如何通过约会判断对方是否好男人？

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　　窘境与发病原因——50岁男人出轨的心理体制

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　　生理学变老和消极悲观

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　　婚姻压力与情感难耐

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　　个人自我悬架和躲避情感难题

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　　自我肯定与权力渴望

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　　社会转型和婚姻意识

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　　缺少沟通与情感愧疚

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　　50suinanrenchuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，zongdeshuolai，zhonglaoniannanrenchuguideyuanyinshiduoyuanhuaerfanzade。shenglixueshuailuo、hunyingongzuoyali、gerenziwoxuanjia、ziwokendinghequanlikewang、shehuizhuanxingjiqijiaoliuheqinggankuijiudengduozhongyinsuxianghuyingxiang，yitongcujinlezheiyiqingkuangdefasheng。lejiezheizhongxinlixianxiangnengbangzhuwomennenggougenghaodijiejueyufanggaiwentidechuxian，goujiangengjiankanghexiangduiwendingdehunyinguanlian。