女生怎么和男生聊天？和男生聊天技巧

女生怎么和男生聊天？当女生遇到心仪的男生，更是小鹿乱撞，嘴巴特别笨，不知道怎么和男生聊天。其实掌握和男生 聊天技巧 ，huirangnanshengaishangheniliaotian。

nvshengzenmehenanshengliaotian？henanshengliaotianjiqiao

技巧1：寻找两个人的共通点

 gongtongdian，yisishinimenbiciyousuojiaojide，youxiangsixingdedian。duifangshizijixihuanderen，sheidoubuxiangshuocuohua。zheigeshihou，henanshengliaotianjiqiaokeyizhaolianggerenzhijiandegongtongdian。

 biruliangrenshixuesheng，xueshengzheigeshenfenjiushigongtongdian，xueshengzhijianliaodezuiduodeshixuexihuozhebaoyuanyalida，yaoburanjiushizijijianglaiyaokaoshenmeyangdedaxuehuozhecongshishenmexingye。congzheigedian，keyikaishiyigehuatiyuan。

技巧2：聊对方想说的

kandaozheige，yourenhuiwen：wozenmehuizhidaotaxiangshuoshenme？woyaozhidaowojiubudanxinliaotianle。

 suoyizheiyibudeliaotianjiqiaozhiqian，womenyaoxianzhidaoduifangxiangshuoshenme。keyicongtadepengyouquandengduifangchangyongdeshejiaogongjuzhong，duoguanzhutadezhuangtai，laizhidaotadeshenghuomoyanglailejietadeshenghuo，zhaodaohuati。

 congnijuedetakenengganxingqudedongxixiashou，zhaoyigehuatikaishi。ruguoniduizhaodehuatibuzixinpaduifangbuxihuan，keyikanduifangpengyouquanlifadezhaopian，youmeiyoucanyutashenghuodedongxi。

 biruchongwuhuozhezhiwu，youdehuajiukeyiwenleiside“tahaokeaia，taduodale”huozheshi“woyetebiexihuanyangduorouzhiwu。”touqisuohaodaibiaoniyongxin，yongxinzaijingyingzheiduanganqing。

nvshengzenmehenanshengliaotian？henanshengliaotianjiqiao

技巧3：怎么说比说什么重要

 yijuhuacongbutongrendekouzhongshuochulaijiuhuiyoubutongdexiaoguo，jirendeganjueyebuyiyang。yaoxiangjirenliuxiahaoyinxiang，jiuyaozhangwohaozheigeliaotianjiqiao——zaishuohuadeshihouzhuyizijidetaiduheyuqi。

 tongchangtingyigerenshuohuadetaidujiukeyidazhimingbaizheigerenshibushizaiyongxinting，shibushizaifuyan。weilerangduifangnengjixushuoxiaqu，zaitingdeguochengzhongnikeyishidangdefabiaoyixiezijideyijianhuozheduishiqingdejianyifangfa。zheihuirangduifangzhidaonizaiting，duifangcaihuiyoushuogengduodeyuwang。

技巧4：肢体动作和心态也很重要

 yongxinting：zaihebierenliaotiandeguochengzhong，yidingyaoyongxinqutingduifangshuoleshenme，zheiyangnicainengbuzhuodaoduifangdeyouxiaoxinxi，cainenggenghaodezhankaihuatidejixu，caishiyigehaodeliaotianjiqiao。

 buyaozaiyimiaohui：bierenmeiyoumiaohuinidexinxi，bingbushishuoduinimeixingqu，kenengshiduifangdangshizhengzaimang。danshiruguoyizhidoushi，neijiushiduinimeixingqu，nijiububiyaozaitaoxian。

适当的时间聊天：不要找大半夜的人家已经睡下了你却发了一句有没有睡，这对别人来说不仅是不礼貌还是一种骚扰。