​内向的我完全不会谈恋爱，是我情商太低吗？

 zaidangjindeshehuishang，henduoneixiangderendou buhuitanlianai ，qishi，xinggemeiyouhaohuaizhifen，neixiangdenanshengzhiyaozhaodaoshihezijidezhuiqiunvhaizidefangshi，yiyangkeyizailianaizhonghuodechenggong。neiyoushenmebanfakeyibangzhuneixiangderenzailianaizhongshixianhualidenizhuanni？

一、调整好心态，不要过于自卑

 qishiwomendouzhidao，neixiangderendabufendoushiyouzibeixintaide，nimenyaozuodeshiyaopaoqizijidezibeixintai，ruguonishiyigezibeixinjiqiangdeneixiangnansheng，neimetanlianaizhiqiannishouxianjiuyaojiejuediaozijidezibeixintai。jiarunirenweizijizheilineilibuhao，juedexiangwozheiyangdenanhai，huiyounvhaixihuanwoma?chufeishitaiyangcongxibianshengqi。duizijiyouzheiyangdekanfa，zaiaiqingshangnijiuzhudingshibai。meitianzaoshangqilai，jiangzijidabanyixia，duizhejingzishuo：woshizuibangde，woshiduyiwuerde，woyaozuoyigekaixindeziji。jingchangduanlianzijidejijisiwei。ranhou，duoyutarengoutong，wulunnanxinghaishinvxing，bingqieyurenjiaotandeshihou，sikaoyixiazaishuo，yaoyangchenglianghaodexiguan。zongzhi，neixiangdenanshengyaoxiangtanlianai，diyibujiushipaoqizibeixintai，yidingyaoshuozijineng，zijibushibuhuitanlianai，neixiangdezijiyekeyiqutanlianai。

二、明确自己的目标

 qishitanlianairutongwomendexuexiyiyang，xianyouyigemingquedemubiao，caihuiyouzhuiqiu，caihuiyoukongjianqufazhan。liru：nixiangrangxueqipingjunchengjimeikezai90fenyishang，zheijiushinidemubiao，shinisuozhuiqiudeduixiang，suofazhandefangxiang。suoyizhuinvhaiyebuliwai，yaozhuineige，nijiuyaodingxiamubiao，mubiaomingquele，nicaihuixiangwogairuhequzhuita，chanshengyixiliedezhuiqiuxiangfa，zheijiushinikaishizaifazhan。

三、眼神传情

 nikeyirangtazhidaoniduitayouhaogan，mubiaomingqueyijingjueding，nimeitianjiuyaoyonghanqingmomodeyanshenchuanqing，chuanqingdizhuanzhuta，nibuyaoxiangxiaotouyiyang，toutoumomodizaikanta，xihuantajiuyaorangtazhidao。ruguonishitoutoumomodizhushizheta，nongbuhao，nvhaihuijuedenidexingweiguiguisuisui，duitakaishiyoushenmeqituerchanshengkongju，renweinizheirentaikepale，yihoudouyaojinliangbuyaozaiyounidedifangchuxian。benlainijiuzaidengtaxiangnibiaobai，shijianhuangfeile，zuihoudedaode，queshiyipiankongbai，”suoyinixihuanta，jiuyaorangtazhidao，rangnideyanshengaosutaniduitayouhaogan，zheiyangcaihuiyousuojinbu。

四、多多注意对方

 ruguoshuonimeicimomodikanzheta，tangruotayetongyangyeshimomodikanzheni，haoxiangbicizaiyongyanshenzhuanqingside。zheijiushuomingtakaishizhuyiniduinitongyangyouhaogan，zheishijiunikeyijinxingxiayibu。ruguobuxiangyishangsuoshuode，neimejiushinimeiyourangtazhidaonixihuanta，huoshishijiweidao。zheishinijiuyaojiayiyidiangongfu，shihuashuogongbudao，shibuchengma。

五、找借口主动接近

 ruguonikeyikendingtaduiniyoufanyingle，neinijiuchangshidequjiejinta，jizhu，zheishihoudeniyaoxiongxinzhuangzhi，fengdupianpian，wenrutaishanbandeyangzizouxiangta，nibuyaoxiangshengleyichangdabing，zoulumeijingdacai，youqiwulidizouxiangta。yibannvhaidoubuxihuanxiuxiudada，zouluxiangfengyiyangde，suishidoukenenghuibeifengchuidaodenanhai，fanerxihuandeneizhongnanhaishizouqilulaijishifengdupianpian、youshijingshenbaoman、jishiyongqishizu、youshiyourutaishanbananquanwengukao。suoyinvhaixuanzenanpengyouyeshiyaokankanshifounixiangtaishanyiyangwengukekao，suoyinijiuyaodadandizouxiangtamianduita，jiarunidewaibiaobushizenmechuzhong，tadouhuibeinideqizhi，nidemeili，nidexiaosa，nidefengdupianpiansuoxiyin。

六、主动关心对方

 meigerenyouyuyixieshiershangxin、tongku、fannaobukan，zheishitamenzuikewangdeshihuiyouyigerenlaianweiguanxintamen。zaizheigeshihou，jiaruyougerenzhudonglaianweiniguanxintamen，nihuijuedetazhendehenhao，zaizijishangxin、shiluoshi，zhiyoutazuilejiezijidongzijidexin，shihoudangnihuiyiqinimeicishangxin、shiluodeshihou，anweinideguanxinnidezongshita，buranerrandihuituranhenxianghenxiangta，henxiangtazuozijidenanpengyou。suoyidangyigerenshangxin、shiluodeshihou，dedaoyigerendeanwei、guanxinshi，womendouhuiduizheigerenyinxianghenshen，huibaanwei、guanxinwuyiweishiai。

七、侧面表达你的爱

 jiarunishizhenxinshiyidixiangtazuonidenvpengyou，neinijiuxiangtashuo“womenzaiyiqiba，woyijingdadaowunibunengziyou、bunengkuaile，beisiniansuozhanjuwozhenggexin。”zheishixiangxintahuihenkaixin、kuaile、xingfudedayingni“ng”，yinweitayeshiheniyoutongyangdeganshou。zheiyangnijiukeyiwanquandezhuiqiudaolenixinzhongxihuanderen。buzaishineigebuhuitanlianaidelianaixinshoule。