双性恋：我该不该和老公离婚跟她在一起？

　　nanrenchuguibeifaxianhouxinlichengshoulehendadeyalihedanyou，tamenmianlinzize、cankuihebuanqingxu。beifaxianhou，tamenyexugandaoxiukuiheneijiu，weizijipanbiangerenxingweichengdan。yucitongshi，tamenyehuipashiqubanlvdexinrenheai，danyouzaoyuyigejiatingdeliekaiyuhunyindewajie。kunyuneijiuqidaibeiyuanliangdexinliduankuaizhongjian，nanrentongchangmianlinxiufuguanxihemibucuowudejiannanxuanze，jiqichengdanbanlvdenuqixingshanghaidekuchu。zheiyixiliexinlijiongjing，cushinanrenzaiwaiyubeifaxianhou，shenxianwufataobidexinlikunhuozhong。

　　重燃希望：男人外遇被发现后心里动荡不安

　　nanrenchuguibeifaxianhouxinli，nanrenwaiyubeifaxianhou，tadeneixinzaoshouzhefeichangdadedongdangbuanyubuan。zheileifaxianjingchangshitamenshenxianwujinzizehekuijiudangzhong。tamenrenshidaozijidepanbiangerenxingweijibanlvyujiatingdailaijidadesunhai，bulunshichuziyudaodesuyang，haishiduibanlvdeshenqieqingyi，zheileifuzuiganrangtamenbeishouzhemo。

　　yiyang，nanrenyegandaoneijiu，youyubeifaxianwaiyudaibiaozhebeijiekaitayinzangyimian。tamenrenshidaozijidechuguixingweigerenxingweizaibierenyanlishishifenkechide，zheirangtajuedelianmiandasao，duizishenxingxianghezizunxingchengleyanzhongweihai。

　　冲突的心理：自责与斥责中间挣脱

　　waiyubeifaxianhou，nanrentongchangshenxianzizehezhizeliangnankunjing。yifangmian，tamenzizezijibunengzhongshi，buyuanhuihuaimuqianguanlian，danhaizidexingweirangtamenduizishendedaodeguannianchanshengzhiyi。suiranshenganneijiu，danshitamenyexiwangnenghuoderenzhihekuanrong。

　　lingyifangmian，tamenyiyangzaoyulaiyuanyubanlvdepipinghenaonu。banlvdekuchuxingshanghairangdajiazaizizedeqiantixiachengshoulewaibudechizehezeguai。tamenjuedewufadidabanlvxinlingshenchudesunhai，keshiqueweizijipanbiangerenxingweifuqian。

　　自我反省：悲伤的心里探寻

　　mianduichuguibeifaxianhoudejiongjing，nanrenzhujianshenshizijigerenxingweiyuxinlidongyin。tamenchixuxunwenzijishishenmezaochenglepanbian，shibumanyi、qipanshenmigan，haishiduiyubanlvguanlianbutaimanyi？zheileiziwofanshengjishiweilenengjieshouxianshi，qishishiweilejianglaizhongjianxinrendezhongyaoqianti。

　　zheiyiguochengzhong，nanrenzaoshouzhejiaolvqingxu、sisuohemangran。tamenchangshishulixinxu，tanxunpanbiangerenxingweidegenbenyuanyin，bingqieweibaituoneixinshenchudemimanghezhengtuoerfendou。zheileiziwofanshengshiyichangjianxinertongkudexinlingtanxun，shiduiweilaisikaoyugenggaidejihui。

　　恢复与新建：重燃希望的开端

　　suiranwaiyubeifaxianhouxinlijiongjinglingnanrenbeishouzhemo，danyenengchengweizhongranxiwangdejihui。fujianbanlvguanlianhehuifubeiliekaiderenke，bianchengnanrennulifangxiang。tamenyexujijiqiuzhu，canjiahunyinfudaohuozhegerenxinliyizhi，yitansuogaibianzijixingweifangshi。

　　yucitongshi，nanrenyeyaoxuehuimianduibanlvdeshiwanghesunhai，ganyuchengdanzeren，bingbuduanmibucuowu。yaoqingting，lejiebanlvdetiyan，bingyishijixingdongzhengmingzijichengxinziwogaibian。

　　nanrenchuguibeifaxianhouxinli，nanrenwaiyubeifaxianhouneixinshenchudedongdangbuanshiyichangjiankudexinlizhixing，danshi，genjuziwofansiyunuli，fujianposundeguanlianshijueduihenyoukenenghe。suiranlumianyouzhang，danshizhiyouyichengxiangdai、baoronglijiehezhenzhengyiyishangdehuigaicaikeyirangnanrenzaicihuodebanlvderenke，manmanhuifuliangrendeguanxi，bingweiyihoudiandingjichu。