相亲时化解冷场尴尬的妙招

　　zainanrenyuhunyinzhong，fenjubeishiweiyizhongposundeqingganqingkuang。yanjiufaxian，nanrenfenjuduojiurongyichugui，zheiyinqilerenmendeguanzhutaolun。youxierenrenwei，fenjushijianyuezhang，nanrenchuguifengxianyejiuyuegao，yinweitamenhenyoukenenggandaogudan、gukulingding，xunzhaobierendeanweiguanxin。danshi，yeshiyoufenxirenwei，zhenzhenzhengzhengzaijuedingshifouchuguideyingxiangyinsubudandanshifenjudeshijianye，erhaibaohangerendegexing、jiazhiguannian、hunyinpinzhidengzhuduoyaosu。buguanzenyang，zheizhongqingkuangrengdaishenrufenxi，yigenghaodilejienanrenzaifenjuzhuangkuangxiafeichangrongyichuguideyuanyinjitizhi。

　　男人的情感圈套

　　fenjushihunyinzhongchangyongdetongchuhuanjie，budanduiyunvxingdaozhixinlizhuangtaichongjixing，duinanrenyeshiyiyang。danshi，womenbixuyaoguanxinyigewenti：nanrenfenjuduojiurongyichugui，zheishifouchengweileyigexianshishenghuodefengxianxingni？

　　分离出来所引发的孤独与期盼

　　zaifenjuqinei，nanrentongchanghuihaipaguduyuqipan，shitamenminganqingxudebiaoda。jingjifudantisheng、hunyinguanxiliekaidengduozhongyinsu，shitamenxianruwukenaihedangzhong。zheileiqingganlidekumenheduijiarendexiangniankenenghuiyinqiduibierenliuyidexiangwang。

　　寻找满足引诱之途

　　fenjushi，nanshihenyoukenenghuimanmanchennizaiwaibudeyinyouzhong。fangshijiyudetigaoshitamenbijiaorongyijiechudaolegezhonggeyangyigexindejiaojiquan，zaiqizhongyoumimanzheyourenbumingyaosu。zheichuletigongledadaoxiangwangdejiyu，yeshinanrenduihunyindezerenxinyousuojianruo。

　　心理防御的分裂

　　fenjushi，nanrenduifujianxinlifangyudexuyaoyuelaiyuezhiguanzhongyao。danshi，zhangshijianfenlichulaishitamenwufadidangliruqinggangudu、zibeixinlidengxiaojiqingxuqinshi，feichangrongyirenshoubuleyouhuoheyinyou。budebuchengren，zheiyeshinanrenfeichangrongyichuguideyigezhuyaoyuangu。

　　人生价值观的改变

　　nanrenzaifenjuqineijingchangsisuorenshengyiyiyumubiao，renshengjiazhiguanyekenenghuifashengyidingdegaibian。takaishizhongxinsikaohunyindejiazhiyiyizheiyangdejiaose，jiarujuededuifangbuhuizaihehuziworenshidekending，neiyangchuguizechengweileyizhongtaolishiji、zhuixunxinshenghuodetaidu。

　　科学合理的交流和突发事件处理

　　hunyinkunjingzhong，chuangjianjishiyouxiaogoutongdefangshishihenzhongyaode。nanrenzaifenjujieduan，liyingjijixunzhaoxinlifudaoheqinggandeqingtu，bingjijicanyuhunyinwentijiejue。fuqizhijiandelijieyuzhichikeyibangzhunanrenbaituokunjing，jiangdichuguifengxian。

　　正确引导重构婚姻关联

　　fenjuyihou，fufuyingdangxiangzheruhezhonggouhunyinguanlian。bicinengtongguotishenghudonghegongtongdezhutihuodonglaizaicigoujianqiqingganlianluo，tigaoxianghuzhijianderenkeheyouhaodu。chucizhiwai，jishichulihunyinzhongcunzaidewenti，gaijinfuqizhijiandelengmomoshengganyeshifeichangzhongyaode。

　　结束语

　　nanrenfenjuduojiurongyichugui，nanrenzaifenjuqineifeichangrongyichugui，zheishiyigefuzaqiemingandewenti，neirongshejidaoqinggan、shenglixinlishehuifazhandengduogefangmiandeyinsudeyingxiang。lejiehejiejuezhongzhongyinsu，tishenghunyinzhongbicidejiaoliuyuzhichi，cainenggenghaodejiejuefenjuqineidekunjing，congershixianfuqiganqingdehemuhexingfu。