想谈一场不分手的恋爱 先看看这5条恋爱忠告

 henduonvshengdouxiangyaoyouyuyirenbaishouzheiyangdetianmiaiqing，keshitanyichang bufenshoudelianai tanherongyi，meiduanganqinglichanshengdewentidougebuyiyang。danshi，wohaishiyouzheimewutiaolianaizhonggaokeyijidaoni，xiwangnilianaitianmibufenshou。

恋爱忠告01、恋爱应该是让自己开心的

 shishizuijinhewokusu：“woganjuezuijinwonanpengyouduiwohenlengdan，dadianhuadouaidabulide。meiciyuetachuquwan，tayezongshijujuewo。tashibushibuaiwole?“wochuyuanwei，zhishuo：“takenengshiyinweizuijingongzuobijiaomangba。”

danruguoyigerenjingchangyou“bubeiai”deganjue，erqieganjueqianglie，neimehuoxuduifangzhendejiushibuainile。

 xianzaiyijingbushineigenanzhuinvdeshidaile，nvshengyeyouzhuiqiuzijixingfudequanli，danshibuguanxingshishishenmeyangde，tan lianai dezongzhiyijiushiyaorangzijikaixin，lianaiyiranshiyijianhuirangrenganjuexingfudeshiqing。ruguonimeiyouzheizhongganjue，neiduobanshiyijingshiquleaiqing。

 jiuxiangniwufajiaoxingyigezhuangshuideren，niyemeiyoubanfamianqiangyigebuainideren。ruguotabuainijiufangshouba，nizaijiuchanzhihuijizijitiandu，daoburujizijiyigexindejihui。youdeshihou，huibiecuodecainengheduidexiangfeng。

恋爱忠告02、别把“对你好”视为理所当然

 youdenvhaizi，jiatingtiaojianbijiaoyouyue，congxiaobuchouchibuchouchuan。tazaizaijiarenhehuzhongchengzhang，“pengzaishoulipasuile，hanzaizuilipahuale”。zheizhongnvshengzaitanlianaideshihourongyidaiyou“gongzhubing”。

 wodepengyouqiqijiushiyige“xiaogongzhu”。lianai2nian，taconglaibuzhidaonanpengyouxihuanchishenme，chuquchifantadouzhixuanzijixihuanchidelaidian;tayejingchangyinweiyaoshuzhuangdabanjiudaozhiyuehuichidao，wulunshiyanyanggaozhaodexiatianhaishihanfenglinliededongtian，nanpengyouyidengkenengjiushiyigexiaoshi;tayishengqijiubujiedianhuabuhuiduanxin，youshihouhaizhijieguandiaoshouji，buguannanyouduojiduodanxin。zuikepadeshi，tajuedenanpengyouqianjiuta、baorongtadouyinggaishilisuoyingdangde。

 aiqingli，dangranxuyaoyoufuchu。nanyoudequeshiyinggaishishituirang，jinvshengbeiaideganjue。danshi，nanshengyeshiyigehuoshengshengderen，tameiyourenheshiqingdouyaoqianjiunvshengdeyiwu。suoyi，zaitanlianaideshihou，haishiyaoduojiangxinbixin，bunengzhangzhebierenduizijidehao，jiushichongerjiao。

恋爱忠告03、不要冷战，及时沟通

“nvshengdaodiyinweishenmeshengqile?”zheigewentikenengshishijiedishiyidaweijiezhimi。

 kenengzhishiyinweinanshengguomaludeshihouwangjiqiantadeshou，youkenengshinanshengmaileyibeitabuxihuandenaicha，yeyoukenengtazhishilaidayimalekansheidoubushunyan……

 nanshenghuoxugenbenmeiyouyishidaozijidenvyoubugaoxingle，mianduitadelengyanlengyujiuhuiganjuemomingqimiao。zheixiewentibenlaijiubuda，cuzhidayedenanshenggengjiananyizhuyidao，ruguozheishihounvshenghaibuyuanyishuochulai，jiuhenrongyidaozhimaodun。

 suoyinvshengya，youshihoubuyaotaijiaoqingle，youshenmebumanyidejiuyaoshuochulai。lianggerenyaoduogoutonghejiaoliu，shuozijidexiangfa，zheiyeshiduifanglejienideyizhongfangshi。

 tazhidaolenishengqideyuanyin，xiacikenengjiubuhuizaifanle。ruguoniburangtazhidao，tahaishihuizaifan，niyouzaicishengqi，bushizijizaozuima?

恋爱忠告 04、有好的格局

wohaiyaoqiangliejianyinvsheng，wulunshijingjihaishijingshen，nidouyidingyaozaiaiqingzhongbaochiheduifangshijunlididegeju。

 suhuashuo，jingjijichujuedingshangcengjianzhu，zhiyouzaijingjishangbaochiduli，nizaiyiduanganqingzhongshuohuadouhuigengyoufenliang。erjingshenduli，rangnilikaiduifangyenenghuodejingcai，nibuxuyaoshikezhanzheduifang，buhuijiduifangtaiduodeyali。

 zheiyangshibushishuozailianaizhongdehuafeidouyaojingweifenmingni?dangranbushi，wodejianyishi，lianaidehuaxiaoyinggaibaochi6：4debili，niyaozhan40%。zheiyangjibaozhenglenanshengzailianaizhongdezhudaoquan，niyebuyongyikaota，nanrenhuiyinweinidedulierbeinixiyin。

 tongshi，gaiyilaitadeshihoujiuyilai，rangtayouyizhongbeiyilaidemanzugan。zaitapileideshihou，jiuzuohaotadehoudun，jitawennuan，erbushichetadehoutui。

 zuihou，wohaiyaogaosusuoyoudenvhaizi，nijuebuxuyaoweileyiduanganqingdiushiziji。nishizhongshuyuniziji，bushi100%shuyuaiqing，yingqidianer，bieyinweiaishangyigerenjiulianzijidoumishile，rangzijishenmedoumeile。

zuoge“lindeqing”deguniang，lianaizhendehuiqingsonghenduo。

恋爱忠告05、享受平淡

 jihumeigenvshengdoushixiangwanglangmande，doukewangyouyigehuiweitazhunbeijingxidenanpengyou。zheiyidianwukehoufei，danshi，womenhaishigaizhidaosuoyoudeaiqingzuihoudouhuiguiyupingdan。

 liangrenzaiyiqiyinianliangnian，huoxuhainengbaochireliandejiqing，zaixiangchudeshijianli，chongfendibiaoxianzijidereqing。danshi，sanniansinianshenzhigengzhangshijianni?jiqingzhongjiushihuiguiyupingdan。

 neishihou，liangrentanlianaidefangshihuoxuzhishixiabanyiqihuijia，zuoyidunjiachangcai，chiwanzhihou，lianggerenkaozaishafashang，yiqiwanwanshouji，kankandianshi。ranhougezixishuwan，jiushangchuangshuijuele。

 zhoumodeanpaidagaihuishiliangrenyiqiguangguangchaoshi，jibingxianglimiantianyidiancunhuo。huoxunimenyijingyoujiehundedasuan，yaokaishishengqian，suoyiyebuhuijingchangxiaguanzi。

 langmanyaoyou，danpingdanyeyaozhenxi。suoyoudeaiqingzuihoudouhuibianchengqinqing，dangliangrenmeiyouledangchudejiqingquerengranbuyuanyifenkaishi，daibiaozaiqianyimohuazhongliangrenyijingchengweilebicifenbukaidelingyiban。

nvshengjiuyaoxuehuihaohaoxiangshoupingdan，yueshipingdanyueshizhangjiu，yueshipingdan，yuerangrenshufu。