老公出轨回归家庭，我却无法相信他！

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可想而知，我的月子做得也很不好。他的心完全不在我和孩子身上，就算在家也是心不在焉的。婆婆虽然一天三顿饭做着，但一点儿也不精心，大多时候都是对付。我整个月子她就给我炖过一次鸡汤，几次鱼汤，一半还让我老公都吃了。她知道她儿子的事儿，我们好多次 吵架  tadoutingjianle，wotebiexiwangtanengchulaishuojugongdaohua，weihuzheigejia，weihuwohehaizi。keshi，tahaoxiangpareshangmafanyiyang，duiwolaogongdezuofabuwenbuwen，erqiehaiquanworen，shuoshiweilehaizi。woyichuleyuezi，jiudaizhehaizihuiniangjiale，wopawozaineigejiadaixiaqu，feibeitamenmuziliangqishenjingle。

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从娘家回来后，他依然三天两头不回家，在孩子五个月大时，他提出了 离婚  。wodangshidoukuaibengkuile，woxinxinkukujitashengertai，taquezaiwaimianyoulebiedenvren，haiyaogenwolihun。taweiledadaomude，haicijiwo，shuoyijingbuaiwole，rangwobiezaichanzheta。

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选择接纳，意味着妻子需要更多的智慧和能力，来处理双方的关系。要告诫自己，“既然事情已经发生了，我就要面对。”而不是将自己陷入猜疑或自怜的情绪当中。可以听一些舒缓的音乐，帮助减轻内心的烦燥，或是看喜欢的剧，转移注意力。当然，光有妻子一方面是不够的，还需要老公的配合，双方可以对一些事情约法三章。重建信任需要时间，更需要 夫妻 二人的共同努力。