初次约会三大技巧 轻松拿下男神的心

　　54suinanrenchuguihuifuchuzhenganqingma，zaitantao54suinanshengchuguishibushifuchuzhenganqingyiqian，womenyinggaiyishidaochengshunanrendeqingganyuxingweikenengbingbushounianlingyaoqiu。suiranchuguixingweizishenhenyoukenengzaochengshanghaiyutongku，danshiyoushihouzheiyeyoukenengshitamenduixinlizhenzhengganqingdebiaoshu。yiner，womenyaolijiehetaolun54suinanshengchuguiqibeihoudezhenzhengqinggandongji，yigengquanmiandilejiehejieshizheizhongqingkuang。

　　54岁一个男人的情感窘境

　　54suinanrenchuguihuifuchuzhenganqingma，chengshunanrenzaiqinggannantizhongyudaohenduojiongjingyutiaozhan，zaiqizhongyizhongjiushichuguixingwei。chuguitongchangrangrenbudebujinxingsikao，zheishifouyiweizhetamenchuguishizhenyoufuchuzhenganqingni？zheishiyigefuzaqielingrenkunhuowenti。

　　非理性的心理状态需求

　　chuguibeihoukenengchuxianyizhongfeilixingdexinlizhuangtaixuqiu。duiyuyixiechengshunanreneryan，nianjisuodailaidexiaojibeiguanhebuanquanganshitamenqipanzaiwaibutanxunqinggandedadao。gezhongqingxuqudongxia，tamenkenenghuichanshengchongdongchuguixingwei，danbingbudaibiaotazhendeyoufuchuzhenganqing。

　　内心深处的苦闷与追求刺激

　　mouxieqingkuangxia，54suiyigenanrendechuguixingweihenyoukenengyuanyuneixindewuligan。suizhenianlingzengzhang，tamenduiyushenghuoyuhunyindeqidaihenyoukenenghexianshiyouyidingdebufuhe，zaochengxinliqiangliebumanheqinggandequeshi。zaizhuiqiucijibingmanzudeguochengdangzhong，taxuanzechugui，danshibingbuyiweizhetamenchuguishihuizhenshiganqingzijintouru。

　　临时性的情感寄予

　　youyixiechengshunanrenhenyoukenengchuguishiyouyuzaihunyinshenghuozhongchuxianleyixienanti，tamenjuedebeihulvehuoshibubeirenlijie。yizhizaixunzhaotamendeneixinxiangwangdeqingganlianjieshi，tamenxuanlechugui。jinguantakenenghuiyouduanzanqingganjiyu，danbingbudaibiaotamengengyuanyiweichuguideduixiangfuchuzhenganqing。

　　担当和愧疚的矛盾

　　yidanchuguichansheng，chengshunanrenkenengmianlindandanghekuijiudemaodun。tamenyexuzaiqingganshanghelingyibanyouyidingdeqianshe，bingqieyefuchuleyixiezhenganqing。danshi，tamenyehuiweichuguixingweisuozaochengdehouguogandaoxiukuihebuan。zheileineixinshenchudefenqicushifenbian54suinanshengshibushizhendefuchuzhenganqingbiandeyuelaiyuefanza。

　　得出结果：

　　54suinanrenchuguihuifuchuzhenganqingma，54suinanshengchuguishibushifuchuzhenganqingzaiyugerenyijiqinggandongjiduoyuanxing。suiranchuguixingweizishenhuirangyujiatingfuqiguanxizaochengweihai，danwufajiandandejiangzheiyigerenxingweixiangdangyuzhenganqingdefuchu。zaitaolunzheizhongqingkuangshi，dajiaxuyaokaolvchengshunanrendexinlingyaoqiu、qingganjiongjinghejiazhiguannian，bingqieyilizhikeguanxintailailijiezheixiewentideduoyuanxing。xietongpeihe、chuangjianxianghuxinren、xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhushijiejuezheixiewentidezhongyao，yizuodaozhenzhengdeqinggandadaohejiatinghemu。