老实男人为什么会出轨？

　　laopohebiedenanrenchuguizenmeban，dangzaoyulaopoyubiedenanrenchuguizheiyitongkudeshijishi，womenyinggaijiandingbuyidemianduikunnan，bingzhidingshidudexingwei。zheileibeipanshanghaidaowomendexinrenyuhunyindewending，danwomenkeyitiaoxuangoutongyulejieduifangdongjiyuxuqiu。yucitongshi，chuangjianzhenchengdeduitanfangshi，yicujinguanxidexiufuxinjian。danguanlijueceshi，womenyinggaijianchizijidebiaozhunhesixiang，baohuzijidezunyanxingfukuaile。butongqingkuanghenyoukenengyouzhebutongdejiejuefangan，danyizhijilao，xunzhaoxinlizhenzhengyiyishangdepinghenghediaojieshibukehuoquede。

　　beipandetongku：danglaopoyubierenwaiyushi，dajiasuoyudaodeshiyichangganqingzhongdezaihuo。zheizhongbeipandapowomendexinren、shanghaidaolianggerendeganqing，shiwomenxianruwujintongkuyuyihuodangzhong。

　　接受现实

　　laopohebiedenanrenchuguizenmeban，zuixian，womenyinggairenqingkeguanshishi，yonggandequmianduizheizhongqingkuang。suiranyingduilaopowaiyudeshijiwufajieshou，danduobihuofoudingfanerhuirangnantigengfuza。dajiayaoxuanzezhenchengheyingyong，yonggandemianduizheiyitongkudeshishi。

　　冷静分析

　　zaixianruqingxubianhuayiqian，womenyaotounaoqingxingheqingxingdedanao。shenshizijitihuihefanying，sisuowentidebenzhijiqizaochenglaopochuguideyuanyin。zheizhongfanshengnengbangzhuwomenlejieshierdeqianyinhouguo，weixiayibuxingdongzuochugengmingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。

　　沟通与理解

　　suirantongkufennuhenyoukenengchongyixinzhong，danshihelaopokaizhankaifanghezhenchengdeduitanyouweizhongyao。lingtingduifangxushu、lejieqixinlideyaoqiuhedongyin，bingbiaoshuzijidexiangfaheyijian，shizhongjianxinrenhexiufuguanxidezhongyaoqianti。

　　重新审视关联

　　laopowaiyuhuicushidajiazhongxinshenshibenshendeguannianheguanliandeqianti。womenyinggaisikaohunyinshenghuohaiyoumeiyoufujiandekenengxing，shibushihaihenzhidezaiciyunying。zheiyeshiyigejiannandejueding，xuyaodajiazonghekaolvzishendeliyihemeihao，erbuzhishiyiwangcengjingdechengnuo。

　　寻找技术专业协助

　　mianduizheiyangdefuzadeqingganjiongjing，xunzhaogengzhuanyedezixunjixiezhushiyigezhengquedexuanze。gengzhuanyedezhidaoshihuoqingganzhuanjianenggoutigongkeguantiyiheyindao，bangwomenzaizheiyangyigenijingzhongzhaodaoheshidejiejuefangfa。

　　保护自己的心灵和自尊

　　zaizheigeguochengzhong，womenyinggaimingjibaohuzijidexinlinghezizundebiyaoxing。bulunshiyuanliangtahefujian，huoshixuanzejieshufuqiguanxi，womendouyaokeshouzuorendedixianhesixiang，buxubeipanzaochengdeshanghaizaicifushiwomenzijideshentijiankang。

　　laopohebiedenanrenchuguizenmeban，beipanhechuguishiyichangqingxudizhenzaihai，huidiaoledajiaduiganqingdexinnianhebaozheng。danshi，womenkeyigenjuyilihekeguan，xunzhaodaofazhanfangxiang。zhongjianxinrenhenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，danshizhiyouzaizanmenzhenxinchengyimianduikunnanbingfuzhuxingdongyihou，cainengzhenzhengdezhaodaozijidexingfukuaile。