怎么让一个你暗恋很久的人爱上你

 zenmerangyigenianlianhenjiuderenaishangni？nianlianyigerenxujiu，nihuiguanzhutadeyijuyidong，takaixinnibitagengkaixin，tananguoniyebitagengnanguo。yuqibeihouqiaoqiaoxihuan，buruxiangbanfarangtamanmanaishangni。

zenmerangyigenianlianhenjiuderenaishangni

1.制造机会，两人慢慢熟悉

 gaoqingchulenanshengdeaihaohexingqu，nimendegongtonghuatiziranerranjiuduoleqilai，liaotianyejiuhuibiandehenziranle。zheiyizhaobawodeqiadaohaochu，buyongdengzijibiaobai，nanshenghuoxuxianzhudongshuole“woaini”。

 duiyunanshenglaishuo，youyigenvshengnenggouzhuanxinditingzijiliaozijideaihao，shiyijianfeichangyouchengjiugandeshiqing，ruguonihetayoutongganhuati，neimetaziranerranjiuhuiduiniyouhaogan，yaozhidao，meiyigenanrendeshentilidouzhuzheyigexiaonanhai，xuyaobierenqingtingtamendeaihao。

2.保持适当的距离，增加神秘感

 nanrenxiangduiyunvrenlaishuo，gengkewangduliheziyou，taqishibuxihuanbierenguanzheziji，gengbieshuonimenhaimeiyouzaiyiqi。suoyizhuinandeshihou，yidingyaobaochihaojuli，buyaoduitadeshenghuozhishouhuajiao，gengbuyaohaimeiyouzaiyiqi，jiuyaoquganshetadeshenghuo。

3.关键时期给予小关心很有必要

 tongchangnvshenghuigengxuyaopeibanheguanxin，qishinanshengyeyiyang。tamenzuishangbushuo，danshidangtamenshoushangshengbing、shiyeshoucuo、xiangjia、hepengyounaomaodundeshihou，nizaitadiluodeshihoujiyushidangdeguanxin，xiangxintamenhuiduinijiafenxuduo。

4.懂得花钱投资自己

男人是理性的动物，同时也是视觉动物，优雅动人的外表和成熟的内心是大多数男人都没法抗拒的。懂得对自己投资的内外兼修的女人，总有一种神奇的魔力。

5.在合适的时候表白

 youhenduonvhaiziyudaozijixihuandenanshengzongshibuqingyibiaobai，shenzhirenweisheixiangaobaisheijiushule。qishinannvdouyouzhuiqiuaiqingdequanli，jingguoanlianqidelejieherenshi，nvshengyekeyixuanzezaishidangdeshihougaobai，buyaorangaiqingqingyicuoguo。

 gaobaiyaojiyuduinanshengdelejieherenshi，qiejiguoyuqiongzhuimengda，shidangdepangqiaoceji。shanyuliyonglianggerendegongtongdifangdianranbicideaiqinghuohua。