情感专家：做好期望管理才能得到长择感情

　　nanrenchuguishentibuhuishuohuang，zheihuaanshizhenanxingchuguideshizhishiqing。renshentiyuyanbiaodayuanbizuisuojiangdegengnengrushifanyingxinzhongdeyuwanghemeifayizhideqingxu。dangnanrenchuguishi，tadeshentihuiwuyishideliuluzhuduoanshizhe，congjudong、muguang、chupengdecishudaoshentifanying，doushihuiliuluchuzheixierenzaiganqingzhongdechuguixingwei。yiner，yaojianbienanrenshibushiwaiyu，budanxuyaokaolvtadeyanyu，gengyinggaiyongxinguanchashentiyuyandebiaodaxiweizhuanbian，takenenghuijieluchuyichangpanbianbeihoudezhenxiang。

　　nanrendechuguijingchangdailaiairenfeichangdadeshanghaizaodongbuan，danzaiyiduanqingganzhong，shibushikeyicongweixiaodeshentiyuyanzhongchajuechunanrenshifoucunzaiwaiyudejixiangni？shijishang，shentiyuyanbiaodakeyichuandichuhenduoxinxineirong，yiqilaikankanxijiewenti。

　　1. 目光的叛变

　　muguangshixinlingzhichuang，doushishentiyuyanzhongbijiaorongyixielouchuzhenqingdeyibufen。dangyigenanrenchuguishi，tadeyanguangshichanghuifensanbuqueding，pinfandehuangushenbianderen，huoshishensemenglong。shenzhishizaiyuairenduiwangshi，yanshenzhongqueshaoleguoqudewenxinhechengzhi，henyoukenenggengduodeliuluduibierendexiyinhechongdong。

　　2. 身体接触到的转变

　　qinmijiechushiqingxulianjiedeniudai，dandangyigenanrenchuguishi，taduilingyibandeshentichupengtongchangfashenggaibian。takendinghuishenzhongfangzhiguoduoshentichupeng，huoshifandaoguoduozhuzhongchiredeqinmidongzuo，zheiyeshitachangshiyangaineixinshenchudefuzuiganhewenluanxintai，bingqieyeyinggaishiwaiyuguanliandeyizhonganshizhe。

　　3. 言语的暗喻

　　jinguanzheihuaguidingbunengshiyong“nanrenchuguishentibuhuishuohuang”zheici，keshidajiabufangconglingyigeshijiaolailejie——nanrenzaiwaiyushi，tadeyanyutongchanganhanzhelingyigerendeguanzhuyuxiai。takenenghuipinfandetanjimouyimingcheng，huoshikankanertanditaolunqimouyihuatitaolun，neiyangdehuayujianjiedeanshizhetamenhelingyigerendehudongheaihenjiuge。

　　4. 放纵自己的变化

　　chuguichangbansuirenziwofangzonghechongdongzhuanbian，nanrenchuguishichangchanghuichuxianshenghuofangshiyuxingqudebianhua。tayexuzhujianjingchangjingchangaoye、jiaoyiguoduo、xunqiucijideng，zheizhongxingweizhuanbianyeshitaxuyaomanzuqichongdongdeyizhongtixian，tongshiyoushixianshirenshenglianxidelengmobumanyidebiaoshu。

　　5. 情感上的疏远

　　zuizhong，yigenanrenchuguishi，tayuairenjiandeganqinglianluochangchanghuichuxianshuyuandezhengzhao。takendinghuimanmanshuyuan、yanfan，huoshijingchangzaochengzhengzhihezhengchao，zheiyeshitachangshiyouyiyuairenlakaijuli，fangzhibeichajuechutahelingyigerenjiandeganqingenyuan。

　　nanrenchuguishentibuhuishuohuang，zonglanyishangjigefangmian，shentiyuyanbiaodazainanrenchuguizhongdezhongyaoxingburongxiaoqu。muguang、shentichupeng、yanyuyuxingweizhuanbian，jiqiqingganshangdeshuyuan，quanshinanrenchuguishishentianshizhechulaideweixiaoshujuxinhao。yiner，zaiqingganzhong，bujinyaoguanxinnanrendeyanyu，gengyingminruidiguanchatadeshentishujuxinhao，congzheidangzhongbuhuowaiyudeanjianxiansuo，laiweihuzijideaiqinghelianxidepingwen。jilao，shentibuhuishuohuang，tahuibangwomenrenqingyigenanrenzhenshixinliqingkuang！