婚姻修复案例：冷爱教你如何修复夫妻关系

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网友 情感咨询

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花镇情感咨询师冷爱回复：

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第一，反思这段关系里的互动模式，寻找里面负面沟通的部分；

第二，重新形成正面的互动模式；

第三，夫妻二人共同努力维持这种正面的循环模式。

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