花镇情感：男生谈恋爱的时候到底在想什么

他还爱我吗?

taweishenmebuxiangzhiqianneiyangziduiwohao?tabianle…

他到底是怎么想的?

他把我当什么了?

……

 zuoweiyigeqingganzixunshi，wofuwuguoshangqianweilaifangzhe。meitiandouhuitingdaogezhonggeyangdelaifangzhewenwoleisidewenti，wofaxiannvxingzaiaiqingzhong，tebierongyimimang，tebiexiangyaozhidaonanrenduizijiyoushenmeyangdexiangfa。suoyijintianwoxianghenitanyitan，nvshengzenmeyangqulejienanshengzailianaishihoudexintai

：男人谈恋爱的时候到底在想什么？

 shouxianwoyaoshuoming，zheizhishiyigeputongdezixunshizuijindeyidianganwuhesuixiang，kenengbingmeiyounixiangyaode“ganhuo”，bijingganhuochiduoleyerongyiyezhe，ouerhaishiyaolaiyiwanjitangrunrunhou。dangran，wohaishixiwang，tanengjinideshenghuodailaiyidiandiangaibian。

 jiyuyilian，wenhua，jiazhiguan，jinhuaxintaidengdeng(nibuyongqulejiezheixiexintaidezhuanyemingci，wulian)lianaideguanxitongchangyoujizhongmoshi：

一，恋人

二，情人

san，lianren——jiehunduixiang

si，qingren——lianren——jiehunduixiang

五，结婚对象

 faxianleshenme?jinruyiduanguanxiheguanxidezouxiangqishitingduodeshibushi?nikeyifaxianniyiweigennijiehundelianrenyexubingbushiyongniyiweidefangshizaigennijiaowang。youyibenshujiao《zuoniyiweiniyiweidejiushiniyiweidema?》，huoxunengjinixiexudaan。

 zaiganqingzhongyudaokunhuo，shiyijiantingyumendeshiqing，youshihoubazijijiaojigongzuo、jiaojilaoban，keyirangzijicongwusuoshicongdefannaolijiefangchulai，keyixiaban、fangjiahuijia，xinlijiuxiangcaizhegudianyiyang，momingdiqienuo，dakaitongxunlu，xijizheyouzijiloudiaodejuhui，jiuxiangdengdaibaimawangziyiyang。kegengduoshihou，denglaidequeshishiwanghechenmo。

keshi，zenyangkeyirangkunnanqingxiyixie，meineimedinanyimianduini?

yexu，xianlejielejieziji，hebierendaodizenmezaixiang，zenmeyanghudong，huigenghaoxie。

（nanshengtanlianaideshihoudaodizaixiangshenme？）

一、恋人

 bayigerendangchenglianrendeshihou，tongchanghuiyoubijiaoduodechongdongheyuwang。shangbanfaxiaoxi，xiabanyefaxiaoxi，bijiaoleyinizaiyiqi，gengkanzhongshenzhizhikanzhongbicidezaihuchengdu。

youxienvshengfeichangxiangshouzheiyangdelianai，kezheiyangdelianaichixubannianzuoyou，youshihouhuimianlinyigexiaoxiaoganga：

duifangzenmebudaiwojianjiazhang?weishenmeconglaimeiyougenwotiguoyihoudeshenghuo?

ruguoduifangmeiyoujiehundexiangfa，tongchangtahuihanhuqici，yonghuogaoxiaohuohuibidefangshichuli。

neizheigeshihou，gaizenmebanni?

 1. sisuoxiashifouyoudadongtajinruhunyindedian。2. changshilejietashifouyoujihuaguojiehun，shifouyoujiehundezhunbei。3. changshizuoyixiegongtongzhangyuanguihuadexiguan。

dangran，zuizhongyaoshixiangqingchuzijishizhixiangyaogelianren、yiduanlianai，haishiqita。

二、情人

bayigerendangchengqingrendeshihou，jiqing、xingxiangguananshihuibijiaoduo，erguanxizhongliubaiyezuiduo。

 suoyiwangwangbuneimezhidaotazainali、zaizuoshenme，duifangyehuibaochilvelengdanhuoqiangyingxiedezitai。yicilaiweixiliangrenzhijianyixingxiyinweizhudeguanxi。

 chuzaizheiyangdeguanxizhong，duanqidelangmancijishikeyiyuqide，eryaozhangjiuzebuneimerongyi。suoyi，ruguoxuanzelezheiyangyiduanguanxi，jidezuohaofanghucuoshi，yejidegaosuziji，zhishijigeyuedeqingren。

三、恋人—结婚对象

zheiyangdeguanxibijiaorongyibianrende，yibanniganzuodeguanxi，pubianhuipianzheileixing。

 ruguoniyongyouzheiyangyiduanguanxi，nanshenghuibijiaokanzhongnideyijiashuxing，nengbunengzhaoguren，bicishifoujibenda，jialirenshifouzhichi，nanshenghuileyigennixiezuo，shangyiyixieshiqing，haihuimanmankaifangzijidejiaowangquanheqinyouquan。

 yuanyinshicaiquzheiyangdejiaowangmoshidenansheng，zaizhaonvshengzhiqianjiuyoukaolvguohunyin，suoyi，dangcaiquzheiyangdelianaimoshi，ganqingdeqiangdu，wangwanghuizhashiyixie。fenshoulebijiaorongyihuitou，duobanjiushizheizhong。

四、 情人—恋人—结婚对象

 caiquzheigeguanximoxingdenanshenghenshao，shenzhijishao。yinweiyouxiguanqujianliqingrenguanxidenansheng，jiazhi、nengli、jinglitongchangjiaogaoxie。

 zaijishaoshuqingkuangxia，nvshengdezhangxiang、xingge、nenglibeijingdounengfuheshenzhichaoguonanshengdeyuqi，zaijingshenqihehexiangchushushishi，nanshenghuicaiquzheiyangdemoshi。buguoyaoshenzhong，yinweizhendehenshao。

五、结婚对象

 youxiangqinhejieshaokaiqideguanxi，pianxiangjiehunduixiangdemoshihuibijiaoduo。haochushi，bijiaodezhiguan，yinweizaizheiyangdeguanxizhong，bicideyoudianquedianshifoufuheyuqidoushiyoujikexunde。quedianshi，guanxidedanxinghuixiangduichayixie。kenengshenggeqijiuyaoyansudetanyitan。lengzhanle，yebijiaonanlaxiamianziquhuanjie。

zheiyangdeguanxi，duilianggerendeqinggannengliyaoqiuqishihengao。yinweizheiyangdemoshi，nanshengduinvshengderongcuolv，xiangduidiyixie。

 yishang，shiwogenjuzijidegongzuojingyanzongjiechudeyixiemoshi，xiwangkeyibangdaoni，kanqingzijiheduifangdeqingganmoshi，zaixuxuertuzhi，miandeqiwangheshiwang，laidetaicongmang。

最后，希望对爱情怀有期待的你，收获幸福。 (本文作者：龚建勋)