婆媳大战，如何让老公站在自己这一边

　　nanrenchuguibuhuitouyuanyinzhiyouyige：yuwang。dangyuwangzaiyouhuoyinyouxiakuosan，ganqingmanmanyintui。jiusixiangcushiyixienanshiganjuekeyirenyizhuiqiugengduocijixingbingmanzu，erbuxuyaoweibierenkaolv。zheileiyuwangdedadaosuodailaideduanzanxingfenganrangnanrenmenchangchangjiangyanqianyouhuoshizuoweiyizongtimubiao。ciwai，yuairenjiandedaodeshufu、zerenxinhefuwuchengnuoyuelaiyuemomohuhu。suiranchuguihuiyinfatongkuyuhouhuimoji，danyuwangquechengweiletamenbuhuitoudetuidongli。

　　她们离去，回不了头

　　1. 视觉上的蒙蔽

　　nanrenchuguideyigeyuanyin，shiyouyushijueshangdemengbi。tamentongchangbeirongmaohexingganmirenshenshenxiyin，nanyikangjuzhuyinyou。dangtamenzaishenghuozhongyudaoxingganyourendenvxingpengyou，tamenhuijuedeyizhongyuwangheyuwang，poshitamenquzhuiqiuzheileixinxiandecijixing。tamenfeichangrongyiyongyuwanglaimanzuzijixinlixuyao，qiebusisuobuliangyingxiang。

　　2. 情感上的制冷

　　lingyigezaochengnanrenchuguibuhuitoudeyuanyinshiqingganshangdezhileng。zhangqixingdehunyinshenghuohuoxiangduiwendingdeguanliankenenghuizhishiqingganshangdeshuaitui，shinanrengandaoyanfanhewuqu。takaishizhiyizijixuanzeyushibushizhaodaowanmeideaiqing。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，tamenqipanzaiciganshoureqingyulangman，tansuoxindeganjuegenxingfen。

　　3. 自我愉悦的欲望

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigeyuanyinshiziwoyuyuedeyuwang。youyixienanrenyushengjulaixiaiquanlihezhangkonggan，tamenzhuiqiujuedemingxianciji，xuyaomanzuzijizizunxinyuzixin。dangtamenfajuehaikeyizaiduanzanwaiyuguanlianzhonghuoquzheileidadaoshi，tamenwangwangbuhuihuitou。tamenxiguanzheiyangyizhongfangfa，renweitakeyimanzuneixindeyuwang。

　　4. 对职责的躲避

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigeyuanyinyinggaishizhizededuobi。yingduigongzuozhong、jiazhong、fuqiganqingdengzhuduogongzuoyaliyuzeren，youyixienanrenkaolvzaiwaiyuzhongduobigezhongwentiyutiaozhan。tamenhuijuedechuguishiyizhongjietuo，keyilinshiwangquexianshishenghuodedandanghegongzuoyali。danshi，zheileiduobizhihuiyinqinanti，jinerzaochenggengduotongkuyuhouhuimoji。

　　5. 丰富自我的向往

　　nanrenchuguidezuihouyigeyuanyinshifengfuziwodexiangwang。youyixienanrenduizijideshenghuoyuzhenshishenfenjuedebufuhe，tamenzhuiqiugengduochenggonghechengjiugan。waiyujitayizhongzhuiqiuziworenkehezhanxianzijishiyongjiazhidehaojihui。tongguoyuqitanvshichuangjianfangshilaimanzuqixinlizhenduizaojiudexiangwang，xunzhaobeirentongherangrenxianmudejuede。

　　nanrenchuguibuhuitouyuanyinzhiyouyige，danzheibushijitagerenxingweibianjiedeyuanyin。waiyukenengpohuaijiating，shangdaozishenyutaren。buguanyuanyinzenyang，yiwuyudaodedouyaonanrenmenshenzhongkaolv。weiyoutongguorenzhiherenqingzijineixinyaoqiu，bingyuairengongtongfendouchuangjianyouxiaodegoutonghexianghuxinren，cainengweichishenxinjiankangerxiangduiwendingdeguanlian。