冷暴力是什么意思？如何对付家庭冷暴力？

 jiatinglengbaoli yeshijiabaodeyizhong，suiranlengbaolimeiyouduishentizaochengshanghai，danshiduijingshenshangdeyaposhihendade。neime，lengbaolishishenmeyisi？nvrenyinggairuheduifujiatinglengbaolini？

lengbaolishishenmeyisi？ruheduifujiatinglengbaoli？

1.家庭冷暴力是什么意思？

 lengbaoliyouchengweijingshenbaoli，zebaokuolejingshennvedai（xianzhirenshenziyouhejingjishangdekongzhi）、xingnvedaiyijilengbaolideng。danshiqizhongjiatinglengbaoliyeshizhishiganqingehuadezhongyaoyuansuzhiyi。

冷暴力常见的特征有：(1)漠不关心；(2)将语言交流降到最低限度；(3)恶语中伤、冷嘲热讽；(4)停止或敷衍 性生活 ；(5)duijiashiwanquanbufuzeren。

 youyulengbaolijibujianxueyebujianshang，shidianxingdeyinxingbaoli，yincihenrongyibeidangshirenyong“womenzainaobieniu”yiyudaiguo，erhushiletaduizijideshenxinsuochanshengdejudashanghai。

 shishishang，yanjiuxianshi，zaichuwentidehunyindangzhong，lengmobuyubidachaodanaoduihunyindeshanghaigengda，gengrongyidaozhihunyinpolie。

 tingqilaihenqiguai，shibushi？zheishiyinweidachaodanaosuiranbulixing，zhishaohaiyouxianghugoutongbiaodabumandeyiyuan，bijiaorongyizhidaobicidexiangfajiganjue。erruoshilengmobuyu，budanzhaobuchuzhengjie，wangwanghaifanyingchuxinhuiyilengbuyuannulidejuexin，suoyixiangjingrubingdejieguo，wangwanghuidaozhiwaiyu。aimodayuxinsi，xinsile，hunyinziranwuliqiusheng。

 zhangqichuzaijiatinglengbaolidebinglengfenweizhong，yigerenrongyichuxianganqingcuiruo、zibei、duoyiyijigandaogududezhuangkuang，haiziyerongyiyangchenggupidexingge，dadayingxiangrihouderenjiguanxi。shentiyeyinweizhangqichuzaiqiangdajingshenyalixia，rongyichuxianzhuduonaorendeshenxinzheng(liruweitong、yaosuanbeitong、toutongheshimiandeng)，shenzhiyinfagengyanzhongdejitongyijiziwoshanghai(zisha)jucuo。

2、冷暴力大都出现在知识份子家庭，原因在于：

(1)quanjiaoxiangxiangdedongzuo，dangshirenrenweibufuhezijigaoxuelideshenfen。

(2)dushurenwangwangshoulijiaojushu，bushanyuyongyancibiaodaqingxu，yebuzhiruhexuanxiebuman。

(3)shoujiaoyuduo，duiganqingdeyaoqiuyejiujiaoweixini，shenzhilengbaoligengnengzaochengduifangdejingshenshanghai。

(4)zaifalvshangjiaodongdeziwobaohu，suoyibudongshou，yebuyuandongkou。

 yincichaojiashi，henrongyichuxiande“lengzhan”zhuangkuang，qishihenzhideniwoliuyichuli，yinweiyigebushen，“zanshibuli”delengzhan，jiuhuibiancheng“guyishanghai”delengbaoli。

3.如何对付家庭冷暴力？

 (1)lijiedaobicidoushoushanghai，eryongyuzuoliangrenguanxizhongdeyingxiong：xuduorenningkehaozhelengzhandeyuanyin，shiyinweijuededuifangshangrentaishen，buzhideyuanliang。shishishang，lengzhandeqishidian，wangwangshishoushanghaierwucongbiaoda，liruxianshengbeitaitaimouxieyanxingshanglezizun，quelvcibiaobaibucheng，yushifenerlengzhan。ruguotaitainenglijiedaozhangfuyeshishouhaizhe，jiubijiaoyouqingxutiaoqidapojiangjudezeren。

 (2)caiquqitafangshigoutong，jinzaohuajielengzhanjiangju。zhiyaoyichuxianbushuohuadelengzhan，jiuyingyoujingtizhixin，liyongqitafangfa(shoujiduanxinhuoshidianziyoujiandeng)biaodaqianyi，huajiejiangju。

(3)lengzhanhou，xiankaikoutaolunyixieshuangfangjiaobuminganzhishi(liaoshishi、baguadeng)，daishijichengshuzaizuozhenchenggoutong。

 (4)kaikoushibiaodaganjue，erfeizhize，bushuo：“nizheimezuotaikee”，ershuo：“womendelengzhanrangwoxinqingbuan……”

zaijiatinglengbaolizhong，qishishuangfangdoushishouhaizhe，quchubicijianbinglengdejuli，cainengzhaohuixingfureqing。