老公有外遇怎么处理是办法？

 faxianlaogongyouwaiyuyinggailijijiefata，haishizhengyizhiyanbiyizhiyandenglaogongzhicuohuijiani？huazhenqingganzixunshijianyidajiayidingyaoshenzhongchuli laogongchugui zheijianshi，chulidehaodehuanenggoujishiwanhuilaogong。neimelaogongyouwaiyuzenmechulicaihaoni？

laogongyouwaiyuzenmechulishibanfa？

1.不要当面质疑老公出轨

 buyaoguodudangmianzhiyitadexingweiershiyinggaiqiaowushengxidediaochaquzheng，zheiyangjibianshimeiyouchachulaogongchuguidezhengju，yekeyibimianfuqizhijiandexinrenshoudaopohuai。zaimeiyouzhaodaoquezaozhengjuzhiqianqianwanbieyinweiyixiewuhuiershanghainimenzhijiandeganqing。

2.寻找老公可能出轨的原因

 daozhilaogongchuguideyuanyinshishenmeni？genzijiyoumeiyouguanxini？youxienanrenshengxinghaosehuaxin，dangtazhangqidebudaomanzushijiuhuirenbuzhuchugui。suoyijianyinidiaozhengchuchashiqihuozhehuanyifengongzuo，duoxieshijianzhaogujiatingpeibanlaogong。chucizhiwaihainenggouzhaochutakenengchuguideyuanyin，ranhouduizhengxiayaojishiwanhuilaogongdexin。

3.为婚姻付出七分为自己保留三分

 buyaoshebudenanrenweinifuchuweinichiku，niyueguanzhenanrentajiuyuerongyichuguiyuerongyihulveni。buyaoweilehunyinbazijidangchengzhuanqiandejiqiershiliuchusanfenlaiaiziji。youkongjianyouziwoyoujiaoaogandenvren，caigengnengzhangjiudebodelaogongdeai。

4.和老公当面做有效的沟通。

 helaogonggoutongshikeyidadacabianqiu，ouerwenwentajingchangchuchaduitayoumeiyoushenmeyingxianghuibuhuibeipanzijidengdeng。zixiguanchatadetaiduguanchatadefanying，huidawentishisuduyuekuaidenanrenjiuyuenengshuomingtaneixindejinzhang，sanyanliangyufuyanzhuanyihuatidenanrenkenengxinlijiuyueyougui。

5.留意老公在生活中跟你开的玩笑。

 youshihounanrenchuguihuixinxu，ranhouhuiguyigennikaiwanxiaoshitannidetaidu，biru“nizaibuhuilaiwojiuchuquzhaoqingrenle”。wangwangnanrenshiyikaiwanxiaodetaidulaishitannvrendefanyingranhouzaizhankaixiayibuchuguijihua。xueleidejiaoxungaosuwushunvrennanrenkaiwanxiaoshuozijichuguideshihou，shiyoubajiujiushichuguileyaomejiushishenbianyiyouhongyanzhiji，zhidengtaxiashoule。

6.提前为自己的将来做打算

 huaiyilaogongchuguishiyinggaitiqianweizijidejianglaizuodasuan，ruguolaogongqueshichuguierniyechangshilewanhuiketadexinqueyijiuwufahuiguijiating，neimezaihuaiyitachuguishijiukaishiweizijizuohaodasuan，zheibusuanyijianhuaishi。nvrenjiuyinggaiqingxingdianhuozhe，youshihoufanfuyuanliangchuguinanzhihuiyicicidediushizijidezunyanzuihoushiquziwodulidexingge，ershihaihailezijihehaiziyisheng。

 huaiyihunyinyouwentilejiuyaojishizhisun，zhaochuwentisuozaijishibujiu。ruguomingmingzhidaowentisuozaierbuqujiejuewenti，zhihuirangshijianyibubujikuanimendehunyin。suoyichenzhehaiyoujihuiwanjiuganjinfuchuxingdonglaixiubuhunyindeloudong。