别在男人面前假装大方 有话不说下场很惨

 benren，zuobiaoguangzhou，jinnian7yuefendaxuebiye，yizhaodaomouguoqigongzuo。nanyou，kaoyandang，jitianhoujiangqucanjiamoudaxuekaoyanfushi。yinshengaoyanzhigenwentibenshenwuguan，bianbuzaimiaoshu。

 shiqingbeijingshizheiyangde，nanyoukaoyan，qianduanshijianguojiaxianhaiweichulai，tashuoweilejizijiliutiaohoulu，bianshuoxianzhaogongzuohaiyouqushishikaogong，wobiaoshitongyi，rangtafangshouquzuo，zunzhongtadexiangfa。

 zaitakaoyanshang，woshuonixinxinkukuneimeduonianzhunbeikaoyan，yaoshigaixuexiaodefenshuxianshangbuqu，xuanzediaojidehua，buyongkaolvwo，bijingnihualeneimeduojingli，debaoyigezhidedexuexiao，buguanshizaiguangdongshengneihaishishengwai。

 erzaigongzuoshang，bijingyedehuashanghenduojingli，buxianyuguangzhou，shengneichengshidoukeyi。erwomendemaodunbaofazaitabaokaogongwuyuanshang。

 yinweizhiqianmingqueshuoguobuxihuanyidilian，danshitazaibaokaogongwuyuandeshihou，diyigexiangfabushiliuzaiguangzhou，ershihuiqulaojia，shuoshijializhiyoutazijiyigeerzi，xuyaotahuiquzhaogujiaren，bijingzijiyijingbiye。

 danshizaiwokanlai，takaogongwuyuan，shuyuwunaizhixuan，gongwuyuanshitadedisangexuanze，yejiushikaoyankaobushang，gongzuozhaobudao，zaimeibanfadetiaojianxiabaokaogongwuyuan，tadediyifanyingqueshibaokaobiededifang。

 huranjuedezhiqiandesuoyouliangjie，douhuanbuhuitaduiwodeliangjie，zaiyouyiwanzhongxuanzedeqingkuangxia，tayebuyuanyixuanzeliuzaiwoshenbian。

 neitianxinlibushufu，bianhetachaoleyijia，tashuoshibushizhiyoumeitiannianzaiwoshenbianwocainengmanyi，tingdaozheijuhuayehenshishiwang。houlaishiruo，rangtasuibianzijixihuanshenmejiuxuanshenme，tabianyemeiyouxuanzeliuzaiguangzhou。

 jintianfenshuxianchulai，nengcanjiafushi，danshitashuoliutiaohoulu，yequtianbaolediaoji，sangezhiyuanzhongzhiyouyigeshizaishengnei。wentibianshi，wanquanganjuebudaotaweilewoquzuoshenme，shiwojiaoqinglehaishizenmeyang?

（biezainanrenmianqianjiazhuangdafang，youhuabushuoxiachanghencan！）

花镇情感咨询师 冷爱 回答：

 ruguonineixinyougexinyuan，neinijiuyaoshuochulai，buyaozaibeidilimomoditongku。youqibuyaozainanrenmianqianjiazhuangdafang，buranxiachangyounisuojian，bingbuhao。nisuoweidebiaoshirangtafangshouquzuo，zunzhongtadexiangfa，kezuihouniyoushuoshenmeni?nishuowanquanganjuebudaotaweinizuoleshenme。niqianhoushiziwomaodunde。

 zaikaoyanshang，nishuolebuyongkaolvni，taqueshiyemeiyoukaolvni，ranhounijiugandaohentongkule。neinijiazhuangdafangganmani，haiburuzhijiegaosuta，nijiuxiwangtakaolvni，jiuxuyaotazainishenbian。

 moburushuangfangzuoxialailiaoyiliao，banidezheixiexuqiujiangchulai，kankanduifangshibushinenggoumanzuni，zonghaoguojiazhuangdafang，yigerentongku。

 niyaozhidao，tabenlaijiushiziyoude，bushiniencijitade。tayuanbenjiushixiangqunaerjiunengquna，buxuyaodedaoniyunxude。ruguonijuedetaqunashiniduitadeyizhongenci，neijiudacuotecuole。

zongdelaishuo，taxianzaidemeiyigexingweidoushizailikai。buyongchaojia，niyaorenzhentingtingtadexinsheng。

 tashuo“shibushimeitiannianzainishenbian，nicainengmanyi?”zheizhishitaduinidefankangshijiangdeqihua，niyaogaosutanidezhenzhengxuqiu。bingqie，yezhenzhengqulijietadexuyao，zhidaotaxiangyaoshenme，bunenggouzaiqubita。

 yiduanganqing，ruguoduifangzhendexianglikai，nijiushilayelabuzhu。jishinibipotaliuzaizheili，tadeneizhongbuganxinhetongku，yehuicuihuinimendeguanxi。

 moburuxinpingqihezuoxialai，bujiasherenhelichangdiqulijietadexuyao，ranhouzaigaosutanidexuyao，kankannengbunengzhaodaoyigepinghengdian，zheicaishijiejuewentidegenbenfangfa。