恋爱测试：分手后还能挽回爱情吗？

　　zenmetaohuarangnanrenchengrenchugui，zailianaizhongdechuguinantijingchangyinqitongkuyugulv，erjieluzhenxiangwangwangbixuqiaomiaodigoutongdejiqiao。benwentaolunzenyangliyongqiaomiaoditaohuafangfa，zhengqueyindaonanrentanyanzijishibushichugui。genjushuliancaozuoshidudeyanyushenglixinliduice，dajiakeyiduanlianduihuadeyouhaodu，jinerduichuguiqingkuangjinxinggengweishenrudejiaoliu。genjubenwen，womenjiangyaobangzhuzijizhangwozenmeshiyongtaohua，huodenanrenchengrencunbucunzaichuguiweifaxingweidequezaozhengju。

　　揭露真相之途

　　zenmetaohuarangnanrenchengrenchugui，zhengqueyindaonanrenchengxinchengrenchuguinantidebanfa

　　探索心理状态重要

　　renmentongchangpengdaolianaizhongdechuguinanti，erjielushiqingquejuefeiyishi。danshi，genjuqiaomiaoditaohuahegoutongdejiqiao，dajiakeyizaibuzhijieshuonanrenshibushichuguideqingxingxia，tanxuncongerhuoququezaozhengju。xiabianjiangjieshaoyixieyouxiaodebanfa，bangzhuzijigenjutaohuazhengqueyindaonanrenzhenchengchengrenchuguigerenxingwei。

　　构建认同和归属感

　　zuixian，lajinguanxiheanquanganjiushichenggongyindaonanrentanyanchuguiwentidehexin。shenkelijietadetihuihexintai，yiyoushanerzhenchengdexingshibiaoshuguanzhu，nengrangtamenjuedebeirenlijiebingqieyuanyigongxiangxianshiqingkuang。zaizheiguochengzhong，nikeyishidutanjinizishenjingli，nengrangduifangjuedenishiyigenenggouzhidexinlaideren，xiangyaolingtingyuzhichi。

　　以“客观事实”为突破口

　　ruguonizaoyishelilerentongheguishugan，nenggouchangshiyong“keguanshishi”zuoweitaohuadetupokou。genjutichuyixieyuchuguiyouguanqingxuhuozhengzhao，jianjiedejiangwentiyindaoziyidecaiyi。biru，nikeyishuo：“youshi，dangwomenxinzhujianqiaoqiaopaoqubiechu，huijuedeneixinshenchudefenqiyubuan。nijuedeneizhongganjuekenenghuiyoushenmeyuanyinni？”

　　关心转变的举动

　　lingyigeyoujiazhidetaohuafangfashiguanxinnanrendejudongherichangzhuyaobiaoxian。yongxinguanchatadezhuanbian，biruhurangengjiazhuzhongrongmao、changchangtijimouyitedingderenhuozhediqu、duiyuweichixiangduigaoduxinxibaomideng。ruguoniliuyidaozheizhongfashengbianhuashi，keyichangshitaolunzhuanbianzishen，erfeilijishejidaochuguiwenti。biru，nikeyishuo：“jinqiwozhuyidaoninduishoujicunfangyouqiyanshi，youshenmeteshudeyuanguma？”

　　暗示着社交网络重要线索

　　shejiaowangluozaizheigeshidaizhongfahuizhezhongyaodezuoyong，yechengweijieluchuguianjianxiansuodezhongyaotujing。nikeyigenjuqiaomiaodetanjiyixiexiangguanchuguidebaodao、xiaogushihuozhepengyoudezaoyu，bingguanchananrenfanying。jiarutabiaoxianchuleguoduguanxinhuoxingquaihao，neimekenenganshizhetaduiyucishiwentiqianche。biru，nikeyishuo：“jinqiyoubaodaochengmoumoumouzhimingrenshibeipuchuchuguile，ninduizheizhongzuofayouheganxiang？”

　　深层次对话和聆听

　　zuizhong，chuangjianyichangshencengciqielingtingdeduihuadoushizhongyao。genjurenzhendilingtingnanrendeniantouhetihui，jijizhudongtichuwentibinghuifutadeyanyu，yingzaolianghaodeduihuaqifen。yikaozheileishencengciduihua，nikeyizaiciyindaotamentaolunchuguidegailv，naizhianweitazhenchengtanrandimianduikeguanshishi。jilao，zhongshibierendeganshouzhiguanzhongyao，bunengrangduihuayuelaiyuegongjinenglihuochizexing。

　　zenmetaohuarangnanrenchengrenchugui，genjuqiaomiaoditaohua、lajinguanxi、guanchagerenxingweiyushishishencengciduihua，womenjiangtishenghuodenanrenchuguichengrendejilv。danshi，duihuahuanjiezhong，bixuquebaolingyifangjuedezunzhongyulijie，fangzhiguodujijinxunwen，tongshihaiyaozhangwoshidanghechicun。zuihou，chengxinhezhenchengdejiaoliujiangyouzhuyujielushiqing，bingqiezaiguanxilizhaodaogenghaodejiejuefangfa。