老公出轨我该怎么办？

 hunyinshenghuozhong，zongyouzheiyangneiyangdeburuyi。duiyunvrenlaijiang，zuipadeshinanrenchuxianwaiyu。suoyihenduonvxingpengyouwenwo：laogongchuguiwogaizenmeban？guanyulaogongchuguilezenmebanzheigewenti，yixiayingduifangfayinggaikeyibangdaoni？

一、妥善安排自己的情绪

 laogongyijingyoulewaiyu，yibanqingkuangxia，qizidouhuichuxianzhurufennu，fenhen，jidushengqi，xiuru，weiqudefumianqingxuzhong。congxintaidejiaodulaikan，chuxianzheizhongqingxushizaizhengchangbuguodele。keshi，zaimianduilaogongwaiyudezheizhongteshuqingkuangxia，womenxianyaoxuehuikongzhizijidezheixiefumianqingxu。zaixintaixueshang，youyigeqingxuzhuanyidefangfa，neijiushizhaoyixiekeyiyourangnijizhongjinglideshiqingquzuo，zanshixianbazheixiebukaixindeshiqingpaozainaohou。denglengjingyiduanshijian，keyilizhidimianduilaogongwaiyudeshiqinghouzaijinxingrenzhensikaosikaoyixialaogongchuguiwogaizenmebanzheigewenti。

二、安排认真思考的时间

 laogongchuguilezenmeban？shangmianshuodaole，dengnideqingxuwendingle，goulizhilehou，zaikaishisikaoyuyoulewaiyudelaogongdehunyinwenti。zheigezhouqiyibanshisangeyue。anxintaixueshanglaijiang，renzaiyudaozhongdashijiandeshihou，youqiliruqingganwentideshihou，bunengzaisangeyueneizuochujueding，yinweisangeyueshirendexinlingliaoshangqi。yinci，zheigejieduan，nishikeyizhaonidehaoyouqingsuzijideneixintongku，yekeyizhuruxiesimiderizhi，huozheshinalaogongdeyixiewujianlaichuqi。nihaikeyixuanzeliruhuiniangjiazhuxieshiri，huozheshichuqulvyousansanxin。jide，zheiduanshijianmeiyoubiyaoshishixiangzhelaogongyouwaiyuzheijianshi。xianzanshirangzijideqingxushifangchulai，dedaoyouxiaodeliaoshanghouzaizuochujueding。

三 、思考过后的责任决定

 zaizheili，woyonglezerenzheigeci，xiangxinnvxingpengyoumenyenenglijiedao。zheigezerenshejidedongxihenduo，laogongyouwaiyu，keyibuweizheigejiatinghuozheshihaizifuze，keshinizuoweiyigeqizi，yiweimama，jiuyaoweijiatinghehaizifuze。dangran，wulunnizuochushenmejueding，doushizhengquede。ershishishang，zheigeshihou，niyezhinengyouliangzhongxuanze。yizhongjiushilihun。ruguonihaishiwufayuanlianglaogongwaiyuzheijianshi，jiubuyaomianqiangzijiqujieshou，yinweizaihunyinzhong，niyeshicanyuzhe，niyeyouquanlibiaodanizijidezhenshixiangfa，bingbushisuoyoudeshi，douyoutayigerenlaizuoyou。suoyi，zheigeshihou，nijiuyongnihunyinfuyunidequanlilaixuanzezijideshenghuofangshihehunyinzhuangtaile。dierzhongjiushijixuweichihunyin，laogongchuxianwaiyule，nijieshoulelaogongwaiyuzheijianshiqing，neimeniyaoduiniweilaidehunyinzuochudetiaozhanle，bijingrenkenenghuijielianfancuo。erzheigeshihou，qiahaoyeshijiniyigefansisikaodejihui，laogongchuguizenmeban？laogongweishenmehuiwaiyu，shizijinalizuodebugouhaohaishiruhe。zhei，congmougejiaodulaijiang，qishiyeshiduinimendehunyinyousuobangzhu。

四、找准时机与老公谈判：

 womenbudawubawodezhang，duiyunanrenlaijiang，yehuiyougezhonggeyangdeliyoulaipianqizi，suoyi，dengnishangshusanbudoukaolvqingchulehou，jiushiyulaogongtanpandeshihoule，zheigeshihou，taruguozaiyouhuangyan，niyekeyiyiyijiechuan。shijiandexuanze，jianyixuanzezaiwanshang，yinweibaitiandeshihou，rendeqingxuhesixiangdouchuzaihuoyueqi，jiyibaofa。didianbuyaoxuanzezaijiali，yinweizaijiali，rongyitanbuhedeshihou，jiudachaodanao，rangqingxubengkui。suoyi，zaiwanshangdeshihou，xuanyigeanjingdedifang，liruchabahelaogonghaohaozuoxialai，xinpingqihedibashiqingjiangkaile，binggaosuduifangnidezhenshixiangfahejueding。ruguonidejuedingshilihun，erduifangyetongyi，neiziranjiuhaobanle，liaohaosuoyoudelihunshiqingjiusan。ruguonidejuedingshilihun，erduifangbutongyi，neinizhihaoxuanzezoufalvdechengxu。ruguonidejuedingshiweichihunyin，woxiangxin，tayehuixuanzejixuweichihunyinde，bijingnimenyoujiating，youhaizi，youtaiduodeqianguaheqianzhi，bukenengneimeqingyilikainiquhedisanzheguoshenghuode。neimezheigeshihou，nimenjiuyaohaohaoxiangxiang，jixuweichigongtongdehunyin，shuangfangxuyaozuonaxiegongtongdenuli，lairanghunyinzhongxinhuidaomeimandeguidaoshang。

五、妥善有效处理第三者：

 zaizheigeshihou，nihenidelaogongruguodouxuanzelejixuweichihunyindehua，neilaogongyeshiyouhuiyide，chenzheigeshihou，jiuyaogaosuta，quchulihaoyudisanzhedeguanxi，buyaozaituonidaishui，fouzeshiqinghuibiandegengmafan。zheigeshihou，wogerenbingbujianyinichumianqujiejuedisanzhe，yinweiruguonicanyujinlaihou，shiqinghuibiandegengjiafuza，gengjiahunluan。nidelaogongzhisuoyichuguiyouwaiyu，kenengjiushiyinweinizaimougehuanjieshangchuxianlewenti，ercishiruguonizaicanyudaochulidisanzhedeshiqingshangdehua，neizhinengbatagengxiangdisanzhedeshenbiantui。suoyi，defangfa，jiushigaosulaogong，woxiangxinni，wojinizugoudexinren，wozhichini，wojinichongzudeshijianquchuliyudisanzhedeguanxi，zheiyang，laogonghuizailiangxindecuicuxiabanhaozheijianshiqingde。ruguolaogongbuhaochumian，teyiqingqiunigongtongmianduideshihou，zheishi，nicaikeyicanyujinxing，suanlaidisanzhe。