怎样原谅出轨后的老公？

 ruguo laogongchugui houtongkuzheqiuniyuanliang，niyuanyiyuanliangchuguidelaogongma？xiangxinhenduonvrendoubiaoshichenmo，bijingyaojieshouyigecengjingbeipanguozijiderenqueshiburongyi。neimenvrenyaozenmezuocainengbaochiyanxingyizhi，yuanliangchuguihoudelaogongni？

zenyangyuanliangchuguihoudelaogong？

一、不要疑神疑鬼

 nvrentianshengmingan，youqishishoudaoguoganqingchuangshangdenvrengengjiayanzhong，zhiyaolaogongwanshangwanhuilaiyidian，huozheshidianhuayiduo，huozhechucha，zheixieshiketamenzongshihuizaixinlidigu，shibushiyouquzhaoneixiexiaoyaojingqule？

 danzheibingbushiyinweinvrendeshenjingzhi，bijingxinrenshiyouxiandude，zaoyuguoyicichuangshangdenvrenzenmekenenghaihuixiangyiqianyiyangshahuhudebaifenbaixiangxinnanrenni？danbudebushuo，nvrenjishishibuzaixiangxinnanren，yebuyinggaimeitianhuozaiyishenyiguizhong，yinweizheiyangdehunyinshenghuotaileile！

二、不要时刻关注老公

 ruguonimeiyoubanfaburangzijiyishenyigui，neimenijiuyaoxuehuizhuanyizijidezhuyili，buyaobaduoyoudejinglidoufangzailaogongdeshenshang。

 dangnidexinsiquandouguazhuzheigenanrendeshihou，qishigengrongyirangzheigenanrentaotuo。sheidoubuxihuanbeibangzhushoujiao，guandesiside，jitayixiekongjian，yerangnimendeganqingyouchuanxidejihui。

三、要么忘记要么离婚

 ruguonishizaimeiyoubanfayuanliangnidelaogong，neinijiuxuanzelihunba，ruguonizhendewufasheqizheiduanhunyin，yemeiyoubanfageshezheigejia，neinijiuyidingyaoxuehuiwangji。

bijingrizihaishiyaoguoxiaqu，danruguoniyizhibutingdebaoyouyuanhenqushenghuo，chizaoyehuiduansongnimendehunyin。

四、别做怨妇

 youxienvrenzailaogongchuguizhihouxuanzeleyuanliang，danyuanliangzhihouqueshiwuzhijingdebaoyuan。zhiyaotayiyoushenmedifangrangnikanbushunyanle，nijiubuduandejiekaizheigeshangba，ranglianggerendeguanxiyuejiabingleng。danzheiyangdezuofa，chulerangnanrenxincundenayidiankuijiudouxiaoshizhiwai，meiyourenhehaochu。

五、坦白你的想法

 ruguonizhendemeiyoubanfashifangzijideyayi，neinijiuyinggaixiangtatanbainidexiangfa，buxuyaokeyideyayiziji，youshihoutanbaideshuochuzijideganshoufanerbiniyizhiyayizhuzijideqingxugenghao。jiarutameiyouhuilai，nidadianhuawenta，ruguotachuchaqule，nijiuquchagang，buyaoyiweidehusiluanxiang，yinweimeiyourenheyiyi。

六、做自己的事情

 meigerendouyouzijideshiqingyaoqumang，niyeshizheiyang。ruguonishijiatingfunv，neinijiuqupeiyangzijideaihao，ruguonishizhichangnvxing，neinijiujiabeinulidefuchujingliqugongzuo。meiyoushenmeshiqingshishijianbunengdanwangde，nisuoxuyaodeshimangliuqilai，chongshiyidianyejiubuhuirangzijihusiluanxiangle。