谈恋爱一定不可以自作多情！

谈恋爱最忌讳的就是 自作多情 ，这样会让自己陷入尴尬的困境，被拒绝之后会让自己失去信心，对爱情产生挫败感。所以谈恋爱一定不可以自作多情，对方没有明确向你告白之前，千万不要误认为对方喜欢自己。

一、自作多情是什么意思？

 zizuoduoqingzheigecichuziwangshuo《fuchuhaimian》：“nibielaoneimezizuoduoqing，yiweiwoduiniduolianlianbusheside。”yisishizhiyixiangqingyuandizuochuzhongzhongbiaoshi，xiangyicibodeduifangdehuanxin。zizuoduoqingderenshizheiyangde：ruguoyouyixingduinishaoweihaoyidiandehua，nijiuhuijiangzheizhongbiaoshiyouhaoguanxidejudongshiweiaiyie！

二、自作多情的表现

 dangxihuanyigerendeshihou，neimejiudekanduifangyoushenmeyangdefanying。ruoshinibaibantaohao，huanlaidehaishiduifangdelengdan，neimenijiubuyongzaizizuoduoqing。yinweizheiyangzuihoushangdaodehaishiniziji。xianzaizheisigebiaoxian，lianaizhongdenijiubuyaozaizizuoduoqing。

1、你热脸贴在冷屁股上

 dangniduiduifanghenreqingdeshihou，erduifangdefanyingzeshibuxianbudan。neimeniyebuyongzaikaojin。tazhihuiyiciyicirangnidereliantiezaitadelengpigushang，yinweitaduinigenbenbuganxingqu。

2 lvciyaoyuelvcijujue

 dangnixihuanduifangdeshihou，neimejiuhenxiangkandaota。buguotabuxihuannidehua，jujuenideyaoyueyehuihenzhengchang。erqieduifangjujuenidejiekouyehuifeichangduo。shenmeguimijuhuishenmejiarenshenmetongxue，douhuichengweitajujuenidedangjianpai。

3 nidexiaoxishichendahai

 dangnijinixihuandeduifangfaxiaoxideshihou，jiujiudoudengbudaotadehuiying。bingqienidexiaoxi，zaitaneilibuhuifanqiyidianbolan。bushitameikandaozhishitakandaobuxianghuifuni。

4 duifangjieshouniliwudanbuhuiying

 dangnisongduifangliwudeshihoutahuixinranjieshou，bingqiezaijieshoudeshihouxiaoxixidemianduini。buguozaiguohouhaishihuihuiguiyuanyang。yiqianduinishenmeyang，dangxiaduinihaishishenmeyang。duifangruci，zaiminglebuguo。buyaoyiweitajieniliwu，jiudengyujieshounidexinyi。

三、如何避免自作多情？

1、多咨询他人的看法

 zaiyudaowenti，huozheduimoushidekanfa，bufangduoxiangzhouweiderenjinxingzixun。youxierenzhisuoyihuichanshengpianzhi，zhuyaoyuanyinshitaiyiziwoweizhongxin。yiweidecongzishenkandaishiwu，pingpanqitaren，zheihuirangzijiyiyuanlingjiayuxianshizhishang。suoyizaipingrili，duotingtingtarendekanfaba。

2、丰富自己的生活

 zhisuoyihuichanshengpianzhidedanlian，henduorenshiyinweipingrilideshenghuobugoufengfu，yizhiyuzaiziyiweiaiqingjianglinshi，bianrangzijiwanquandexianruqizhong，congerhennanzaizibachulai。aiqingbingfeiquanbu，rangzijideshenghuofengfuyixie，henrongyijianshaopianzhidetaidu。

3、扩大社交圈子

 tongshangyidianyiyang，danlianderenjiaojiquanzixiao，suoyizaiganqingshanghennandedaomanzu，caihuijituoyuxuwupiaomiaodeaiqing。jianyikuodazijidequanzi，rangqingganjunhengfazhan，erfeiaiqingzhanjushangfeng。

 dangduifangruciduinideshihou，nijiubuyaozaiquduitabaoyourenhehuanxiang。gailikaideshihoujiulikai，buyaozaizizuoduoqing。nizhizhedezizuoduoqing，zhihuirangtajixuqushangni。diaozhenghaozijidexintai，buyaozaizizuoduoqing，quxunzhaozhenzhengshuyuzijideaiqingba！