已经彻底变心的男人，会故意“忽略”这4件事！

　　wotifenshoulehouhuilezenmerangnanshengzhudongwanliu，zaiwozuochutifenshoudejuecehou，zhujianqueturanhouhuile。woyishidaowodouaizheta，zhibuguoshizainaopiqizuolecuoshi。xianrujin，woqidaitanenggoujijiwanhuiwo，zaicizhaoliangbicizhijiancengjingxiangaihuo。danshi，xianzainizaoyuyigewenti，daodigairuheshitazhudongquwanhuiwo，dakaixinfeideyingduiwomensuofanxiadecuowuni？zheibuzhishiyigeduiwozijidekaoyan，yeshiduidajiazhijiandeaiqingdetiaozhan。keshiwo，jiqiexuyaohuida。

　　后悔情绪

　　wotifenshoulehouhuilezenmerangnanshengzhudongwanliu，fenshouzhihoudeyihanhehouhui，shenshenmimanzhewo。dangshi，woyanyujiliedijichulefenshou，renweizheikeyibaituotongchu，danshixianzai，wocaimanmanyishidaozishenjiushirucibuzhengque。wohouhuile。wohouhuimojimeiyouzhenxidajiazhijiandeaiqing，bingmeiyourenzhenquchuliwomendewenti，ershixuanzeduobiyusheqi。xianrujin，neixinshenchuduitadeaiyouzhongxinranqi，wojiqiedixuyaowanhuita。danshi，woquexianrulewujindebeishanghedanyoudangzhong。woyinggaizenmecainengrangtazhudonghuilaini？zheiyeshiwoxinmuzhongdezhengzhahekunhuo。

　　思考与反省

　　fenshouhou，wojianjianshenshizijigerenxingweihexingwei。wofanshengzijicongqiandeyantanjuzhi，fajuewoshichangqingxubuwendingdizuochujueding。woyishidao，wohaizaimingquetichufenshoushi，bingmeiyoulizhidisisuo，bingmeiyoujidajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanxiliuyouwanhuidehaojihui。wodouhuaiyi，shifouwoyishichongdongrangwomenzoushangzheiyitiaofenshoudelu。woshenkefanshengtamendexingwei，woxiwangtongguozheiyiguocheng，rangtakandaowozhenzhengdegaibiangengjiachengshu。

　　积极展现更改

　　weilenengwanhuitadeneixin，wodasuanjijizhanxianzijidegenggai。wohuiqinshenzhaodaota，tanchengdigentabiaoshuwoduiyufenshoudehuihenheduitadeaiyi。wohuiduitashuo，woyishenruyishidaozijidewenti，bingqiewoyijingkaishijijizhudongdigaibianxianzhuang。wohuigentazhanxianwozouxiangchengshu，bawozijidexinqing，dongdegenjukeguandefangshijiejuenanti。wojianxin，zheiyangdegaibianheyongqihuirangtamenyishidaowoshirenzhende，shitazaicijiandaowoliangzhijiandeaiqingdegailv。

　　寻找第三方协助

　　youshi，weilenengwanhuiyigerendexin，womenyinggaixunzhaowaibuzhichiheguli。wodasuanzhaoyigeyaohaodepengyouhuojiaren，xiangduifangqingtuwodeneixinshijie，bingtingqutadejianyiheyijian。yexutamennengjiwoyixiejianshexingyijian，bangwozhongxinshenshihejihuawodexingdong。bingqie，tadelijiehezhichihaihuidaijiwoyongqihexinxin，rangwogengjiandingbuyidezhuixunwanhuitademubiao。

　　时机掌握

　　zaiwanhuiyigerendexinshi，shijizhangwoshishifenzhongyaode。wohuixuanzeyigeheshideshijiandidian，hetazaicixiangjian，chengkendihetagoutongjiaoliu。wohuiyongxinqingtingtadexiangfaheganshou，bumianqiangtadejueding，weitashizhangsisuo。wohuigenjuxingdongyuyanyu，gentachuansongwoduitadechengzhiqingyihebuduanbianhuachengnuo。woxiangxin，renzhenqudengdaidoushizhidede，tanenggouganshoudaonidezhenxinyunuli，congershitazhudonghuijia。

　　积极主动改变现状

　　wanhuiyiduanganqing，budanshihuodelingyifangdehuifu，gengjiashiweilezijijinbuyuchengzhang。wohuizixidifansiguoqucuowu，chixugaishanzishencunzaidebuzu。wohuinulitishengzijideqingshanghegoutongxiediaonengli，dongdegengchengshuhelizhidichulishiqing。buguanduifangshifouhuijia，wodouyaolaojizheicijingli，nulizuoyigegenghaoderen。

　　汇总

　　wotifenshoulehouhuilezenmerangnanshengzhudongwanliu，tifenshouzhihoudehouhuimojiyaowoxianrukunhuohetongkuzhizhong。danshi，worengranjianchi，jixuxunzhaowanhuitadefangshihejiyu。genjusikaoyufansheng，jijizhanxiangenggai，xunzhaodisanfangdexiezhu，zhuazhujihui，jijizhudonggaibianxianzhuang，woxiwangnenggouranqidajiazhijiandeaiqing。wulunjieguoruhe，zheiyiguochengzhenderangwojinbuyuchengzhang。ai，modadeyongqihenuliquzhengqu，woxiwangzijibuhuiliuxiayihanhehouhui，fanershiyongshijixingdongquzhuixunxingfu。