第一次相亲，不要总是说“随便”！

 henduorenzaidiyici xiangqin deshihouchulefanleyixiexingweishangdecuowuyiwai，yehuishuocuohuadaozhiduixiangjizijideyinxianghencha。neimediyiciyinggaizenmeshuohuabijiaohaoni？shouxian，lianaishilianggerendeshi，womenzaixiangqinzhongbunengshenmeshidoushuo“suibian！”，zheiyanghuiranglingyifangjuedexingweisuoran。

第一次相亲，不要总是说“随便”！

diyicixiangqindeshihourendefenshidubijiaogao，danjishiruci，weishenmehaishihuishibaini？huibuhuishiyixiayuanyinzaochengdeni?

1、“随便”

 diyicijianmianqijiandaqingxiaoshi，yilvjiaoyouduifangxuanze、jueding、chuli，zijiwanquanshigebeidongtide，chufeiduifangqiahaoshidananzidanvren，fouze，duifangjishijuedewuqujianpibei。erqiejiusuanduifangyouhenqiangdezhangkongyu，yehuixiwangmanzunidexinyuan：nixiangzuoshenme？nixiangqunali？ruguonimeiyourenheqiwang，yongyuandoushi“suibian”，duifangyehuijuedexingweisuoran。zaishuoyibian，yuehuishilianggerendeshi，niyebufangzuozuozhunbei。

2、不够“察言观色”

 qishilianaichujijieduan，maidantaidushihenzhongyaoyiguan。ruguoduifangshibijiaodananzidanvziqieyouzugoushilide，neizuiyinggaibimiandezuofajiushiheduifangaazhi。danruguoduifangguannianxihua，fanshijiangqiupingdeng、duli，bufangaafuzhang。ruguoduifangnianling、shilidoubinidachuyijie，yebuyongjiazhuangqiangzhemaidan，zhenchengbiaoshiganxiejike。danjicizhihou，bufangxiaomaiyicidan。

3、恋爱履历

 tantanguoqulianaijingli，jihusuanshixinyuehuibixiuke。danshiyanduobishi，henrongyidaozhiliangrenguanxiwujierzhong。ruguojinglibijiaofengfu，duifanghuohuijuedenihenrongyihuaxin，huohuijuedenibutaijiandian；ruguojinglibudanfengfuerqiecantong，duifangbudanbuhuitongqingni，fanerhuijuedeyidingshiniyouwenticaihuibuduanbeishuai。dangran，duifangshilingleiwenqingdechuwai。（buguolingleiwenqing，sihuhanjianpaoquzhenchengxiangqinde……）

4、切忌身体先行

 jiusuanyijianzhongqing，yemeibiyaojihouhoutanchengxiangjianba。yilai，duifangshihouhuijuede“weimiantaikuai”，erlai，nizijiyehuiqingbuzijinshiqureqing。zhishaoliangciyihouba，zhishaobicimingquelianaiguanxiyihouba……

5、沉默

 moshengrendiyicijianmian，zhaohuatihaibushizuinande，nandeshiyizhichixuxiaqu。ruguoniyiyanbufa；huozhebuguanduifangshuoshenme，douzhiyoungngaafanyinglengdan；zijiyebuzhudongzhizaohuati，jueduihuirangduifangzhinanertui，lengjingtuichang。yuehuibijingshilianggerendeshi。

6、衣着气质和对方完全不搭调

 diyicijianmianruguoyifangjuedelingyifangchuanzhepinweielie，doubuyuanyiliangrenyiqibuxing，jibenshangkendingbuhuiyoudiercijihui。ruguoduizijideyizhepinweimeiduodazixin，yuehuiqian，bufangkankanshishangzazhidechuanyidapeizhinan。lianaichujijieduan，youshixianxidejiuxiangzhizhuwangyiyang，shaoyoubushen，manpanjieshi。haishiyizhanxianzijiwenheyimianweiyao。