从王宝强离婚事件看待婚姻经营的问题

　　weishenmenanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudierci？zheiyixianxiangtixianchulenanrendeyouhuolihechongdong。yidandiyicichugui，nanrentongchanghuixianruqizhong，ganjuechuguibingfeiyicixingdebuzhengque，ershiyizhongwujinyouhuo。zheileixintairangnanrenhuixianruxunhuan，bunengziba。yizhihezerenxindequeshaoshizaochengzheileixunhuanxitongchuguidezhongyaoyuanyin。zhenduichuguidenanrenlaishuo，diyicizhishiyigekaishi，yesuizhierlaigengduoyinyouyuyouhuo，eryijingshiquledidangdenengliang。zheiyeshidediercichuguibianchenglejibenshangzaisuonanmianjielun。

　　男人出轨：第一次的诱惑

　　weishenmenanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudierci，nanrenchuguishiyigerangrennanyirongrendegerenxingwei，danweishenmeyoudenanrenchuguizhihouyierzai、zaiersandipanbianairenni？jieguoyexuqianzangzaidiyicichuguihoudeyouhuozhong。

　　丧失神秘感：蜜月期之后

　　zaiyiduanganqinggangkaishideshihou，nanrenjingchangchongchizheshenmigan、jiqingsiyi。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，miyueqiyiwang，shenghuodelingsuiyuyalimanmanchongjixingaiqingdelaogudiaobao。diyicichuguitongchangshilaiyuanyuduiyigexindecijixingxiangwangdejielun，neileirangrenxintiaojiakuai、chongmanreqingdeganjuele，duinanrenlaijiangtongchangshibukekangjude。

　　身份认同困境：探寻认可和使用价值

　　nanrenzaichuguishi，tamenyexuzhengmianlinzheyizhongshenfenrentongkunjing。genjuyuqitanvrendebuzhengdangguanxihuochuguixingweigerenxingwei，tamenchangshizhaodaoyizhongzaicijianlizishenshiyongjiazhidexingshi。zheizhongchuguigerenxingweijiyutamenyizhongbeiqipan、beisuozhuiqiudejuede，jinermibulebenshendebuanhebuzixin。

　　不理智与冲动：无法抑制的积极情绪

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshibulizhihechongdong。youshi，yizhongfengfudeqingganbulizhiheqingyudeyouhuohuishinanrensangshilizhiheyizhi。zheileibulizhibuhuishoudaoshizhang、shineikongjianhuodaodeshufudezhigu，cushinanshitongchangchuguihouchanshengleyizhong“yicijiuhao，zaiduyejiuwusuowei”deniantou。

　　追求刺激：生活的平平淡淡和压力

　　shenghuodepingpingdandanyuyalidoushinanrenchuguideyuanyinzhiyi。gongzuozhong、jiazhong、yiwudengduozhonggongzuoyalirangnanrenganjuepibeiheyanfan。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，zhuiqiucijibianchengletamentaolixianshideyizhongfangfa。dangtamenpengdaoyinrenzhumudejiyushi，tongchanghuihuaizhe“buguanzenyangzaoyipaoqileyici，zailaiyiciyewusuoweile”dexintai。

　　不负责的态度：欠缺社会道德监管

　　nanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudierciyeheqianqueshehuidaodejianguanxiangguan。jiarunanrenbingmeiyouneizaizerenxinheduilingyibandezunzhong，tamenjiubijiaorongyiyigerenxingweipanbianairen。duiyuzheileiqianqueshehuidaodeyueshudenanreneryan，chuguizhishiyizhongmanzuqichongdongdexingshi，tamenbuhuiweizijidexingweijuedezuinie。

　　男人出轨有第一次就有第二次：充斥着诱惑和挑战

　　weishenmenanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudierci，zongdelaishuo，nanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudiercibingjuefeiouran，fanershilaiyuanyuyixiliebenzhihewaijieyinsudeyinqi。lequdesangshi、shenfenrentongkunjing、bulizhiyuneixindeyuwangtuidong、shenghuoyaliheqianquedaodeshufudoushinanrengenghuixianruxunhuan，bunengziba。duiyutameneryan，diyicizhishiyigetuolixianshidekaiduan，erdiercizechengweileyizhongwujinyouhuoyutiaozhan。