花镇婚前五问 婚姻测试

 huazhenhunqianwuwen ，meigewentidouzheshechunidehunyinshenghuodeweilaifengxianhekenenghuichanshengdamaodundechongtudian。dangran，jishinibuwenzheixiewenti，yebuhuiyingxiangzhengchangqingkuangxiadeshenghuo，danzaimianduijiatinghehunyinzhongdabiangudeshihou，nimendemaodunhenkenenghuituranbaofachulai，chengweihuihuaihunyindeyuanxiong。（ps：ciwairuguoniyijingjiehun，jianyinibuyaowenzheixiewenti。）

huazhenhunqianwuwen，dajiadouyinggaiceyice！

jifenfangshi：meidaotimanfen20fen，gongji100fen。ruguonijuedezheigewentinanyiwenchukou，neimejilingfen。

这五个问题是：

1.“如果我没有生育能力，你和家里人能接受我这样的媳妇吗？”

 buyaoyiweinanrenrangnijitashenghaizijiushiaini，neixiekengmengguaipiancongrenkoufanzishoulimaixifuhuiqudenanren，ninengshuotashiaitadema？tamenwanchengdeshitamendedongwubenneng，bushiniyaodeai。

 suoyi，zheigewenticeshideshinanrenduinigerenmeilidezhongshichengdu。yigebashengyukandehenzhongdenanxing，nixuanzetadeshihou，yinggaiyaojinshenyixie。yaozhidao，henduonanrenshibanvxingwanquandangchengshengyugongjulaikande，haiyouyibufennanrenshibunengjieshounvrenbushengyude。genjumoumenhuwangzhandui22088weinanwangyoudediaochashujuxianshi，zuzu45%denanrenbunengjieshounvrenbushengyu。yongwangzhanbianjidehuashuo：“zaitamenkanlai，airenbujinjinshizijidebanlv，haixuyaofudaishengyugongneng。ruguobunengshixianzheigechuanzongjiedaidegongneng，nvrenjiumeiyouzigechengweizijideairen。”

 ershishishang，nvxinghunhouyinianbuyundejilvzuzugaoda5%，yejiushishuo，meiershigerenlimian，youyigeyuanfaxingbuyunzhenghuanzhe。zheilianggegailvzhongheqilai，zuiduomei40genvrenzhong，jiuyouyigehuiyinweibuyunerbuhuibeiqibanlvsuojieshou。ciwai，haiyouyixiaobufenfunv，huiyinweiyixieyubanlvpaiyideyuanyinbunengshunlihuaiyun。zheiyibufenrenhaimeiyoujirushangshudeshujuzhongqu。nihenkenenghuiyinweibuyunerbeilihun，zheigefengxianniyinggaizaihunqianjirukaolv。

 ruguonanrenjiandingdihuidani：“bunengshengmeiguanxi，jialirenyourenhewentiwolaichuli，shiwoquni，bushitamenquni。”nikeyijidaotamanfen20fen。

 ruguonanrenshuo：“wogerenshiwusuoweide（daduoshunianqingnanrendouhuizheimeshuo），yexujialikenenghuiyouyijian。”nijiuyinggaimingbai，tahenyoukenengshuyu45%neibufenbunengjieshounvrenbushengyudenanxing。ruguonanrenbiaoxianchuchiyidetaidu，neinijiuyaoxiangyixiangle。yigeduihoudaikandehenzhongdenanren，hetazaiyiqidehua，hunyinfengxianhuidayixie。zaizheili，nikeyikantamendetaidu，jichu0-9fendeyigefenshu。zheigefenshubuguangbaohannizijibuyundefengxian，haibaohanhaizichengnianhouyaozheduinimenhunyindepohuai，haibaohantazaihunwaizaishengyusishengzidekenengxing。

2.“如果我遇到强奸犯，你是希望我誓死保卫贞洁，还是顺从以便不受更多伤害”？（补充问题：“如果你以后有个女儿，你是希望她……还是……”）

 nvrenzaoyuqiangbaodekenengxingsuibuda，danzheigewentikeyizheshechunanrenduinideziwoyiyuandezunzhong，yijiduinizheigeren（erbushiniderouti）dexuyaochengdu。ruguotabanidezhenjiekandebinideshengminghaizhongyao，zheiyangdenanrenniyidingdejitalingfen。

 nikeyizaiwenwanzheigewentizhihou，zhuijiayigejiashexingdewenti，guanyuweilaidenver。tangruolianggedaandoushihuozhehuilai，nikeyijita20fenmanfen。tangruodoushixiwangnimenzuncongzijideyiyuan，neimekeyijita10fen。tangruolianggedaanyourenhechuru（birushuo，tamenhuidizhizheigewenti，buyuanyizhengmianhuida，fanfushuoxiwangnishefatuotao，qiexiwangnverhuozhehuilai），huozhexiwangnverzuncongqilaogongdeyiyuan，neime0fen。

 duile，zheigewentiwozuoguoyigexiaozhongdediaocha，fenweileliangbo，lingrenzhenjingdediaochajieguoshi：ruguonanrenmendexifuyudaoqiangjianfan，bushaorenxiwangxifushisibaoweizhenjie；ruguonanrenmendenveryudaoqiangjianfan，jibenshang100%denanrendouxiwangtahuozhehuilai。nizaitamenxinzhong，daodishiyijusiyouderouti，haishiduitaeryanzuizhongyaoderenzhiyi，xiaoxiaodeyigewentijiukejianfenxiao。

