​谈恋爱的聊天技巧

 tanlianai duiyuhenduonanshenglaishuo，shiyigehenyanjundewenti。zaidangjinshehuishang，henduonanshengdoucunzaiyigewenti，neijiushibuhuihenvshengtanlianaijiqiao、diaoqing。buzhidaozenmetiaodongnvshengdeqingxu，suoyiduinvshengmeiyouxiyinli。

 meiyouxiyinli，neijiudadazengjialetuodandenandule。woxiangxin，henduonanshenghenvshengliaotiandeshihou，doushiliaogeliangsanjujiumeiyouxiawenle，qishiwomendouzhidao，xiangyaozhuidaoxinyidenvsheng，diyibujiushiyaoxueyidianliaotianjiqiao，liaodelai，liaodehao，neijiudadajiafenle，liaodebuhaodehua，neinvshengkenengjiushiyizhichuyugaolengdezhuangtai。

聊天是需要一定的技术的，大部分男性不会聊天主要是体现在以下几点：

一、没有找准聊天时机场合

 youxienanshengquzhaonvshengliaotiandeshihou，conglaibuzhuyiliaotiandeshijianhechanghe，zongshigenzhezijideyixiangzou，wanquanmeiyoukaolvdaonvshengdeganshouhetamendezhuangtaihexuqiu。zheiyangdehua，nvshengyoukenengzhijiebuhuinixinxi。henvshengmenliaotian，womenyidingyaoxuanzezhengquedeshijian，lejieduifangdeshenghuoxiguan，shenghuozuoxi，kankanduifangyoumeiyouzugoudekongxianshijianheniliaotian。zheijiushibudongdetanlianaidebiaoxian。

二、无无聊聊的开场白

 qishiwomendouzhidao，yigehaodekaichangbainenggouxiyindaonvshengdexingqu，jiushizheiyangjianjiandandandeyijuhua，jiujihujuedinglenimenjiexialaideliaotianzouxiang。

 danshihenduonanshengdoushiyi“zaima”、“zaiganmani”，zheixiekaichangbai，jiaruonvshengbushiduinitebieganxingqudehua，dou、buyidinghuihuifunini。qishiwomenkeyizailiaotianzhiqianqukankannvshengdepengyouquan，kankannvshengzuijinfaleshenmedongtai，ranhouxuanyigejuedebijiaohaode、liaodexiaqudedianquzhaonvsheng，zheiyangquliaonvshenghuibijiaoyouxingqu。

三、不够吸引人的话题

 ruguonidekaichangbaizugouxiyinta，neijiushichenggongleyidabule，danshihaishibugoude，yinweijiexialaizhaohuatiyetongyangdezhongyao。jiexialaijiushiyaoyingzaoyizhongyouqudeliaotianfenweile。buguoyouhenduonanshengdouhuixuanzeyixiebijiaolaotaodehuati，zheixiehuatikenengyijingyouqitarenhenixinyidetaliaoguohenduobian，zheiyangdehua，jiumeiyoushenmexinxianganle。jianyidajia，zailiaotianqian，zhunbeiyilianggehuati，xueyixieliaotianjiqiao，zheiyangjiubuhuituranmeihuakeshuo，lengchangle。

四、不能把握聊天的度

 youdenanshenghenvshengliaotiandeshihou，jiushibudongliaotianjiqiaodebiaoxian，yongyuandoushifeichangzhengjing、laoshide，buganhenvshengkaiwanxiao，liaotianhuatiyongyuantingliuzaichucijianmianjieduan，shengpahuichujinvshengdedixian。biaoxiandejiuxiangrenshengdaoshi，keshinvshengzheigeshihouzhishixiangnianweianweitaeryi，suoyinimenzhudingchengbulenannvpengyou。

五、不懂调动女生的情绪

 qishizoudaozhei，niyijingchenggongleyidaban，zheigeshihou，qishiwomenjiushiyaotongguoliaotianrangduifangzhidao，nishizuilejieta、zuidongtadeneigeren，yaozhenzhengdezoujinnvshengdeneixin，yaoxuehuiyindaotaxiangnituluxinsheng。liaotianzuoweirenyurenzhijiandezhuyaojiaoliufangshi，buguanshitongguojiaoyouruanjian，haishizaixianshishenghuozhongdoushixiangdangdezhongyao。