男人做这几件事，就是为了逼你离开

　　ganqingjinrupingdanqijiuxiangfenshou，zheishiyizhongchangjiandexinlitezheng。suizheshijiantuiyi，zuichujiqinghuimanmantundiao，daizhierlaideshikuzaohefali。zhenduiyixierenlaishuo，dangganqingyuelaiyuepingdanwuqishi，takenenghuiyiduhuaiyizijidexiangfa，bingquedingsheqiguanlian。danshi，zheiyangdexintaidaduoshiyinweiduiganqingdeqiwangtaigaohuozheduipingdanqidewujie。ruguonengzhongxinsikaohezaidingweiganqingdejiazhi，yexuwomenkeyixunzhaoxindexiangtongdianhejiqing，jinerjixuqianxing。

　　pingpingdandanerwendingdeganqingshizhangqixingfukuailedezhongyaoqianti。zaimouyishike，dangwomenfaxianganqingjinrulepingdanqi，youkenengchuxianyizhongbulizhi，juedingfenshou。danshi，zheizhishiyizhongbiaocengdexinlixianxiang，beihouyinzangzhegengweifuzawentihetiaozhan。shijishang，dangganqingjindaopingdanqishi，zhengshiwomenbixuzhongxinsikaohediaozhengqingxushi。

　　情感上的波动和轻缓

　　ganqingjinrupingdanqijiuxiangfenshou，renleideqingganshifuzaqieqianbianwanhuade，zuichulianaidejieduantongchangchongmanzhejiqingyulangman。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，ganqingjinrulepingjingqi，yebingbuyiweizheaixiaoshile，fanershibiandeyuelaiyuewendingxinghenonghou。pingdanqishiganqingfazhanqushidetianranquanguocheng，womenxuyaolijiezheiyiguocheng，hejieshouqingxushangxiaqifuqinghuan。

　　希望与现实的差别

　　ganqingjindaopingdanqishi，nikenenghuifeichangshiwanghexiaochen。zheidaduoshiyinweidajiadengdaiaiqingshizhongxianglianaineibanmengliehelingrenjidong。danshi，shijibingbushiyizhijiuxiangwomendechangsuoyuan。womenxuyaoconglizhidejiaodukandaiganqing，gaoqingchuwendingdeganqingbingbushiyiweizheqianquejiqing，ershiyizhonggengchengshuheshenrudeqingxu。

　　平淡期的挑战和机遇

　　ganqingjindaopingdanqibingbushiyiweizhewomenyaosheqiguanlian。fanguolai，pingdanqiweiwomendailaileyigezhongxinfaxianbicizhijiandehaojihui。womenkeyigenjugongtongdegerenaihao，xunqiuxindeqinshenjingli，tishenghudonggoutongjiaoliulaigaibianganqing。pingdanqishiyicizhongxinranqiaidehuoyandehaojihui，yinweiwomenyongyumaichudiyibu，qinfenzhaodaoxindedecijijiqing。

　　思考与沟通的意义

　　dangganqingjindaopingdanqishi，womenyinggaigengshenrudisikaozijidetihuiheqiwang。womenyinggaiyuairenkaizhanzhenchengerduiwaikaifangdejiaoliu，gongxiangbicizhijiandexiangfaheganshou，tanxunyitongjiejuefangan。genjulingtingyulijie，womenkeyicongzheidangzhonghuodegengduozhihuiyudegongshi，rangganqinggengjiawengu。

　　重构激情的火苗

　　jiqingbukezhishibeirenweishiyizhongwaizaijuede，tahaikeyicongtamenxinlingshenchudedao。genjusuzaoyigerendechengzhangyufazhan，womenkeyiranqineixinshenchudejiqing，bingbazheileijijizhudongdenengliangchuanshujiairen。yucitongshi，dajiayekeyikaolvyixiexindetiyanhuodong，weiganqingzhuruxinxianxueyeyuhuoli。

　　ganqingjinrupingdanqijiuxiangfenshou，ganqingjindaopingdanqibingbushiyiweizhewomenyaosheqi。fanguolai，zheijiushiwomenzhongxinsikao、diaozhengqingxuhefuchugengduopinmingnulideshihou。wendingdeganqingnenggourangwomendedaochijiudexingfuyuchengjiugan。shiwomenzhenxihesuzaozheiyifenganqing，dailaigengduonanwangdehuiyiheshishikeke。