别人约会好男人，你为何是单身？

 shibushijingchangganjuezheigeshijieshangchulenizhiwaideqitarendouyuzijidebanlvxingfudeshenghuozhe？biejinghuangshicuole，zheibingbuyiweizheniyoushenme“wenti”，ruguonishidanshenjulebudeyiyuan，erqiehenxiangzhidaoweishenmeyizhidanshen，neimejiukankanyixia“yizhidanshende7daliyou”ba。

1.你万事缠身

 shenghuoyoushihouzhendehenmang（youqiruguonishiyigechongmanyexinshenmedouxiangzuoderen）。yiduanwendingdeguanxishixuyaotouruhenduoshijian，jingliheganqingde（ruguonishizhengquededuidaiguanxi）。

 nihenmangyizhiyuchoubuchushijianqupeibannidebanlv？kenengzaidengshiyeshangdeneixieshiqingyanxiaoyunsanhouniyouyaozhongxinkaishiyuehui，danxianzainiduishiyechengjiudexuyaoshengguoduilianaiguanxidexuyao。

2.henzaiyizijidedulikongjian

 zuihexiedefuqidoumingbaiduchushijianbingbujinjinyouzhuyusikao，erqiezaishenghuozhongshibiyaode。xintaiqiangdaderenbuhaipaduchu，nikeyizailianaidetongshibaochizijidedulixing，danshirenhelianaidouxuyaomouzhongchengdudetuoxie（xiaodaowanshangqunaliyuehui，dadaojianglaizainalishenghuo），ruguonihaimeiyouzhunbeihaoweicierxishenghuozhexiangyaobaochiduizijishenghuodejueduidulidejuedingquan，neimezheikenengshirengrandanshendeyuanyin。

3.你面临新的情境

 ruguoniderenshengguijixuyaofashengzhongdagaibian，birujinrulexindexuexiao，kaishilexindegongzuo，zaiyigequanxindechengshishenghuo，huozherenheduiyunilaishuoshixinderangnixingfendeshiqing，zheihuoxushinirengrandanshendeyuanyin。ruguoniyouhenduodejiawuyaoliaoli，neimerangyigexindebanlvjiarunideshenghuoshibumingzhide，rangzijijinkuaishiyingxindeqingjing，zhiyouzheiyangaicaihuizainizhunbeihaodeshihouqiaoranerzhi。

4.你不能放下前任

 shenshendexianzaishiquqianrendebeishangganqingzhongjiangzuzhiniderenshengjixuqianxing，zaitouruyiduanxindeganqingzhiqianjiangqianrenliuxiadeqingganbaofudoufangxiacaishimingzhizhiju。huozhekenengnirengranaizheneigebuhuijinirenheganqinghuikuideren。

5.nigenbenbuzhidaonixiangyaoshenme

 suizhenijianjianbiandechengshu，guanyushenmejiangyigerenbiandeyouxiudebiaozhunyehuifashenggaibian。huoxuhenduocinidoubei“wodaodixiangcongta（ta）neilidedaoshenme”kunraozhe，meiguanxi，zheiyangdekunraohuicushiniyuyixiebutongleixingderenyuehui；zheiyangnihuijianjianyishidaoyongyoushenmexinggederenhuixiyinni，zheiyangyegengjialiyunixuanzeyigejinidailaikuailedebanlv。

6.niduizijideshentibumanyi

 quefazixinnenggoufanyingchuniruhejieduziji（xingge，sixiang，xingwei，suoyoudeyiqie）。yaoyouzixinyinweizijideshentishiweiyi，tayouzhezugoudenenglijiangnidaidaoshijiederenheyigedifang。bujinruci，congjingzizhongkandaodeneigerenbinicongxianshizhongganzhidaodezijigengjiadefengfu。quxianmeide，qiangjiande，huozhejieyuliangzhezhijian？meiguanxi。ruguonixiangjianfei，biandemiaotiao，paobu，juzhong，yujiakehuozhepeiyangjiankangdexiguandoushibucuodexuanze。danshi，congjintiankaishiainideshenti，yinweinizhendemeidelingrennanyizhixin。congguzilisanfachudezixinjianghuixiyinbieren，niyaozhidaozixinjixinggan！

7.你的言行不一

 ruguonizhishishuoni“xihuanjiandaoyuzhongbutongderen”，erconglaiburangzijichuxianzaineixieyuzhongbutongderenchuxiandedifang，neinirengrandanshenjiubuzuweiqile。niweilaidebanlvbuhuixiangbianmoshuyiyangturanchuxianzainimianqian。ruguonixiangyaoyudaotamen，neimenibixuquzhaodaotamen。zuoyigeyuehuijihua，qujiuba，huozhekafeiting，huozhegongyuan，shenzhiqushudian。ruguomougerenxiyinlenideyanqiu，zouguoqubazijijieshaojita。

总结

 danshendenizhunbeihaolejieshudanshen，danshiyoujuedehenjinzhang？qianwanbuyao，niyijingzhidaolezijiweishenmedanshen，suoyijizhu：yaoyouzixin！

danshenbingqiejuededanshenhenhao？yebucuo，yigerenyekeyihenkuaile（qianwanbierangbierenyingxiangni），meishenmedabulede。

zhenduidanshenyizudelianggewenti：

nishizhudongxuanzedanshendeme？（ruguoshi，wohenhaoqi，weishenmeni？）

yishangshuodezheixierengrandanshendeyuanyinshifoutingshangquhenshuxi？（chengshidehuida！）