冷爱精选：妻子到底该不该看老公手机？

　　jielehundenanrenweishenmehuichugui？zheishiyigeyinqidajiasisuowenti。hunyinshiliangrenbicifuwuchengnuo、xianghuyicunzhijiandeguanxi，neiyangweishenmeyehuiyounanrenzaijiehunhoubeichizheiyifuwuchengnuoni？zheiqizhongyuangufuzaqieduozhongduoyang。youyixienanrenkenenghuiyinweihunyinlidewenticuobaiganertansuoxindecijixingbingmanzu，youyixiekenenghuiyinweishiquduihunyindereqinghexiyinerzhaodaoxindecijixing，erlingyixieyoukenengshiyouhuohendawufadidang。buguanshishenmeyuangu，hunhouchuguidoushihuiduihunyinzaochengjidadeshanghaikunjing。yinci，lejiechuguidezhuyaoyuanyinbingxunzhaogaoxiaodejiejuefanganshishifenzhongyaode。

　　情绪起伏与婚姻里的疑惑：

　　jielehundenanrenweishenmehuichugui，hunyinshiliangrenxiangbanyishengdefuwuchengnuo，danweiheyouyixienanrendouhuixuanzechugui，weibeilehunyindeluni？yifangmian，hunyinrichangshenghuokenengdailaiqingxuqifu，rangnanrenxiwangdedaoxinxiandecijixing。zaishuxidehunyinrichangshenghuo，yidanqingxumanmanpingpingdandan，xiayishidezhuixunyigexindereqingyulangmanhenyoukenenghuichansheng。hunyinlideyihuoyucuozhedoushichuguishencengyuanyinzhiyi，rugoutongbuchang、jiatingyaliyalihegongzuoyalitaida，nanrenfeichangrongyitanxunwaijiejiyubaituo。

　　身份认同与趋于神秘感：

　　jiewanhundenanrenzhuixunwendingxingheguishugan，zaihunyinzhongshelilejiazhong，queyoushihouzaixunzhaoshenfenrentongcengmianjuedebugou。neixinshenchudewuxingyalicushiqizhaodaoxindereqinghequanxindeshenghuo，yihuanjiegerenjiazhihechengjiugandequeshi。zheileiquyulequdebulizhiposhizhezijichangshitaochuhunyindezhigu，zhaodaoxindeziyoufengfu。

　　性需求和外部诱惑：

　　hunyinlidexingxuqiubukehushi，nanrenchuguiwangwanghuiyinweijiehunhoufuqishenghuochuwenti。danghunyinlidefuqishenghuobuhuizaidadaotadechongdongshi，tanxunwaijieyouhuobianchengyizhongjietuodetiaoxuan。waijieyouhuozhuyaolaiziyubangongchangsuo、jiaojiquanhuohulianwangjishudengtujing，dailailedadaoxingxuqiudehaojihui。zheizhongwaijieyouhuogenjudadaotamencengjingzaihunyinzhongbunengmanzudexingxuqiu，xiyinlenanrenzhuyili。

　　沟通不到位与心灵寄托：

　　hunyinlidejiaoliuwentijingchangzaochengwuliganhegudugandexingcheng。tangruofuqijianqianqueyouxiaogoutong，nanrenhenyoukenengjuedemeifaheqizichuangjiangengshencengcideqingxulianluo。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanrenhuixunzhaonenglijiebinglingtingtamendeneixinyinledebieren，xunzhaoxinlingshenchudejiyu。zheizhongjiyukenengyinfayutarenaihenjiuge，weichuguichuangzaoletiaojian。

　　自我约束操控与担当意识：

　　hunyinzhong，nanrenbixuziwoyueshucaokongtamendexingwei，bingweichiduihunyindezerendandang。danshi，youyixienanrenyouyuziwoyueshuheshimingganquefa，budongyingduiyouhuoezhichongdong，suibianshenxianchuguidedibu。tamenyexuqueshaoduihunyindezhenxihezhongshi，jiangzishenchongdongfangzhihunyinyiwuyishang。

　　汇总：

　　jielehundenanrenweishenmehuichugui，jiewanhundenanrenchuguideyuanyinhenduozheduoyinsudeyingxiang。qingxuqifu、shenfenrentongdexuqiu、xingxuqiuquebudadao、goutongbudaoweijiqiziwoyueshukongzhidequeshaodouhuibianchengzaochenghunhouchuguidefabingyuanyin。lejiezheixieyinsu，fuqijiandepingdengjiaoliu、xianghuxinrenjiqichuangjianlaogudehunyinjibenquanshijiejuechuguifengxianxingdeguanjianyinsu。