聚少离多+缺乏责任感 第三者就是这样入侵家庭的

　　jingshenchuguinanrenzhenshixinli，zaihunyinli，youyixienanrenhenyoukenenghuixianrujingshenwaiyudekunhuo，dantamenneixindezhenshitiyanquehaoduorenbingbushihenlejie。zheileixintaichangbansuisixiangshangdefensanheqinggandemaodun，zaineixinzuishenchuanchaoyongdong。tamenyexuhuijuedeyayigan、fawei，kewangyubierenchuangjiangengnongliedeqingganqiaoliang，tongshiyeduiganqingdezerenxinhedaodeshufujuedemaodun。zheileijingshenwaiyudezhenzhengxinlizhuangtaitongchangxuyaobeirenzhenwanchengyulijie，yixunzhaozhenzhengyiyishangdeduice。

　　男人的情感困境

　　zaihunyinli，jingshenchuguishiyigezangyuzainanrenxinzhongdemimi。tamenbiaomiankanqilaiheqiziyizhibaochizhehaodeguanxi，danneixinquezaoshouzheyichangzhenshiershenmidexinlidouzheng。zheileiqinggankunjingjingchangshidetamenshenxianmimang，weilenengxunmineixindekewangermaikaiqianjindejiaobu。danshi，zhenzhengxinlizhuangtaitongchangwufayanshuo，bixuyaozaineixinzuishenchujingjingdibanhe。

　　沉溺在观念边沿

　　jingshenwaiyunanrenjingchangmianlinsixiangshangdefensan。tamenduiyuhunyinhejiatingchanshengzhiyi，kukusisuobuheshiyidexiangfa。liru“woshibushiheqiadangderenjiehun？”、“shifouhaiyoubiedezuiheshidetiaoxuan？”dengzhuduowentikunraozhetamen。zheizhongguannianbianyuan，shidetamenzaiqinggandehaiyanglimitushouzuwucuo，shenxianwujinpanghuang。

　　情感的矛盾与繁杂

　　jingshenwaiyudenanrenneixinchongyingzheqinggandemaodunyufanza。tamenkewangyongyougengduonongliedeqingganqiaoliang，xunzhaoxinxiandecijixing，danyoupobudeyihunyindezerenganyudaodeshufuernanyibaituo。zheileikongjuhehouzhongdefuzuigantongshishiyong，xingchengletamenneixinshenchudemaodun，shitamenshenxianrenshengdaoludejiongjing。

　　抑制的渴望与乏味的实际

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，jingshenwaiyunanrenmianlinyizhongyizhidekewang。tamenkewanggengduoreqinghecijixing，kewangyubierenchuangjiangengshencengcideqingganlianluo。danshi，zaoshouhunyinshenghuodeshufu，tamenjuedemeifaziyouzizaidizhuixunneixindekewang，beirichangsuosuisuofu，zhujianbiandeduiyushenghuoshiqujiqinghekuaile。

　　寻找心灵深处的出入口

　　duiyuzheiyangdejiongjing，jingshenwaiyunanrenneixinkewangxunzhaoyizhongjietuochukou。tamenchangshixunzhaoxinlingdeanwei，genjuyubierenqingtu、tanxungongmingdian，huotongguoyixiexintaidiaozhengdefangshiqujianqingneixindexiangfa。erqiezheiyangdexunzhao，bujinshiduineixindejiaohan，shiduizijibenxingdetanxun，qidainengzhaodaozhenzhengyiyishangdeduice。

　　理解和包容的必要性

　　jingshenchuguinanrenzhenshixinlidechuxian，xuyaodajiayiyizhongrenzhihebaorongdexintailaimiandui。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，bicizhijiandeyouxiaodegoutongcaishiguanjian，danduiyunanrenlaijiang，yeyaoweitamentigongyidingkongjian，laimianduineixindemaodunhezhengtuo。weiyoutongguobicizhijiandenuliyugongtongdelejie，cainengfaxianhunyinshenghuodejunhengdian，rangnanrenmenzhenzhenzhengzhengxunzhaoneixindepingjingyudadao。

　　jingshenchuguinanrenzhenshixinli，zaishijiannanrenjingshenwaiyudezhenzhengxinlizhuangtaizhong，womenyaowaishenlejiedexiaoshou，weitamentigongqinggandedalizhichihefuqizhijiandewenxin，rangdajiazaihunyinzhilushangxunzhaozhenshideziwo，tihuidaoxianghujiandezhenaiyuxingfu。