如何摆脱失恋阴影？

　　zenyangshihuailaogongchuguizhitong，zaimianduilaogongchuguisuochanshengdetongkushi，ruhecaikeyishihuaini？diyi，bixuyishidaozijidexintaishenglixinlidedaolesunhai，erzheizhongtongbuyidingshiyicuerjiude，bixushijianhejinglidiaozhenghequanyu。cizhi，yaodongdejieshouxianshi，buhuizaijueqiangdixunwenweihe，fanershixiangqianzou。ciwai，shizhongbaochilianghaodexintai，tanxunzhongduanruanjianyihuoquqingganshangdebangzhuyuzhichi。yeyou，jiangzhongdianqianyizaizijishenshang，zhongxinsikaozishenjiazhiyuxuqiu，zhenshiziwodadaoyuchengzhangdelujing。zuizhuyaodeshi，yaoxuehuiyuanliang，yebushiweilenengrangduifangqingqingsongsong，gengshiweilezishenkeyigenghaodedishihuai，zhongshineixindeningjinghemeihao。weiyouruci，cainengzuodaozhenzhengdibaituolaogongchuguizhitong，zhongshishuyuzijixingfuyukuaile。

　　反省与接受现实

　　zenyangshihuailaogongchuguizhitong，dangmianduilaogongchuguisuodailaidetongkushi，shihuaibingfeiyishi。danshi，wohenqingchujinyouxiangziwubingjieshouxianshi，caikeyimanmanhuifuneixindeningjingyujianqiang。

　　huishouguoqu，laogongdebeipancongwoneixinliuxiashenshenditongku。keshi，guoduojiujieweishenmehuichuxian，fanerhuirangtongkuchixu。yiner，woyaoxuehuijieshouxianshi，renqingtadechugui，binglijieduifangkongzhibulebierendequeding。

　　weilenengshiqineixinpingheng，wojianjianshenshizijiqingganyuxintai。woshendusikaociciwaiyujiwodailaidejingyanjiaoxun，sikaozijishifouzaihunyinshenghuozhongyeshiyoucunzaidebuzu。genjufansheng，xiwangxunzhaozijidequedianzaijiayigaijin，weicifazhanchengweigengweiduliheyouzixinderen。

　　创建终端软件

　　mianduichuguidetongku，guduhejuewangshinanyibimiandexintai。danshi，wozhidaojinyouyikaowaibudebangzhuyuzhichi，wocaikenengmanmanshihuai，baituokunjing。

　　wonengzhenchengdiheshenpangdeqinpenghaoyougongxiangwodeganjue，sushuoxinshi。tamendelijieguanaikeyijianqingwoneixindeyali，rangwoganjuedaobeijieshouyuzhichi。chucizhiwai，gengzhuanyedexinlifudaoshiwoshihuaiquanguochengzhongdezhongyaoyihuan。zixunguwennenggoubangwoshulixinxu，zhengqueyindaowoleguanmianduineixindetongkubingzhubuzhiyu。

　　探寻本人达到和成长

　　weilenengconglaogongchuguidetongkuzhongjiefangchulai，wojiangjujiaodianzaicifangdaozijideshenshang，tanxunbenrendadaoyuchengzhangdelujing。

　　zuixian，wonengjinkenengfengfuzijiderichangshenghuo，jianchiziwojiazhiyugerenaihao。biru，fuchugengduoshijianjinglidapinshiye、jiaqiangduanlianhuocanjiagongyihuodong。zheixiedoukeyixiezhuwojiangzhuanzhulicongtongkuzhongqianyi，suzaolianghaodexintai。

　　cizhi，wonengxunzhaoxuexiyuchengzhangdehaojihui。canyuxinlifazhankechengneirong、yueduwenzhangqidixingdeshujihuocanjiaxiuxianhuodong，douhuirangwofeisufazhanzijidesilufangshijirenjiguanxinengli。genjunulitishengziji，wonengfujianzixinxin，zaiduzhaodaoshuyuzijixingfuyukuaile。

　　宽容与重建信任

　　suiranzhongjianxinrenshiyigemanzhangdeguocheng，danwozhidaoruguoxiangzhenzhenzhengzhengshihuai，wobudebuxuehuiyuanliangta。

　　kuanrongyebushiweilenengrangduifangqingqingsongsong，gengshiweilezishenkeyigenghaodedishihuai、zhiyuneixindewaishang。woyaojixunulilejietadedongyinheyuangu，hetagoutongjiaoliubingzhidingzhenchengzhijiandeguanxi。jinyouzaicigoujianqixianghuzhijianderenkejiben，zheiduanhunyincaikenengzaicizhanfangguangcai。

　　重拾幸福快乐

　　zuihou，woxiangzhongshiguishuyuzijideaiqing。wobuhuizairangwaiyudetongkulianleiwo，fanershileguanmianduixindeshenghuojiyu。

　　wojiangdongdeconglichengzhongjiqujiaoxun，weichijijidexintai。wojianxin，zhixuyouzhedudingdeneixinhejijizhudongdexingwei，woyidingnenggouzhangwohaoweilaidexingfu，bingmaijinguishuyuwogerendemeihaomingtian。

　　zenyangshihuailaogongchuguizhitong，shihuailaogongchuguizhitongjuefeiyishi，kewoyuanyongzijinuliquwancheng，zaicitanxunneixindeningjinghemeihao，xiangqiantuijin。