3.“你房产证上写我名字吗？”（补充问题：“你愿意以后你的女儿嫁给房产证上不写她名字的男人吗？”）

 caifuhediweiduinanxingzeouyouli，dannvxingzeoubingwutaiduobiyi。fouzeweishenmeneimeduonvrenxiangyaojiajihuangdi，quemeiyouqianfuhoujidenanrenxiangyaodangfumade？suoyi，zheigewentihenvrenzijidefangchan、zijimingxiadecaichanwuguan。jinjinkaoliangnanrenyuanyiduinvrendetouruchengdu。zheigetouruchengduyiweizhetashifoubanihenidehoudaikanchengtazuizhongyaoderen。

ruguotahenyouqian，yuanyihenifenxiangyiban；huozhetasuiranqianbuduo，danyuanyizhixieniyigerenmingzi。neime20fen。

 ruguoheshangshuyouyidingwucha，birushuohenyouqiandanbuyuanyiheniyibanyiban；huozheqianbuduo，danyuanyijiashangnimingzi，neime10fen。

 ruguotagaosuni：“wodangranshihenyuanyi，danyinwei*****，wozuobulezhu”，neime0fen。zhuyi，zaizheili，wulunshenmeliyoudoushi0fen。

 yigeshoulimeiyouzhunbeihaoquxifudezibenjiuxiangquxifu，zheixiangdangyuzuchequjiaruchaopaojulebu，nijuede，chaopaojulebuyinggairangtajiaruma？hunyinfaxinjiechulaizhihou，zheiyangdeqianchezhijianyijingheranyoule，suoyiqinggeweimmzhuyi，youxiguizeyijinghenifumuneiyibeijieranbutongle，buyaoyanzhengzhengwanghuokenglitiao。chufeinidasuandaizheliangsuihaizidanghuanglianpojingshenchuhu。

4.“我和你妈同时掉水里了，只能救一个你先救谁？”

 qishizheizhongwentifashengdekenengxinghenxiao，danshizheigewentiguwangjinlaidenvrendouhuiwen，nanrendouhuibeiwen。zheizhongjianfanyingdeshishenmewentini：shinvrendouxiwangzhidaozijihemuqinzainanfangxinzhongdediweishuqingshuzhong。zheigewentishizaishitailao，yizhiyuhenduorenbazheigewentikanchengxiaohua。dagehahajiuguoqule。

我所听过的能够给出20分满分的回答是:“先救我妈，但是如果你死了，我陪你一起死”“你是我最爱的人所以我听你的，你让我先救谁我就先救谁！！”“先救你，我妈有我爸救呢。”“如果我们孩子没有成年，我先救你，因为孩子不能没有妈，如果我们没有孩子，我先救我妈，因为我妈生我的时候也是用命换来的。”“如果将来你生了个儿子，你希望他怎么回答啊？”以上这些满分答案里，有的是比较取巧的，有的是有情有义的，有的是让女方设身处地的。但无论如何，都反映出男方面对 婆媳矛盾  deqiangdadechulinenglihehuajienengli。yijizaifashengpoximaodundejiduanqingkuangxia，nanfanghuiruhejuezehequanheng。zheigewentideshijiyiyijiuzaiyuci。

 zhandingjietiehuida“xianjiuni”，duobanshipiannide，danjiyuchengnuoheyizhixingyuanli（canjian《yingxiangli》），womenzhuoqingji10fen。danruonanfangshuo：“nibushihuiyouyongma？”“womahuiyouyong”“buhuizhenyouzheizhongshide”“nibushicunxinyaowakengjiwozuanba”，yihuoborandanushuo“nizenmenenghewoshagua”“womaduinibuhaomanizheimezhouta”“xianjiuwoma，laopokeyizaihuan，laomazhiyouyige”，neijiukending0fen。

 xuyaoshuomingdeshi，zheigewentibenshenbuzaiyushengsi，buzaiyuxuanze，erzaiyunanrenhuajiemaodunheyingduinantidenengli。neixiemianduihuatiborandanu，huibihuati，shenzhidayaxifudenanrenshichulibuhaopoxiguanxide。nijiaguoqu，weilaideluhuigewaijianxinmanzhang。

 haiyou，ruguonibeinanrenmenguzaodeyulunsuohunong，bazheigewentikanchengwuliaolaotaowenti，buquwenyebuquxiang，neimerihouyudaopoximaodundeshihoujiubuyaoyuanhennanrenzongxiangzhetadema。

5.“如果我难产，而且即使救活了我，我也会完全丧失生育能力，这时你父母希望保孩子，你选择保大人还是孩子？”

 zhandingjietiehuidadangranbaodaren，20fenmanfen。fanyouchiyi，leisi“yinggaihuibaodarenba”zheiyileidehua，zhuoqingji1-9fen。ciwai，fanshitamendehuidarangnitingqilaixinli“gedeng”yixia。nijiuyinggaizhidao，tamenshiyidinghuifangqini，baozhuzijihoudaide。0fen。

 yishangwugewenti，suiranmeigerenxinzhongdebiaozhunbutong，danfuhedaduoshunvxingxintaiqidaidefenshuqueshitongyide。meidaotimanfen20fen，gongji100fen，nideduixiangdedaoduoshaofenni？

ruguo60fenyixia，neijiuganjindehuanyigeba。tamuqianhaimeiyouchengshudaokeyijiniyigehunyin。

 60-80，nikeyizaihaohaopeiyangta，changshizhejiejueliangrenzhijiandeyixieguandianfenqi，jiejuehaozhiqian，buyaomangmuzhajinhunyinli。

 ruguomanfen100fendehua，neidexiangongxiniyixia，niyijingyouyigefeichanghaodekaishi，xiwangnizhenxinidelaogonghehunyin，yongnidequanxinquanyiqujiaoguanzheiduoaizhihua。  ruguotahunqianwuwenmeiyoudedaomanfen，shibushijiuwukejiuyaoleni？nimenxiangchuzhongyinggaizhuyixieshenmeni？