjiuciduanlelianxi。

 jinniannianditamuqinhewoshushujuhuijiushuotaduiwozhiqianyinxiangbucuo，jiashangzhiqianshuangfangbingbutaoyanhaibaoliuyouweixin，yushiwoshushuquanshuowozaishishi，ranhouliangrenyoulianxishangle。

benlaixiangchudebucuo，liaodeyesuantouji，yiqichifankandianying，peitaquchaoshitahaimaishuiguojiwo。

 dengdaochunjieqiantashuoyaoqubeijing，nianhoucaihuilai，wojiuyuetajianlemian，bingqiesongjitaweishengsuhechangweideyaopianzhufutalushangyaozhuyishenti，tahengaoxing。

 womenliangrenfanhouhaidiyiciqianleshou，wosongtadaolegongjiaozhanhuijia。diertianlianggerenhaiqulemanzhandehuodong，ditieshangwoxiangtazuobie，laletadeshoushuodengtacongbeijinghuilai。

 jieguozhicizhihoutazhenggerentaidujiubianleyiyang，faxiaoxibuxiangyiqianneiyanghuifule。dengtadaolebeijingyijinghaojitianmeidengdaotadehuifu，wojiudadianhuahetalianxishang，jieguotaiduhenyansubinglengmeiliaojijujiuguale。

 tajiuzaiweixinshuomingduiwomeiyouganjuejiuxianggemenyiyang，erqiewozhiqianpinfanfaxiaoxixunwentazaibeijingruhe，(bijingyouyiqing)kandaotadexiaoxiwowunaihuifuletajiuzhutashenghuoyukuaihaishuolezaijian，tajiubawoweixinlaheile。

zhihoutahuidaojia，wobuganxinyoudaletadianhuaxunwendaodishiwozuocuoleshenmeretashengqile。

 tagaosuwoqishimeishengqijiushiduiwomeiganjue，haishuodangshitalinqubeijingzhiqianbugaijiaotachulaichifan，yinweidiertiantabenlaiyuehaoguimiyaoqumanzhanjieguoyinweichifandanwule。

 zhudonglatadeshoushiyigedaohuosuo，tahaishuomeigerengexingbuyiyang，wofanshixianghaodekan，tafanshixianghuaidekan，zijishimanre，danyoubuxiangtaiduomohe，wozheishiyesuanxinhuiyilengle，benlaizhiqianliangrenhaohaode。

二、情感解答

da：tongguozheigenanshengdegushi，keyirangwomenguangdadenvtongxuededaoyixieqifa。

dangran，zheigenanshengkanwandaanzhihou，yejiuzhidaoshizenmehuishile。

duiyunvtongxuelaishuo，keyicongzheigegushilidedaosangeqifa：

第一，不要沉浸到廉价的感动之中。

 dangyigenanshengjinisongyixieweishengsu、changweipiandeshihou，buyaosuisuibianbianjiuhengaoxing、hengandong，haoxiangzheishihouqianshoujiushunlichengzhangle。

ruguoyigenvshengdongdeduizijihao，jiubuhuibeihenlianjiadeshiqingsuogandong。

 womengengbuyingdangjinjinyinweisuoweiduifangdehao，shenzhishiyixiehenjiandande，meituanpaotuiyenengzuodeshiqingquxuanyigeren，zheishiduibicidebufuzeren。

yinweizheizhongsuoweidehao，kenengshikedouzaibian。

第二，拒绝一个人，要干脆利落。

yaoburankenengjiuxiangzheigegushiliyiyang，rangbierenganjuehenmomingqimiao。

 gushilizheigenanshengdezhenshixiangfajiushimomingqimiao，ganjueqianyitianhailazheshou，gaogaoxingxingde，guoliangtianyiqiejiuhurandoubianle，tananyilijie。

zheiyiqie，qiaqiashiyinweinvshengyikaishideshihoumeiyoujidaomingquedejujue。

bingqie，henduoshihouruguozhishizoudao“momingqimiao”dejieduanhaihao，nanshengzhishiganjuexinhuiyileng。

wanyiyouxienvshengzaixiangshouxiangshoubierendehao，yangyiduanshijiandeyu，zuihoujiuhuirangyixienanrenhuaihenzaixin，neijiugengbuheshile。

shenzhiyouxienvshengyangyuyangchenglezhanv，zuihouzaodaobaofu，fanguolaichileeguo。

suoyi，jujueyigerenjiugancuililuo，buyaoxiangshouduifangrenhedehao。

第三，什么时候真正的给机会？

 ruguonizhendexihuanyigeren，bingqiezhendedasuangenduifangkaishiyiduanguanxi，neizaiduifangyaolanishoudeshihou，nijiuzhijiehenyansudibasuqiugenduifangjiangqingchu。

 ruguonixiangyaozhankaiyiduanzhangqiguanxi，jiugenduifangjiangqingchu：“woshitingyansudeyigeren，woxiwangwomenzaiweilaizhankaiyiduanzheiyangdeguanxi，ninengzuodaoma？ruguonibuneng，womenjiubuyaozheiyang。”

zaizheigegushidangzhong，lashoudeshihouqishijiushizuishihequerenshuangfangyiyuandeshihou。

zheijiaojijihuidefangshi，zhidesuoyounvshengcankao。

以上，不知道提问的男生看懂没有，但愿女同学们都看懂了。