打造难忘约会技巧二：参与感

　　nanrendouhuichuguima？zheishiyigerangrenguanzhudenanti。henduorenrenweinanshibijiaorongyichugui，erlingyixierenzechixiangfandejianjie。shijishang，guanyuzheigewenti，dajiabunengyigaierlun。chuguigerenxingweibingbuzhishinanshizhuanshu，yebingbushimeiyigenanrendouhuitiaoxuanpanbian。buyiyangderenyouzhebutongdejiazhiguanhezuorendedixian，duidaihunyinyuqingganyouhuohuiyoubutongdeqingxudiaojie。yinci，buguannanrenhaishinvren，shibushichuguizaiyutadegerensuzhi、jiazhiguanyijiduiyubanlvlianxidemanyidu。xuyaojiejuechuguinanti，zhongdianzaiyubiciderenke、goutongyulejie。

　　nanrendechuguigerenxingweiyizhibaoshouzhengyi，daodishimeiyigenanrendouhuizaoyuzheiyiyouhuo，haishizhishiyixieziwodeyuzhongbutonggerenxingwei？xiamianwomenjiulaitantaoyixiazheiyihuati，bingcongbutongjiaoduqusikao。

　　男人本性与诱惑

　　nanrendouhuichuguima，renleitianxingzhongcunzaiduixinshiwudetansuoyuwangheshijianchongdong。nanrenzuoweiwuzhongdeyibufen，yenanmianshouwaijiedeyouhuo。danshi，chuguibingbushinanrenyuanyoudetezheng，ershiyinweizaimianduigezhonggeyangjiongjing、youhuohekuiquehoudetiaoxuan。

　　个别差异与价值观

　　nanrendechuguixingweihegerendechabiexixixiangguan。duiyumeigerenhunyinhebanlvdejiazhiguandouyousuobutong，yijiduiyuzhongshiyuzerenderenzhiyehuiyousuobutong。yiner，meifajiandandiyong “nanrendouhuichugui”zheizhongkendinglaimiaoshu。

　　交流和达到

　　haowuyiwen，fuqijiandegoutongbudaowei、qingxubufuhedengduozhongyinsuqishihuitishengchuguifengxian。nanrenyexuzaixunzhaolingyizhongqingganshangdedadaoshi，xuanlechugui。danshi，zheibingbingbudengyuquanbunanrendouhuizuochuzheizhongtiaoxuan，fanershizaiyutamenduiyuguanlianmanyilvzonghekaoliang。

　　社会环境因素与发病原因

　　xiandaishehuizhuanxinghaiduinanrendehunyinguanhexingweimoshixingchenglehendayingxiang。yali、jiaojiquandekuozhan、hulianwangshidaidefazhanqushidengduozhongyinsu，douhuirangnanrenbijiaorongyibaoluyuchuguidefabingyuanyinxia。danzheibingbudaibiaoquanbunanrendouhuibeineixiefabingyuanyinjushu。

　　伴侣关联与出轨

　　banlvganqingzhongdenanti，ruweixinlai、bumanzufuqishenghuo、qingganqueshideng，kenenghuiyinqibicizhijiandechuguiquxiang。danshi，yeyouhenduonanrenkeyikeshouhunyinshenghuochengnuo，jibianmianlinkunjing，tamenxuanquyubanlvyiqimiandui，erfeichugui。

　　个人责任与道德选择

　　zuihou，meiyigenanrendouxuyaoduizijidexingweichengdan。bulunshijiyuduibanlvdezhongshihaishiduiyubenshenjiazhiguandekeshou，tamendouyaozaiyouhuoyanqianzuochushehuidaodelidetiaoxuan。chuguibingbushijinjinnanrenduyoudegerenxingwei，nvshitongshiyejiangmianlinchuguidetiaozhan。

　　结束语

　　nanrendouhuichuguima，nanrenshibushidouhuichugui，zaiyugerenjiazhiguan、daodexuanzeyijiduiyufuqiguanxideweihubaoyang。bunengyiweidibasuoyounanrenfangzhitongyigejiagou。zaichuangjianhebaochijiankangdeshenghuobanlvguanxizhong，bicixugongtongfendou，tigaoxinlai、goutongyuqingxudadao，congerjiangdichuguifengxian。