出轨却不愿离婚的男人到底在想什么？

　　xiangqinfenshoulehainengfuhema？zheiyeshihenduorenzaijinglilehunyinpoliehouxinzhongdeyiwen。youxierenjiandingbuyijuede，jirandoufenshoule，jiuyingdangfangkaishoubicizhijian，tanxunshuyuzijidexingfu。erlingyixierenzexiangyaojiduifangyigejihui，zhongxinsikaonanti，bingshizhexiufuguanxi。buguanjieguoruhe，xiangqinfenshouhounengbunengfuhe，zaiyushuangfangduiyuaiqingtaiduheqinfen。

　　xiangqinshixiandaijiaoyoufangshizhongxunzhaozhenaideyizhongtujing，danshiyoushihouxiangqinnanmianhuiyudaofenshoudexianxiang。neiyang，xiangqinfenshouhouhainengfuhema？zheibujinzaiyuliangrendejuexinheqinfen，haixuyaokaolvdaoduozhongyaosu。

　　伤心的期待

　　xiangqinfenshoulehainengfuhema，xiangqinfenshouhou，yifanghuoshuangfangkenengyoufuhedeqidai，danshizheizhongqidaishifounengwanchengni？xinhandapobenlaimeihaodeqidai，fenshouhoufuhebixuzhongjianxinrenhezhonggouaiqing。bicibixusikaoyugoutongjiaoliu，lejieduifangdeyaoqiuheniantou。zhihuizaizhenzhenzhengzhengxiangyaocongtoukaishideqiantixia，caihuiyoufuhedekenengxing。

　　时间的洗礼

　　xiangqinfenshouhoudefuhebushiyicuerjiude，kenenghaixuyaoshidangdeshijianlailengjingfenxihezhishang。duibenrenlaijiang，chukaiyishideaiqingtongchu，haixuyaokaolvdaofenshoudeyuanyinjijiejuefangfa。jiaruzhiyinweiyishichongdonghuopianjianerfenshou，shuangfangkeyigenjuxianghujiaoliulaixunqiujiejuefangan。neiruguocunzaiyanzhongdexinrenwenti、jiazhiguanchayihuoshiaiqingzaoyiliekai，neiyangfuhedegailvjiuhuitebiexiao。

　　独立个体

　　fenshouhou，liangrendoubixuxuehuisikaozijideyaoqiuhegerentisheng。xiangqinfenshoudailaileyizhongzhongxinshenshizijiyutarendejiyu，shuangfangkeyishencengcisikaobicizhijianzaiaiqingzhongderenwuyuzeren。weilenengfuhe，bicibixuzhanxianzijidejijibianhuaheyongqi，erfeiyikaolingyifangbianchengzijidesuoyou。danduwanshandegerencainengyougenghaodefazhanqushi，bingqieweifuhetigonggengjiajianshijichu。

　　交流和妥协

　　fuhebixulianggerenzhijiandeyouxiaogoutonghetuoxie。fenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinxiangxinhenduo，danzhiyaoshuangfangdouxiangzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu、lingtingduifangdexuqiuhekanfa，bingqieyuanyizuochutuoxieziwogaibian，fuhedegailvyehuizengjia。doumeiyouyouxiaodegoutonghetuoxie，fuhezhishiyizhongwangxiang，erfeishiji。

　　放开手或坚持不懈

　　zuizhong，xiangqinfenshouhoufuhedegailvzaiyubiciyuanbuyuanyiwangjiguoquzaochengdeshanghai，zhujiandadandechangshi。ruguoshuangfangdoumeinenglihuoshiyixiangwangjiguoqu，neiyangfuhedegailvjiumimang。erruguoshuangfangdouxiangjianchibuxie，jiangguoqucuowuhebuganhuaweichengzhangdedongli，neiyangfuhekenengshiyizhongmeihaodecongtoukaishi。

　　xiangqinfenshoulehainengfuhema，bulunshixiangqinfenshouhoudefuhehaishigezhongaiqingdefazhanqushi，meiduiqinglvdouyougezidedegushixuanze。xiangqinfenshouhounengbunengfuhe，zaiyubicijuexin、shijiandexili、ziwodedandu、jiaoliuhetuoxie，jiqifangkaishouhuojianchibuxiedetiaoxuan。buguanzenyang，qidaimeiyigerendounengxunzhaozhenzhengdekuaile。