巧媳妇如何化解婆媳难题？

 ziguyilai poxiguanxi shirenjiguanxizhongzuinanchulideguanxi，lianggenvrenxiangzhengduotongyigenanrenshizongshihuiyouzhanzhengde。poxiguozhaonvrenyingruhechuli?dajiayiqilaikanqiaoxifuruhehuajiepoxinanti。

qiaoxifuruhehuajiepoxinanti？

避免争吵

 popohexifuzhijianruguochanshenglemaodun，zuitoutengdeyidingshierzi(laogong)，bangsheiyebuxing，zaifashengmaodundeshihoupopoheerxiyidingdouyaobaochilengjing，yaokezhizijideqingxu，yimiandaoshihoutounaofareshuochushenmebugaishuodehua，zaochengbukewanhuidehouguo。

 suoyi，zaiqizhongdeyifangqingxubijiaojiliedeshihou，lingyifangbaochichenmo，buyaofanbota，dengtapingjingxialaideshihouzaibahuashuokaijinxingchuli。

有感恩的心

 buguannixianzaishibushihepopoyoumaodun，douyinggaiyouganendexin，yinweizuoweiyigemuqinzhendeshifeichangburongyide，popofuyangdaleyigezheimedadeerzihenijiehunle，nishibushiyinggaizuohaopoxizhijiandeguanxicaixing，yinweiruguojiatingbuhemudehua，xiangxinhuijirenmendailaihenduodekunraode，suoyibuguannixianzaipoxiguanxizenyang，nidouyaoganjinidepopo。

 buyaoyouzhengmianchongtu：ruhechulihaopoxiguanxini，qishibutongderenyoubutongdexingge，ruguojingchangzaiyiqidehua，xiangxinyidingshihuichanshengyixiemaodunde，nvrenzaizhangfuhezijidefumumianqiandoukeyisajiaode，buguozaipopomianqianshikeyishoulianyixie，yinweizheiyangcainengjipopohaoyinxiang，cainengjinliangdebimianpoxizhijiandemaodunde。

双方要时常沟通

 weileyaogaohaohepopodeguanxi，pingshichuleyaozaiwuzhishangxiaojingpopowai，haiyaohepopoduoliaoliaotian、tantanxin，xiaochuxintaishangdegehe。zhiyoubicijishidegoutong，shuangfangdexintaijulicaihuisuoduan。yincipingshizhiyaoshuangfangdouyoushijian，jiuyaogenpopoliaoliaotianhuoshixiangpopotaojiaodiandongxi，bijingtaguodeqiaobinizoudeludouduo。

儿子要发挥好中介作用

 zuoweierzihelaogong，buyaotanhuyifang，buranlingyifanghenkenenghuidafaleiting，jihuamaodun。erzi(laogong)duipoxishuangfangdexinggeleruzhizhang，yinxieerzizaichulipoxiguanxizhongqizheshifenzhongyaodezhongjiezuoyong。yaodiaojiehaopopohexifudeguanxi，jiuyaoxuehuizaipopohexifuzhiqianzhouxuan，rangpoxiguanxiyuelaiyuehao。

 weileyigehemudejiating，zhiyouyigerenshibukenengzuodaode，zhiyoupoxishuangfanggaohaoguanxicaihuijiahewanshixing。zhiyaolejieleduifangdexingge，buyaozaiguanjianshihoubalaohuxu，poxiguanxiyejiuhuirongqiahenduo。yudaoshiqinghuoshimaodunhoubuyaochaojia，yaobaishishijiangdaoli，dangranqiantishiduifangdounenglengjing。weilemeihaodeweilai，keyishishiyishangdiaojiepoxiguanxidefangfa。