女汉子转变为小女人的脱单历程

　　tianchengzuolaogongchuguizenmechuli，zaimianduitianchengzuolaogongchuguishi，chulishiqingbixuxinisisuo。zuixian，baochilixingyulixing，buyaoguoduqingxubuwending。cizhi，jiaoliushizhongyao，hetapingdengjiaoliu，biaoshuzijidexiangfayuyoulv，bingyitongtaolunwentidebenzhi。lingtingduifangdejieshi，lejietaneixindeyaoqiuhebumanyi。ranhou，xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu，rufufuzixunhuoxinliliaofa，yizaicijianligoutongyuxinren。chucizhiwai，shezhiquelidebianjieyuguanshu，jianlibicixieyineirong，zaicijianliguanxiguifanhebiaozhunyudaodedixian。zuizhuyaodeshi，yinggaigenjugerenjibenqingkuanglaizaijuedingshifoukuanrong，bingqieweifujianxinrenzhidingyigeqieshikexingdefangan。zheiyiguochengxuyaoyiduanshijian、fuchuhenuli，danshiruobicixiangyaoweizhifendou，haiyoujihuizhongfanshenxinjiankang、pingwendeaiqingguanxi。

　　建立沟通与理解

　　tianchengzuolaogongchuguizenmechuli，yingduitianchengzuolaogongchuguidekunjingshi，zuizhongyaodeyibushijianligaoxiaodegoutongyulijie。ranerzheibingbujinjinjuxianyunimendeguanxihuihua，yeyaoniduizijiqingxuganqingheshijixuqiushenzhongkaolv。

　　zailizhidetaiduxia，henidetianchengzuozhangfuzuoxiakaizhanduiwaikaifangyuzhenchengdejiaotan。lingtingtadebiaoshuhetihui，bingbiaoshinizijidexiangfahedanxin，danyingjinliangbimianpipinghejingong。bicidelijietonglixinquanshijiweizhongyaode，congergenghaodichuliwentidebenzhi。

　　一同寻找技术专业协助

　　jiejuetianchengzuolaogongchuguiwentixuyaogengduoshiyongheyindao。kaolvdaofufuzixunhuoxinliliaofa，congerweidajiatigongyigezhonglide、jishuzhuanyedeshenghuohuanjing，xiezhudajiazaicijianligoutongyuxinren。zaizheiguochengzhong，zhuanyerenyuannenggoubangzhudajiatanxunwentidebenzhi，tongshitigonghaoyongjiejuefangan。tamenketigongzhuanyonggongjuyujiqiao，xiezhudajiamaijinguanxidexiufuxinjian。

　　设置界线与管束

　　dangjiejuetianchengzuolaogongchuguiwentishi，shezhiquelidebianjieheguanshushihenzhongyaode。shiweileweihubaoyangnidezunyandaodedixian，tongshiyoushixiangrangtayishidaoletamendexingweiduinideguanxidaozhilesunhai。

　　henidelingyibanyiqizhidingyifenquelixieyineirong，youguanduifangxingweibiaoxianqidaidebiaozhun。zheijiangbaokuogengduogoutongjiaoliu、gengduoqinmiwujianshizhang、jianliqingxidudeng。genjushezhijiexianyuguanshu，dajiakeyigenghaodezhuixunguanxidegaizao。

　　再决定是否宽容

　　mianduichuguideairen，kuanronghuobuyuanliangshiyigejiweigexinghuashifenfuzadejuece。meiyougudinghuida，taqujueyuduilingyibandeaiqing、tadechengxinjiqinidelishishijian。

　　chongfenkaolvnimendeganqingjibenyutadeqinfen，jiqidajiayiqiweizaicijianlixinrenzhidingjihua，ninengzaijuedingshifoujiyuduifangdiercijihui。danbuguannidequedingshisha，baozhengzheishigenjunizhenshitihuiheyaoqiu。

　　复建信任与塑造新目标

　　jiaruniquedingjiairendiercijihuibingfujianguanxi，neiyangzuizhuyaodeshibuxienuliqufujianxinren。zheixuyaoyiduanshijian、reqinghebicizhijiandegongtongfendou。

　　zaizheiyiguochengzhong，kaishejubeiquweixingdannengwanchengmubiaozhiguanzhongyao。zheiyangkeyibaohanjianligengkaifanghefuzerendejiaoliufangshi，gongtongnuliyigexindezhutihuodong，jiqisuzaogengjiashenrudeqingxulianluo。jianchibuxiezheigemubiaojiangyouzhuyujianlipingwen、laogudeguanxi。

　　高度重视自我提升独立

　　buguanniquedingzenyangchulitianchengzuolaogongchuguiwenti，haijideyaozhuzhongziwotishengduli。weichiduizishendeguanzhuaixi，fazhanqushizijideaihaohegerenguihua。

　　genjugerentisheng，ninenggenghaodelejiezijideyaoqiuyujiazhi，jinerzaiguanxigengweijiankangdishenghuofazhanyuweihuzijimanzugan。yucitongshi，dandudefazhanqushihaikeyiweinideguanxizhuruxinxiannenglianghexinqudongli。

　　汇总

　　tianchengzuolaogongchuguizenmechuli，jiejuetianchengzuolaogongchuguidewentijiushiyixiangbixureqinghenulifendoudemeirirenwu。zaizheiguochengzhong，jianligoutongyulijie、yitongxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu、shezhijiexianyuguanshu、zaijuedingshifoukuanrong、fujianxinrenyusuzaoxinmubiao，jiqigaoduzhongshiziwotishengduli，quanshizhongyaodeliucheng。zuizhuyaodeshi，buyaowanglelingtingneixinshenchu，yijuzijidexiangfayuxuqiuzuochushihezijidequeding。