想要脱单，先给自己定个小目标

　　nanrenchuguichulianhoudezhenshixiangfa，shiyigefanzayouhenshenkexintaibianhua。tamenzaijinglilechuguihou，fanshenghesikaosuodailaideneixinzhengzha，rangtamenzhongxinsikaozijideqingxuherenshengjueze。youderenhuigandaoxiukuihehuihen，duichulianzaochenggengshencengcidesilianaixi；haiyouderenhuishenxianmaodunhedanyou，jiujieduichulianhexianshiguanliandetiaoxuan。chuliandeyingzibuduanzaitamenxinzhongshanguo，ertadeneixinxiangfazeyanzangzaizheiliyipianhunluanzhong，yihuiergandaowuli，yihuierxingchengxindeqifa。

　　nanrenchuguichulianhoudezhenshixiangfa

　　内心深处的选择：初恋与现实的担心

　　chulianshirenshengdangzhongzhenguidejiyizhiyi，tanenggoudaijirenmenshenshendiqingxudecijiwujinzhuiyi。danshi，nanshengchuguihou，tadeneixinquexianruyichangcongweiyouguodeyihuoyudanxin。tamenmianlinduichuliansinianzhiqingheduixianshiguanliandetiaoxuanjiandemaodun，zheishitamenxianruneixinshenchudexuanze。

　　初恋恍然大悟，爱情的喧闹和现实的冷酷无情迥然不同，她开始审视自己行为表现挑选。
chulianwangwanglingrenlingrennanwang，shiyinweiqidaibiaozheneiyiduannianshaodetianzhenyumeihao。nanrenmenyishidaole，chuguiqibeihoudechulianzhuiyishineimedezhenzhenghebaogui，erxianshidepanbianquebudebuchanshengyishicijihewufakefudetongchu。

　　愧疚与懊悔：初恋造成的伤害与愧疚

　　chuguishenhoubansuineixinshenchudedanxinheshenshendiaohui。nanrenmenzhujiansikaotamendexingwei，renshidaozijidepanbianjichulianzaochengdeshanghai。takaishiduizishendechuguixingweigerenxingweigandaoxiukuihehuihen，duichulianchongmanzhegengshencengcidesilianaixi。

　　chulianshiqingchundelvzhou，erchuguishigebilidehanzai。nanrenmenyishidaole，chulianjiushineigeyiqiantianzhenermeihaodezijidedaibiao，erchuguiyerangtamenjuededuichuliandebeiqihegerenjiazhidezhuiluo。bulunshifouyingdeleyishunjiandedadao，tamenxinlingshenchudeaohuiyuduichuliandekuijiuquegengjiaqianglie。

　　心绪的涡旋：对于未来与爱情的探索

　　chulianyinyingshizhongbuhuilikainanshengdexintou。tadexinxubeicuoluanhemaodunsuochongyi，chixuduiqijianglaiheaidetansuozhongpanghuang。

　　chulianjiushiaiqingdekaiduan，erchuguizeshiduiganqingshiyongjiazhidezhengyi。nanrenmenzhujianshenshizijiduichuliandeshijiaiqing，jizaixianshiguanxilisuodedaodedadaohechongdong。tamenduiyuaiqingdingyizhongxinguihua，duizhengyiyuxiee、zhenjieyupanbiandebianjiejinxingsisuo。

　　苦涩经验教训：成长和償還

　　nanshengchuguichulianhou，tamengengweidonglechuliandezhenguiyutamendexingweisuochanshengdekuguo。zheiyeshishengminglikusejingyanjiaoxun，doushichengzhangyuchanghuandebiyouzhilu。

　　chulianhaosiyishoushi，tapiaoliangyuzhenshirangrennanyidichu。chuguijiuchengweileyichangzaihuo，tahuidiaolechuliandegongmingdianhebaogui。nanrenmenzaichuguihougewaizhenxichulian，yegengdongleganqinghechengxindeyiyi。tamenyongdaoxingdongyushijianchanghuan，laixiubucongqiandeshanghaiyingzaogengmeihaodemingtian。

　　从出轨到发展：男生的情绪成长

　　nanshengchuguichulianhouzhuanbianhaosituibiandecaidie，jinglileyichangxinlingdexilihemolian。tacongpanbiandaoxiangnian，congaohuidaofazhan，genjuduichuliandesikaoyuduixianshiguanliandetiaoxuan，zhonggouletaduiaiqingdekanfahexingweimoshi。

　　nanrenchuguichulianhoudezhenshixiangfa，chulianyongyuandoushinanshengxinlingshenchudewenxinzhuiyihelinghundejiaxiang。chuguihenyoukenengjizijidailaidecijiduanzandadao，danneiyigeteshulvchengjieshuhou，tadeneixinxiangfazhujianshanguo。nanrenmenjiangcaiquchengzhangyuchanghuan，zaicixunzhaochuliandebaoxiang，shiqixingfuyubaoguideganqing。