这些恋爱的禁忌，你有触犯过吗？

 zaishijieshangdemeigejiaoluoli，youxierenyitouzhajinleaiheli，youxierenqueyinweishilianerzaimougejietoushishengtongku。youxierende lianai jiushi“yuandeyirenxin，baishoubufenli”，eryouxierenquezailianaizhongfenfenhehe。weishenmerenyurenzhijiandeaiqingshirucidebutongni？yinweiyouxierendongdequweixiaiqing，qubikailianaizhongdejinji；eryouxierenqueshilianzijifanxialelianaidejinjierbuzizhi。neimelianaizhongjinjiyounaxieni？

1.总是追问TA爱不爱自己。

 nimenliangqingxiangyuehuxiangaimu，suoyinimencaihuitanlianaiya，sheiyuanyigenyigewanquanmeiyouganjuederenlangfeibaoguideqingchun。ouerwenyiwenduifang“niaiwoma？woyaoqinkoutingnishuo”，zheidaoshishiyizhongxiaoqingqu，danyaoshibazheizhongqingqubiancheng“meiriyiwen”delixinggongshi，jiurangrennanyirenshoule。

2.猜疑。

 tanlianaidezuijibenjibenqiantishibicixinren。ruguolianjibendexinrendoutanbushang，neizheiyangdelianaiyidinghenlei。“tawanshangshierdiancaijiwodadianhua，baitiandaodiqujiansheile？”“tahetagongsidexiaohuangmeitianyiqixiaban，liangrenyiqicongloutijianchulai，yidingyoushenmeguiba？”henduoshihou，genbenjiumeiyoudeshi，dancaiyijiule，fandaoyoushile。

3.黏人。

 youhenduorenyidanlianailejiubaaiqingdangchengshenghuodequanbu，bujinshiquleziwo，erqiexiechileduifang。taguangjieyidingyaotapei，tatiqiutajiuhuigenzhedanglaladui。ruguotafaleyitiaoxinxi，tameiyoumiaohui，tajiushuaxiaoxingziyikuernaosanshangdiao。zhoumoliangrenxiangyuequhekafei，tabuguoshichidaole10fenzhong，tajiudaposhaguowendaodi——nidaodiqunalile，wozainidexinmuzhongjiuneimebuzhongyaoma？

4.装成彼此喜欢的样子。

 lianaixiangtandezhangjiu，jiuyidingyaozuoyuanbenzhenshideziji，zaiduifangmianqianzhixuzhanxianzijizuizhenshideyangzijiukeyile。dangniganjuedaowuliaodeshihou，xihuanxiayishikoubishi，neimezaitashenbianyebiejihui，xiangkouneijiukouqilaiba，dangnifeichangjidongdeshike，huibuyouzizhuditiaogawu，neimezaitashenbianyebiezangzheyezhe，yonggandafangditiaoqilai，shenzhilatayiqitiaoyiqihigh。nizhuangchengbicixihuandeyangzi，zaowanhuipogong，bujinzijihuilei，erqietakanzheyefan。

5.当着对方的面夸ta的同事朋友如何好。

 zhiyaonitandebushiyichangjialianai，neimezheilimianyidingchongmanlejidu。dangwokaishijuedinghenitanlianai，qishijiumorenleyidian，nizaiwoyanlishide，wozainiyanliyeyinggaishide。buran，nizoukaiquzhaobierenhaoleya。juedabufenderenzaitingdaoduifangkuazijidetongshipengyoudeshihou，douhuiyundanfengqiyixiaoerguo，danqingxiangxintamenxinliyiding“shanhuhaixiao”le。

6.爱拿对方家庭开玩笑。

 buguannichengrenyufouqinqingshizhongyaobiaiqingzhongyao。shouxianshengmingshifumujide，ranhouwomencaiyoujihuiheairenxiangshixiangzhixiangai。nimenliangzaininongwonongdeshihou，dangrankeyikaiyixiewushangdayadewanxiao，danyidingbuyaonabicidejiatinghuozhefumukaiwanxiao。“nijiazushangpinsandaiba，haorongyicaiqunimenjiayitang，nimalianyibaikuaidoubuji。”“zhenshiwanxinga，nibadeyanzhimeiyouyichuanjini，yaoburanjiuhehele。”tinglezheizhonghua，zhendexiangyuandibaozhaxiangdaren。

7.把ta当成人肉取款机。

 maimaimaiyoushihoukeyizhangxiantaduinidezhongshiheaimu，danwuxiuzhidimaimaimai，batadangchengrenrouqukuanji，nimendelianaihuoxuyejiuzoudaotoule。youxienvshengdegongzhubingtebieyanzhong，xiwangnanpengyouxiangbabayiyangchongziji，pengzaishouxinhanzaizuili，zheigemaobingyizhidoubugai，wulunshinagenanshengdoushoubule。suoyizaitanlianaizhiqian，qingxianzuoyigedulizizhudenvsheng。

8.动不动就提 分手

 fenshouqianwanbuyaosuisuibianbianti，tiduolexinjiugenzheliangle。tanlianaishinaogebieniutaizhengchangle，danbuzhiyusuisuibianbianjiunaodaofenshou。ciwainidongbudongjiutifenshou，qingwenninalaizheimeqiangdeyouyuegan？zheiyangdezitaiweimianyetaiguoyuaojiaoleba，sihulianaiyichang，zhudongquanquanzainishouli，tazhibuguoshiyigehuizhijilaihuizhijiqudexiaochoueryi。

9. 从不 吵架 ，不管有了什么矛盾就 冷战

 congbuchaojiadeqinglvshikepade，tanlianaizuijilengzhan。nirenweiwonalibudui，worenweininalibudui，liangrenkaishibiciduima，congcishuangfangjiuyoulegehe，jiubaidaotaimianshanglai，tongtongkuaikuaidisigebi。congbuchaojiazhinengzhengmingganqingzoudaolejintou，zaiyemeiyouxingququlejieduifangle。

10.没有属于你们的仪式感。

 yishiganzaiwomenderichangshenghuozhongtebietebiedezhongyao，youqishizhengzailianaiderenmen。youxieqinglvgenbenjiubudongzheiyidian。qingrenjieheshengribuzhidaosonghuasongliwu，haibianchugezhongwuhuabamendeliyou，“maineixieyoudemeideyoushenmeyong，haiburumaixiechidechuande”。chidechuandeshishenghuobixupin，danhuaheliwuyeshinimenlianaizhongbiyaodedianzhuihediaoji。meiyoudianzhuihediaoji，womendeshenghuozenmeshenghua？lianaizongyaoyouxielangmanhehuanxiangdechengfenzai。

 qishixingfushikeyixuexi，henduorenyiweidengzheyudaoduideren，quehulvelezaizhuiqiuxingfulushangdexuexi。“huodaolao，xuedaolao”qishizheijuhuayeshiyongyuxingfukecheng，zaimeigebutongdejieduanxuexibutongdexingfuxiangchukecheng，delaidexiaoguowanquanshibuyiyangde……danshenshixuexiruhetuodan？lianaishixuexiruhebaochilianaizhangjiu？hunyinshixuexiruhexingfu？