婚姻修复：老公出轨却不肯离婚怎么办？

　　nanrenweishenmehuizhaochulianqingrenchugui，weihenanrendouhuixuanzehetamendechulianqingrenchugui？zheizhongqingkuangkunraozhehenduoren。yexushiduilishizuimeihaodehuiyidejianchi，yexushiyinweichulianqingrendaibiaoleyiduanchuncuideganqingguocheng，rangtamenjuedenianqing、ziyouhuolisishe。dagaiyeshiyouyuchulianqingrenyutamenyongyouteshuqingganqiaoliang，jibiannianguoqule，neileiteshudeqingganrengrancunzaiyubicizhijian。buguanyuanguzenyang，nanrenchuguichulianqingrendeqingkuangjiujiabuguihexintong。rangwomenyiqitaolunzheishijieshangfuzaqierangrenkunhuodezhuangkuang。

　　初恋的回忆：复古的心灵寄托

　　nanrenweishenmehuizhaochulianqingrenchugui，chulianqingrenzhenduinanreneryan，tongchangdaibiaoleqingchunnanwangdehuiyi。neiyiduanchuncuiertianmideaiqing，jitadeneixinliuxiashenruyinji。chulianshitamenchengzhanglushangdeyibufen，jiushitamenzuitianzhenwuxiedeqingganganshou。zheizhongnanwangdehuiyizainanrendeneixinzuishenchujingjiubusan，chengweiwomenqinggandejiyuhezuiwennuandeyuandongli。

　　心绪的牵引带：有喜欢的人了的感觉了

　　chulianqingrenzhongjiandeduteqiaoliangjingchangwufamomie。suiranshizhangyiguoquhaozhangshijian，danyixieteshudeqingganyirancunzai。dangnanrenyudaokunnan、gongzuoyalihuoshiqingganjimoshi，shuxidechulianqingrentongchanghuichengweitamendexinlingguisu。zheixierenzaichulianqingrendeshenshangzhaodaokuanwei、lejieheguanai，jinerxingchengleqinggandeqianyindaiheyikao。

　　追忆青春年少：寻找失落的内在

　　suishuzengzhangrangnanrentihuidaoshijiandetuiyiyijizijidezhuanbian，cengjingdeqingchunwanruyizhenfengmoguo，xianrujinjinshengshijuejiyizhuiyi。chulianqingrenjizijidailailezhuiyiwangshidehaojihui，congxinganshouneiyiduanqingsesuiyue。zaichulianqingrendeshenshang，nanrenzhaodaonianqingshihouzishen，zhaohuiyiqianjiqingyujiqingdeneizai，zheileitanxunyuzhuiqiuchengweiwomenchuguideyigezhongyaodongji。

　　逃离现实：对感情的不满意和厌烦

　　fuqiguanxizhongcunzaidewentiheyanfanwangwangshinanrentiaoxuanchuguideyigezhongyaoyuanyin。zhangqixingdeganqingshenghuohenyoukenengshitamenduiyuhunyinmanmanshuyuanheyanjuan，qipantaolixianshidezhigu。chulianqingrenzechengleyizhongtaochuhunyinshenghuobumanyidechurukou，weitamentigongyizhongxindereqinghesuiyi。tamenxiwangyongyuchulianqingrendejiujiehechuguizaicixunzhaoneixindekaolvheqingganciji。

　　自身认证：证明自己风采与诱惑力

　　zainanrendexintaizhong，chuguichulianqingrenyeyoukenengshiyizhongzishenjianyandegerenxingwei。tamenxiwanggenjubeichulianqingrenxiyinzhuyuzhuiqiuzhengmingzijidutedemeiliheyouhuoli。chulianqingrencengjingduitamenyouteshuqinggan，zhongfanyuanfangdeguanlianyerangdajiajuedezijirengranjubeiyouhuoli。zheileizishenjianyandechongdongqudongzhenanrenquanlizhuixunchulianqingrenbingchanshengchuguigerenxingwei。

　　内心的担心：道德与职责的选择

　　danshi，nanrenduichulianqingrenchuguidejueceyebansuizheneixindezhemohedanxin。tamengaoqingchutamendexingweiweifanledaodeyujiatingyali，nengjizijiheshenbianderenzaochengshanghaiyutongku。zheileineixindefenqihezhengtuorangtamenxianrudaodeyuzhizedexuanze，yeshizhichuguigerenxingweigengfuzaerkunao。

　　汇总：

　　nanrenweishenmehuizhaochulianqingrenchugui，nanrenweishenmehuixuanquyuchulianqingrenchugui，yuanguzhuduo。congfugudexinlingjituo，daoxinxudeqianyindai；congzhuiyiqingchunnianshao，daotaochuhunyinshenghuoqiangliebumanheyanfan；congzishenrenzheng，daoneixindedanxin，zhongzhongyinsujiaozhizaiyiqi，gouchenglenanrenchuguichulianqingrencuozongfuzadexinlidongji。danshi，buguanyuanguzenyang，chuguigerenxingweidounengjitamenyutarenchanshengtongkuhesunhai。dangmianduizheizhongxintaijuewangdeqingkuangxia，congmingeryouzerenxindetiaoxuanyuairenjiujinyuanzegoutongjiaoliu，chengxinmianduikunnan，xunzhaoshiyidejiejuefangan，shigoujianjiankangxiangshang、xianghulijiezhijiandeguanxideguanjiansuozai。