恋爱保鲜：异地恋该怎么维持感情

异地恋该怎么 维持感情  ？yidiliangengnengkaoyanqinglvzhijiandeganqing，yaoshuangfangbicixinren，chengdanzeren，youyuanze，donggoutong。neimeyidiliangaizenmeweichiganqing？yidilianxuyaozhuyixieshenmeni？

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异地恋该怎么维持感情

从实践和数据来说，异地恋比较适合那些内心比较强大，内心比较成熟的人。其实 维持异地恋 ganqing，xuehuizhangworuhegoutongbingqiejinimendeguanxishehaogezhongyuanze，yidilianshixingdetongde。

1.两人事先说好异地恋的原则。

 yidilianganqingkaoyanqinglvdexinrenhechengshounengli。shuangfangshedingxiezhidaonimenyidiguanxideyuanzeshihenzhongyaode，keyizaiyidiliandeshihouanshiziji，xianzaiyidilianshiweileshenme，zaiyidilianqijianshuangfangdachenglezenyangdexingweigongshi。xingweigongshileisiyumeitiandoujiaoliu，zhishaoliangsangeyueyaojianyimian，pingribunengdanduheyixingyuehuideng。

2.保持每天都联系，彼此交流。

 yidiliandeqinglvbunengxiangputongdeqinglvyiyang，xiangjianmianjiujianmian，shoudaodexianzhijiaoduo。danshicongchenggongdeyidiguanxilaikan，tamennenggoufangzhaozhengchangguanxidemoshi。birudoubaochimeitiandelianxi，baochijiaoliu。xianzaihulianwangzheimefada，yidiliandeqinglvmeitianlianxiyebushiwenti，yangchengxiguan，xinxiduifang，yidilianyenenghenhaodiweichiganqing。

3.善于表达自己的感情。

 wulunshinanshenghaishinvsheng，yaoshanyubiaodazijideganqing，tebieshiduiyuyidiliandeqinglvmen，biaodaqingganduinimendeguanxidefazhanhewendinghenzhongyao。qizhongyigekeyizengjinnimendeguanxidewendingdefangshishianweita/tanihuifuzede，rangduifangfangxin。dangnibiaodachunideganqingdeshihou，nijiushiduifangzhidaonizaifuchu，nihuiweihuhaonimendeguanxi。

4.行动上寄相思。

 suiranshenchuyidi，shibushijizaiyididelingyibanjiyixiedongxiyibiaoxiangsiheaiyizhiqing，yeshilianaibaoxiandemijizhiyi。haiyouyigexiaojiqiao，weichiyidilianganqingdeliwu，yueshigexinghuaheyouxiangxiangli，nidebanlvjiuduinidetitieyinxiangyueshenke。xiangshiyixiediydeliwu，nizhuanmenweitazuodeliwudengdeng。

5.新颖的约会方式——异地同时约会。

 xianzaidenianqingrennaodonghexinyiyuelaiyueda，youyizhongzhaopianshi“yididewomen，tongyangdeganqing”，zailianggebutongdedifang，womenzuozhetongyangdeshiqing，ranhouzaidianhualisushuoqinghua，yongzhaopianjiluyidideganqing。

6.相信彼此。

 zizunxinbuqiangyijiquefaxinrenhuipohuaimeihaodeguanxi。yidilian，xinrenhenzhongyao，weichiyidilianganqing，bicixinren，duizijizugouzixin，duiliangrendeganqingzugouzixin，zaihaohaocongxijieshangweichiganqing，wentibuda。

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异地恋需要注意什么

1.异地恋要理解支持信任对方

 duiyuzhangqiliangdifenju，shuangfangzonghuiyouyifanghuiyoubumanqingxu，duiyuzheizhongqingkuang，shuangfangbixutanchengxiangdai，biaodazijizhenshidexiangfa，tongshiyeyaolijieduifang，kaolvduifangdeganshou，huanweisikao，zheiyangcainengrangyidilianqinggengjialaogu。

2.信任对方

xinrenshiganqingzhangjiudejichu。yidilianzuijidejiushicaiyi。meiyouquezaozhengjuzhiqianbuyaoqingyiyuhuaiyiairendezhongcheng。

 youyuyididelianrenmeibanfajingchangzaiyiqi，duifangdeyijuyidongniwufalejie，ruguoyinweipangrendetiaosuohuozhezijibugouxinrendehua，neimenimenjiuhuihenrongyiyinweiwujieerzhengchao，nihuoxubuzhidao，nidemeiyicicaiyidoushizaifenjienimendeaiqing，daozuihouhenyoukenengzaiyicizhengchaozhongrangnimendeganqingfenbenglixi。suoyi，xinrenhenzhongyao，jiranxuanzeleta，jiranxuanzeleyidilian，neinijiudewutiaojiandixinrenta。

3.自控力

 younannvpengyou，quehaizaitihuidanshendetongku，zheiduiyurenheyigereneryandoushihennanrenshoude。youqishishenbianhaiyouhenduohuahuacaocao，yidankongzhibuzhu，jiuhuijizheichangaiqingranshangwukemomiedewudian。

这时就需要有一定的自控力，能准确把握跟异性的距离，不单独跟异性约会，也不频繁和异性聊天，对有非分之想的人不要给他们任何希望。