冷爱：修炼爱情的辛酸我们不要

　　nanrenchuguizhideyuanliangma?，zaixiandaishehuizhong，nanrenchuguichengweileyigebaoshouzhengyitaolundehuati。henduorenrenweichuguishibunengyuanliangdebeipangerenxingwei，erlingyixierenzecezhongyujiyubaoronghelejie。nanrenchuguidaodizhidebuzhideyuanliang，zheiyiwentiyinqilerenmenduiyudaodelunli、qinmiguanxihejiazuguanniandeshenrusikao。butongderenyongyoubuyiyangjianjie，erbiaozhundaanhuoxubingmeiyouneimejiandan。zaitaolunzheiyiwentishi，yinggaikaolvbanlvlianxidexinrenyuzhongshi、benrenchengzhangyugaibian，yijiduiyucuowuzuofadeziwofansiyuxiufu。jutiqingkuangzhong，meigerendouyouzijidejuexinhefenxipanduan，ernanrenchuguishibushizhideyuanliangzuihouzaiyubicizhijiandejianjieyuqinggan。

　　背叛造成的伤害与复建

　　nanrenchuguizhideyuanliangma?，nanrenchuguizengtianlebijiaoyanzhongzaochengdeshanghai，bujinjinshiduibanlvdebeipan，yeshiduixinrendesunhai。danshi，shibushizhideyuanliangzeshiyichangxinlingshenchudejiaofeng。yuanliangbingbudengyugaobieguoqu，gengshiweilejibiciyigecongtoukaishidehaojihui，bingqieyeyinggaishibanlvdezixinhexinxindezhanshi。genjuchengxingoutongjiaoliu、fanshengsikaoyugongtongfendoufujianxinren，nanrenchuguideyuanlianghuoxukeyixiubushoushangguanlian。

　　外界缘故与本质难题

　　dangnanrenchuguishi，tongchangjieluleshencengcidenanti。youyixiewaiyukenengjiushiyinweiwaibuyinyouhuoyinqishiqing，eryouxiezeyinweineizaiyuwangbumanyi。zhenduiqianmianyizhong，yuanliangdehengliangnenggougengpianxiangqingjingdedutexingjigerendexiangfa。danshi，zhenduihoumianyizhong，yuanliangshibushizhidebixugengshendepouxiyusikao。nanrenchuguihenyoukenengtixianchubiciguanliandebuwending、queshaogoutong，shenzhiduizijidebumanyi。yuanliangdeyigeguochenghuoxubixuchongfenwajuezheizhongbenzhinanti，bingtanxunjiejuedefangfa。

　　繁杂纷杂的情绪挑选

　　yuanliangshifouyinggaishibiciqingxuxuanzedezhuyaoqueding。banlvdechuguihuimolianbeibeipanfangxinlikangyanengli，eryuanliangyexubixugenggaodeyongqiconghui。youderentiaoxuanyuanliang，shijiyuduizhangqixingdeaiqing、jiazhongyuzerenkaolv；erlingyixierenzejueranliqu，youyunanyirenshoubeipansuodailaidetongku。meigerendouyouzijidedaodedixianhesixiang，yuanliangshifouzhongguizaiyubenrendetiaoxuan。

　　复建信任与重新建立逐渐

　　yuanliangbingbushiyicuerjiude，taxuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyuzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu。bicibixugongtongfendoufujianxinren，jijixunzhaohunyinshenghuohuoganqingzhongdegaishanheyouhua。nanrenchuguitixingbanlvmenhunyinhuotanlianaidedegongshi、goutongyufuwuchengnuodebiyaoxing。zaiyuanliangdeguochengdangzhong，bicibixuyichengxiangdai，kuanrongguoqudetongchu，yexuyaozheyanweilaidemeimiao。

　　结果：

　　nanrenchuguizhideyuanliangma?，nanrenchuguishibushizhideyuanliangshiyigejiweifuzawenti，meiyoutongyihuida。juwairenbunengyiweidipingding，erbiciyexuyaoshenzhongkaolv。yuanliangbingbushimeiyouliyouraoshu，fanershijiduifangyigejiantaohegaiguozixindehaojihui。zaizhenchenggoutongjiaoliu、zhangjiudenuliyuxianghulijiezhong，nanrenchuguihuoxukeyibianchengxiufuguanxidejihui，rangbicifujianxinren、xunzhaoxingfukuailedexinkaishi。