恋爱大忌之攀比心态

　　yudaolaogongchuguizuihaodejiejuebanfa，yingduilaogongchugui，xunzhaozuihaojiejuebanfashijiejiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。zuixian，goutongjiaoliushibukequeshaode。zhenchengdigoutongjiaoliutihuihedanxin，hunyinzhongbicibixulijieyuzhichilingyifang。cizhi，xunzhaojishuzhuanyehunyinfudaoshibuerxuanze。gengzhuanyedefudaoshinenggoubangzhufuqiliangrenzaicilajinguanxi，tongshitigongjiejuemaodunjiqiao。chucizhiwai，lingtingneixin，baochilixing，jiaqiangziyidezikongnengliyehenzhongyao。zuizhong，fuqiliangrenyinggongtongfendou，genjuzaicilajinguanxiyureqing，zhongsuhunyinguanlian，congtoukaishimeihaodeshenghuo。tongguozheigefangfa，nenggouxunzhaozuihaojiejuebanfa，jiejiuhunyinbingweiyihouxieshoutongxing。

　　yudaolaogongchuguizuihaodejiejuebanfa

　　1. 分析内心的疑惑和痛苦

　　ruguofaxianlaogongchuguishi，neixinkenengchongchizheyihuo、tongkuhenaonu。zuixian，womenyinggaishenrufenxizheixieqingxushencengyuanyin。shiyouyubeipanbianxueruolezizun？yinggaishihunyinderenkehongrandaota？huoshipajimoheweilaikebianxing？jinyourenqingbingzhangwozijidexinqing，cainenggenghaodebaituokunjing。

　　2. 真诚沟通交流重新建立公路桥梁

　　zaihunyinzhong，jiaoliushizhongyaodezhongyaoqianti。yingduilaogongchugui，gengyinggaibicizhenchengdigoutongjiaoliutihuihedanxin。lingtingduifangdejieshi，bingbiaodazijineixintongchu。genjuzhongxinjianligoutongdeqiaoliang，bicinenggougenghaodilejielingyifangdeyaoqiuhekunrao，weitanxunjiejuebanfadiandingjichu。

　　3. 寻找技术专业婚姻辅导的引导

　　jishuzhuanyehunyinfudaoshinenggouchengweifuqilianggerenyindaodeng。tamenyouzhefengfudejingyanyufengfudejingyan，keyibangzhufufuxunzhaochuliwaiyunantidelujing。genjufudao，bicikeyilejieruhezhongxinlajinguanxi，jiyujiejuemaodunjiqiao，jiqiruhezhaohuihunyinzhongdeaiyuqinmiwujian。

　　4. 自我反思重塑内心的能量

　　mianduichugui，chukaigoutongyufudao，ziwofansidoushizhongyaodeyihuan。lingtingneixindeshengxiang，shensishulvtazaihunyinzhongchangshiyandejiaose。bingtongguogerentishengyuneixindequanyu，zhongsuziyideneixinnengliang。zheiyangbudankeyigenghaodeyingduihunyinlidejiannan，yekeyizuochucongmingheyouhaochudeguanlijuece。

　　5. 重塑婚姻关联，从头开始幸福的生活

　　zuihou，ruoxiangbaituolaogongchuguideshangtong，fuqiliangrenbixugongtongfendou。genjuzaicilajinguanxi，tigaoxianghuzhijianderechenlejie，zhongsuhunyinguanlian。gongtongshangdinghunyinzhengtiguihua，tishengbicizhijianzhijiandehudongheguanai，jiqiweichijijidexintai。weiyoutongguogongtongdeqinfen，fufucaikeyicongtoukaishimeihaodeshenghuo。

　　yudaolaogongchuguizuihaodejiejuebanfa，zaihunyinguochengzhongyudaolaogongchuguishiyigetongchuerfuzawenti，dancunzaijiejuedefangfa。fenxineixindekuchu，zhenchenggoutongjiaoliuzhongxinjianligongluqiaoliang，xunzhaojishuzhuanyehunyinfudaodeyindao，ziwofansizhongsuneixindenengliang，jiqizhongsuhunyinguanlian，congtoukaishixingfudeshenghuo，zheigefangfadoukeyixiezhuhunyinzhongxindedaopingwenhexingfu。zuizhongyaodeshifuqilianggerengongtongfendouheyongqi，jiqibicizhijianderenzhihebaorong。